Will saying sorry repair all?

Once Brijesh and Tara realize jiji's true colors, they will say a sorry to Nahar-Saloni and Bhabo. But will things really be the same again? Is it realistic for people to completely overlook bitter words said in the past? Personally, I feel that although you forgive a person, the relationship never remains the same and takes a long time to even normalize. According to me it will be unrealistic if they show Tara's and Saloni's relationship to become as before. They may be cordial and wish each other well and help eachother, but may never be the close friends they once were.
There was a movie where a joint family has squabbles. Although everyone is sorry in the end, the oldest son moves out saying that it is better sometimes to stay far and have a good relationship. Once bitter words are said, even though issues are resolved, the slightest provocation could again result in fights and past will resurface. I think that is very practical. Not sure if SP will go the same way or if the characters will be unrealistically mahan.

Sorry about the long and winding post. Comments are welcome.

yes it will repair. I agree with you to a degree. monica. But with the time people forgive and forget. Also sometimes depends upon how much you love a person. And how big hearted a person is. Usually older brothers sisters tend to forgive younger ones considering that they are young. So I don't think it is unrealistic for Brijesh and Nahar share same house and same love again. They say when the pots are together they sqabble sometimes. bartan bajte hai. magar ek bhi ho jate hai. here brijesh behaves like younger bro and Nahar like older. So I ma sure nahar will forgive him. besides nahar knows it is Urvashi and tara's doing.

yeh bt wen everythings better i think saloni wil try to bridge the gap between them all because shes gt such a big heart lyk with wt she did for kaveri even though kaveris been horrible to her
maybe nahar and saloni wil be able to forgive n live with them, but brijesh n tara wont be able to forget how badly they behaved with both of them - they will prob be reeli embarassed so the relationship may not be the same as b4 or as comfortable

interesting topic...............i think nahar and brijesh will definitely patch things up because they are afterall brothers by blood.............................

as for the two sister-in-laws..............since saloni doesn't have the average character that seems to exist in todays society.............i'd say she'll forgive tara completely........i don't think tara will have the same relationship though because she will feel embarrassed....by the things that she has done towards saloni..................................................

one thing i can pretty much guarantee........once this whole mess is resolved is that................nahar and tara definitely won't have the same relationship as before............as in nahar won't look at her as his mother form.........basically it won't be that close as before.

Like you said tripler, its an interesting topic. It would be interesting to see how the reaction would be. Would it be forgive and forget or would there be bitterness. Now I really understand, why our elders say that we have to be careful about the words that come of out of our mouth... never know when they will come back to haunt us and bite us..
But I don't see any of these happening soon.. I am sure they are going to drag Urvashi's kissa as much as possible and more harsh words and deeds are going to be exchanged.

No wonder they say tonuge is more power ful than sword. big wars happened bcos of tongue. I fdraupadi had not called duryodhan blind mahabarat would have been prevented. Swords can go back in it's case but not spoken words.

I think, in actual life if such harsh words are exchanged among relatives in a family, it's almost impossible to get back to the way they were..yes, all will be forgiven verbally, but there will definitely be a distance, and will never be like it was before. Now here, it will be diff. this is a serial, so after everything is said and done, and all misunderstandings are cleared, i'm sure they will show all happy with each other as they were b4. The things that happen here are so unrealistic....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i recon apoligizing works but only if it is trully meant but things never be the same again

you can forgive as much as you want but it is very diffucult to forget(in real life, not in SP of course.)

Originally posted by: mamis

you can forgive as much as you want but it is very diffucult to forget(in real life, not in SP of course.)

and in everyother zee drama e.g ved in stnk

simran in astitva

bani in kasme se

mamta in mamta i can carry on all nite