Cv did not butcher DS character

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divine_ram

@divine_ram

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

DS character was never totally positive. She had always grey shades just like jagya. It was her guilt that changed her negative nature towards anandi. She was always in favor of jagya than anyone in the family. In the hospital scene she did not accept jagya bcos she felt he was wrong but now that she thinks he has changed for good why not get us happiness back. Anandi was never a poti in correct sense. When she never thought about anandi feelings how can we expect her love towards shiv. He is still a outsider. I feel it will be shiv you will teach her the lesson of trusting her pota again. I only wrong thing cv did was hurriedly showing DS asking jagya to take back jagya. They shld have hoon it in a better way..letting her think more about the situation.

Edited by Sheetsden - 13 years ago

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Jan50

@Jan50

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

I totally agree with you. DS was a shady character. Selfish to the core. No sense of ethics. Whatever j is today, it is because of her.they have just shown her real character. She was upgraded all these days. Now it is her normal character.

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vamita

@vamita

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Dear Sheets,

Yeah, agreed that dadisa's character was not completely white here and she had shades of gray all through...But when Jagya left and married Gauri, she saw Anandi's pain and realized how wrong she had been and her mistakes were the reason Anandi was where she was...! She changed herself and became Anandi's grandmother and did everything she could including arranging marriage of Shiv and Anandi...She told Anandi that she was her grand daughter and will go out of this house as one and she is not some animal that they keep taking her and tying her from one pole to other...She told Jagya that if she did forgive him, then she would be do wrong by Anandi...She promised Bhago that she would marry Anandi to Shiv and see through her happiness...

She stood so strongly by her like a grand mother should be and suddenly seeing Jagya's few tears, she forgot everything? Ok, she asked her for Jagya's happiness...She got her reply right...Anandi clearly stated that she can never accept Jagya back and she forgave him just so he could get his family back, not because she wanted him back in her life and she herself said that she can never forget the pain, though she forgave him and she can never wrong Shiv...What more proof she wants that Anandi has accepted Shiv and wants to move forward and not want to get tied to her loving ladesar again...So, she should have accepted it and said so to Jagya, saying like him Anandi moved on and she is her grand daughter too and will support her decision and ask him to do the same...But no...She suddenly seemed distant and not very happy with Anandi's decision...! That is what is more wrong...She should have supported Anandi's decision and should have been strong and supported her, knowing she was right from where she was coming...But no, just because her ladesar did not get the toy he crazily wanted, she is upset at everyone...! Shiv who she told again and again that he was like son, asked for devi ma for their happy married life...Everything went in vain...It feels like, everything she ever told to Anandi or Shiv were shallow words...!

So all her principles and all her values evaporated in thin air, just because her ladesar is crying now before her...? Cvs showed a old person changing by her own will, and suddenly showed her weak, as well as loosing every principle and value she has within her...! Her promise meant a world to her at one time, and suddenly they are showing they mean nothing...That is what is undigestable...!

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Nach_Baliye

@Nach_Baliye

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

@Vamita, yes DS seems so changed now, all her principles are out the window. However, this is realistic. Blood is thicker than water, so it is natural for DS to change. One aspect of DS has not changed - she will go after what she wants regardless of the feelings of everybody around her, she doesn't care what the repercussions are.

DS was soft for Anandi and felt bad for her. Now she thinks Jagya has changed, and she will go after Anandi and Jagya's reunion like crazy just like she went after Shiv. She will go to any lengths for Jagya-Anandi reunion. It wil be frustrating to watch, but this is totally in character for DS. In fact, DS didn't get mad at Jagya even after he brought Gauri home, she was mad at him only after she found out that he sold the locket she gifted him. Her going after Shiv had nothing to do with what Anandi wants, rather it was to wipe out her own guilt. So DS has always been selfish. In fact I was finding it hard to believe her change towards Anandi, how she has become so positive that she is willing to marry her again. I find the current DS more believable and in character.

At this point its best for Anandi to move to Khajan's place, she has no place in DS's house with Jagya around.

Also, people are blaming Bhairon. Bhairon can help Anandi only if Anandi doesn't keep interfering and becoming the martyr. Every time Bhairon speaks up for Anandi, Anandi goes against him, so he is helpless. As they say, God helps those to help themselves. Anandi has, with her actions, proven to be a doormat when it comes to DS and Jagya. If she doesn't help herself or even stand up for herself when Bhairon supports her, Bhairon cannot do anything.

In a way Anandi herself is responsible. She pretended to be Jagya's wife. She should have put her foot down and refused. Even now she is quiet, she should tell Jagya she is not interested. Also, when Jagya spoke about their previous moments in front of Shiv in the hospital, she was quiet. So why will Jagya and DS not take her for advantage?