Have we become insensitive to Death & Vio

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I sit to eat my lunch. TV is on.

CNN Newsflash : 12 killed in Iraq as the war continues on...

"Nothing can be done about this war!" I think to myself as I flip the channel to watch a TV Serial instead.

Then somewhere between commercials it hits me. 12 DEAD. 12 fathers... 12 mothers...12 brothers... 12 sisters...12 sons... 12 daughters... No pictures shown, no names mentioned of those who passed away. Just 12 PEOPLE all reduced to a number.

Most of us are in grip with the reality that there is a war going on, and for a moment we mourn the loss of another person. And after that instant, we carry on with our life. So Have we, in today's society, become this insensitive to Death and Violence? And if yes, is there anyone/anything to blame?

I am just new here so don't know if this is a repeat topic 😊 If it is, feel free to lock.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Sand...Im struggling with this every day... Things have become so depressing now..i have stopped watching BBC or news channels.. i mean 600 innocent people with one third children killed in Lebanon... Iraq every day 30 people killed... Africa... Sudan...Asia ...Rebels...Non-Rebels..Terrorism..War... All of it is resulting in deaths and nothing else..

Just a few minutes ago i was talking to my papa.. and i said to him that people are not doing anything on deaths.. and papa replied "Human worth is down to ZERO in this era"... i further asked "God Forbid, for instance if we got attacked any day... wht will we do?? Nobody will even come to save us" the answer is "All of us have to die one day...we will die too.. but how .. that's not clear... one may die due to a heart failure, accident, natural calamity... or Terrorism, War, Rebellious fights.. the ultimate result is death.. so why worry"

My father is correct here that human worth has gone down to ZERO!!!!.. Sometimes i ask .. wht am i doing here... just doing debates.. studying... eating.. sleeping.. sometimes laughing if i got a chance... and then i blame myself for my insensitiveness... and this cycle is going on and on and on for many days... i don't know the end abt it.. but to say that we all have gone insensitive ... unless and until God Forbid We become victims, then only we cry and point... otherwise we are following in the "Chill life" philosophy to move on... and im hating myself for this!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Great topic mommy. 😆 😳

I totally agree wid u. I mean when a US solider die in Iraq they do so many things I mean they mention him n put his pic n stuff... N they cry so much over 1 person.

But when a person in Iraq dies no1 cares. N over 200 ppl die in Iraq die they dont even mention them. 😕 I mean so many died but no1 cares. I mean when sumthing happens to sum1 in our fam they get to know how it feels like to lose sum1.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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You know,a couple of days ago i was thinking the same.

its so strange isnt it that when it come to 9/11 the public observe 2 minute silence but if we were to observe 2 minute silence for the amount of people killed in iraq then we would have to do it everyday.

if a soldier is dead,the whole public cry
if an innocent citizen is killed..it is ignored 😭 😭
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Guys, I read this article two days back and as it is relevant to topic I thought to share it with you guys. It is sad, but true.

A Dance of Death
by Joyce Marcel


"Want a little warm-up?" asks the waitress as she splashes more coffee into my cup. "Need more milk?"

We're sitting in front of huge plates of eggs, bacon, home fries, and toast, my mother and I, in a diner in Saratoga Springs, N.Y. It's our annual immersion in the New York City Ballet - 11 ballets in three days - and we're still in a state of bedazzlement and wonder.

The diner is packed, maybe because there's a downpour outside. Waitresses and busgirls hustle by us, going in all directions, while people crowd into booths and jam themselves around large tables.

Everyone is eating large amounts of food off larger plates. Massive hamburgers, piles of fries, stacks of pancakes with ice cream scoops of butter melting on them, bacon and sausages piled on big fluffy omelets, all the coffee we can drink, individual servings of cream, toothpicks that come in their own plastic wrappers.

In the background, on a large television screen, terrified people are fleeing Lebanon.

Looking around, I see slender women with long nails, fat women with lost necks, big-bellied men in polo shirts, older men in bonding groups, and lots of extended families.

It's hard not to wonder what these well-fed Americans think about this newest war. Do they think about it at all? Do they know? Do they care?

Bountiful America, land of comfort and plenty. A place where living is high and credit is easy.

A place where most people have cars and not even $3 a gallon gas can stop mother and I from traveling to another state to enjoy a ballet company in which gifted men and women live their lives devoted to the ancient art of making beauty out of movement.

Bountiful America, where entertainment is a God-given right.

Bountiful America, where we are not called upon to make sacrifices for our wars, but are called upon to shop, instead.

Bountiful America, where no one has ever cowered from a bomb.

My mother talks about a ballet we saw the night before, "Vienna Waltzes" choreographed by George Balanchine in 1977 to a series of waltzes by Franz Lehar and the Strausses. Five waltzes, played by a live orchestra, and elegant couples in gowns, jewels and formal wear - from several eras - waltzing romantically and gracefully in lush forests, gardens and ballrooms.

Mom is puzzled, she says, because she has seen this ballet many times, and it is not as she remembers it. It seems she is confusing it with a similar ballroom ballet by Balanchine, La Valse. In that one, Death crashes the ball and carries off one of the guests.

To both of us, it seems an appropriate metaphor for the times.

It has been a splendid series of balls, hasn't it? We have dressed in our finest - to suit our individual eras and tastes - and whirled around the world, taking gold from here, diamonds from there, perfume and Champagne from France, oil from everywhere.

We have invaded countries at will, claiming to promote democracy but in reality pushing a particularly virulent form of unfettered American capitalism.

We have taken over whole countries to suit our needs - Panama when we needed a canal, Central America and Hawaii for fruit, Iraq for the possibility of controlling its oil.

We have become the richest nation on earth, and as a corollary, the fattest. We have become lazy, greedy, selfish and brutal. We have stopped caring about - or even acknowledging - our fellow human beings around the world.

News of this outer world is crammed into 22 minutes on television in the evening, or ever-changing headlines on the Internet. We barely turn around to see people running from bombs. We can't hear their screams over the clatter of our dishes.

Untold millions are dying from AIDS and it barely scratches the surface of our happy, bountiful world. Polar bears are drowning and the planet is choking on our fumes. Darfur is dying of starvation while butter melts on our pancakes. The Israelis are bombing the Lebanese while we enjoy our eggs. Iraq has fallen into civil war for no good reason except that our president likes to play at being a man.

With our toothpicks individually wrapped in plastic, we swirl around the dance floor, hardly noticing that Death has crashed our ball, or that it is dancing with us all.

Joyce Marcel is a free-lance journalist from southern Vermont. A collection of her columns, "A Thousand Words or Less," is available through joycemarcel.com.
Edited by sowmyaa - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Great topic, Sandy.

Its true. We have become insensitive.

Some of us are like the people in the article posted by sowmyaa - we are too detached from events happening in a distant land. We simply dont care. We see it every day and are "bored" of the same old stuff.

Some of us get shocked or horrified initially. But, in the end, only a sort of numbness remains. Its the concept of Diminishing marginal utility in a more macabre scenario.

Who to blame? We can only blame ourselves for not caring enough. Who knows? Maybe if everyone became a little more sensitive to the pain of others, we wouldn't have so many wars.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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It's funny that u mentioned only Iraq in ur starting topic.. Thank god that the number of people that are dying there are even noted on our news! But, there are millions of people dying in Africa every day! Do we hear anything about that? No! It isn't even broadcated in our news, simply because it's one of daily happenings.. And, why should they broadcast them, rite? Africa isn't for America's benefit in any way! Africa doesn't have rich oil souce, or are they on procress of making powerful nuclear weapons! Africa isn't gonna do any harm to us, so why should we care about them? If u do something, it's our money that's gonna be "wasted" and we won't get anything back, but if we don't do anything, that money can be used to built some new weapons, and defend ourselves! So, let's built some new weapons!

That's the thought that is among many Americans now! They don't even care, or know about that things that's happening around the world! If we did care, don't u think something about Africa would be posted in our news everyday, or don't u think Africa wouldn't even have to be noted because maybe all, or most AIDS/other diseases problems might be solved? The citizens in US are too selfish to think about anything else but them. And, even those who do care, are forced to forget about it, because you need money to be able to do something, and those who have money, well don't even let me start! So much violence going on around the world, and some of us don't even care, or know, simply because we know that whatever happens around the world, we'll be safe in U.S! Noone can do us any harm here in the great land of U.S. Like in the article posted by sowmyaa, we're becoming too much like those people.. And, maybe that's the beauty of America to some people, and so many people want to come here, simply because of that feeling of safety, and not having to worry about happening around the world! And, that is one big weakness of U.S., the careless and the selfish nature that everyone has...

And, who's to blame.. Well we can't exactly blame ourselves either, because after reading this topic, I know that there are many people like you and me in this world who do care, but we're too helpless to do anything. So, I blame this world, for giving so much importance to money and caste and religion/enthics differences, and for many people who are able to see the difference in that same red blood that flows within everyone, and are fighting for nothing while only taking away the innocent lives of many people...
Edited by achal - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Sowmyaa di.. after reading ur article i remember my mom's words :"Excess of anything whether wealth, selfishness, greed, or massive blood-shed, poorest people around, deep amount of hopelessness..All these things lead to severe destruction. When people feel very secure, very fulfilling, greed over more and this situation reaches its height, the time is coming for a dark night!"
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Gr8 topic...I think too sometimes of this huge contrast between human lives..some are dying out of starvation and wars...and we are sitting here, sulking over even the silliest things, not knowing how safe we are..how blessed we are to just be alive.

Everywhere, in each channel and each page of the newspapers, there's pieces about people suffering and dieing...WHen I first read it, I am shocked and worried..and then I move on..back to my life's problems...or we just forget about it..after seeing it so many times..that's so bad..what can we do about it..we must certainly do something about it.. Maybe we could atleast pray for everyone, to make this world a better place...atleast we can do that...or be a bit more grateful for our lives...

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