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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: gemstar

you actually used the word INCEST for a mother and son🤢
no wonder pr forum is going from worst to extremely non-redeemable pathetic forum

Gemstar, that's the best you can do to go off on this post and thread and forum? Seriously.
Yes, I actually used that word but clearly you have not taken out the time to read the word "emotional" before it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: The_HawkEye



Well! not that Laila2009 does not know what incest means, but in fact WE possibly don't know what Emotional Incest means. 😃 We tend to jump and our emotions are triggered by a single word. Well I am sure you must be aware that


social intercourse - communication between individuals
but just reading the word intercourse can trigger different emotions.

From the internet: This is one of the many available.
Emotional incest occurs when a parent sucks (don't take this word literally 😆) dry a child to fill their own inner emptiness that is really the parents responsibility to fill. Dad and Mom are supposed to give the kid energy. When a parent abandons himself or herself, gives up on the future in many ways, that parent latches on to the kid to fill the chasm that occurs from self-abandonment. While it might not be as traumatic as sexual incest (wow this is what I initially thought it was😕), it occurs for the same reasons (See @TM we were close..😉)- a wounded parent using a child addictively to get love and avoid pain.

PS: I also understood this terminology now. My first reaction: I thought @TM is suggesting po*nography in PR. 😳 Since I have understood this now I can identify this EI in DABH and in Kairi.. wow I am now an expert on this subject. 😃

Thanks to @TM and @Boredomom for making me do some research on this subject.

Thank you. I am no way implying that Savita is trying to sleep with Manav etc. She loves him dearly but a bit too much to the point she's suffocating him. She expects him to be there all the time and "take care of her." The type of emotional support she wants should be coming from her husband. I see women who want their daughters to spend time with them because they have empty marriages...as a result they deprive these girls of a social life.
Savita constantly wants to take Archana out of Manav's life. It's not because she just dislikes Archana, but she does not want anyone in his life. She wants to be the center. She raised her own kids but she took Sharvni's and Archana's to raise as her own.
I dislike this show in that it sends a very bad message that it is OK for a MIL to do all these things and nothing should happen to her. We should respect our elders; in-laws should be part of their children's and grandchildren's lives but NOT like this where they are turned against each other for one's own selfish needs and they have no fear of the consequence.
No matter HOW bad Archana might be like, she is a MOTHER and no mother would ever (there are rare exceptions which I will not aruge) will generally hurt her child.
Moreover, when a man marries; families need to butt out and allow that relationship to take it's course. The wife becomes a priority. Archana's an awesome DIL, so there is NO excuse on Savita's part to act this way - this is all her and part of her, tragically, insecure, selfish and mean personality.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#23
True...
Only savita is happy with what all she has done...look at poor souls tej ovi manav damodar...all have transformed into absurd minds...🤪
none of them has their own thinking capacity...
she wants whole control in herself...therefore she shooed archana out of everyone's life...

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