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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaala

I agree..."Incest" is not the right word...



i third the opinion
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nirvanlove



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i disagree strongly

I respect ur opinion...but that is wat I strongly feel about Savita
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: boredomom

What rubbish ! Do you even realize what the word 'incest' means?

You are using it incorrectly on this topic. Look up a dictionary before making such posts.

What is illegal? Savita trying to keep her son away from her daughter-in law? Which law states a mother in law is legally at fault by doing so?

Yes, I do know what incest means. Do you know what the word "emotional incest" means? I suggest you look it up before you decide on reprimanding me. The term is used in western psychology to refer to parents who engage in getting their emotional needs met from their children and it especially refers to mother-son relationships. It is not physical or sexual but incredibily unhealthy and dysfunctional.
The fact that Savita is trying to keep her son away from her daughter-in-law is wrong. In fact what she has done is illegal - lied, falsified documents, misrepresented her son...all of these things are illegal and in the west subject to prosecution. Even further, these are morally wrong behaviors.
The question is why does she fear so much for son to be with someone else? He's a grown man with his own needs. Does she seriously think he wants to spend the rest of her life with him? Not only has she got her claws in Manav but also Archana's children. That's both cruel and sick.
If Savita is forgiven for these actions...and Manav was actually trying to defend her by telling Archana that she raised her duaghters like they were her - does NOT legitimize or forgiven what she did. That to me, does not negate what Savita has done.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I just have one doubt!
Is forging someone's signature on divorce papers legal?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nirvanlove



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i disagree strongly

WHy do you think she is a good mother? Manav was raised by his uncle, his brother Sachin and Vanadana were raised by her and he was not a picture of resposnsibility in any way in fact she used to encourage him to steel from manav. Vanadan turned out to be a weak woman who put with her husband beating her. S asked her married son to divorce his wife so he can give his mname to sachin and sharvni's son. She abandoned her daughter in the hands of her abusive husband and took off to Canada leaving her all alone with no support. She has disrespected her husband because he does not earn money...ok so please do tell what did you do to raise the kids as a good mother? NOTHING. No she is not a good mother.
SHe has loved her grandkids but BY GOD Soham was loved by Varsha too... whats the difference in what Savita did and What Varsha did... oh I forgot Savita went one step further, took archana's husband along wiht her kids varsha only took the kid! SHe has made Ovi and Teju's life full of bitterness and hatred thats not what good grandmas do that is what KKK clan did keep the rage and feed the hatred... no sorry not a good grandma!
Staying with a good for nothing husband does not make you a good wife, just makes you a wife. Vandana is also staying with her abusive husband! So bottom line is Savita is a model that has no redeeming features. Really so far not a damn thing comes to mind!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Oh yes, yes Savita is so wrong and suffers from emotional incest🤣🤣...she should have given Manav up to Archu and K in a golden platter😉, a golden goose no less who could have given a few more lakhs (oh, no a few more crores) to the K household, cleaned their toilet, cooked at their weddings and get a few more slaps from his darling Sasuma,no less, and she should have taken that drunken alcoholic liver diseased dumb hubby to a nice little Vridhashram and pay for living there by working at her age😉...that could have been sooo right, the right thing to do , no less, after all that happen all the time in West,...Evil evil Savita...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bang ON! Honestly you are so right! This show has been going on for wayyy tooo long... I don't think I like anyone on this show anymore... I dislike even the good characters... UGHHH
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: justme42

WHy do you think she is a good mother? Manav was raised by his uncle, his brother Sachin and Vanadana were raised by her and he was not a picture of resposnsibility in any way in fact she used to encourage him to steel from manav. Vanadan turned out to be a weak woman who put with her husband beating her. S asked her married son to divorce his wife so he can give his mname to sachin and sharvni's son. She abandoned her daughter in the hands of her abusive husband and took off to Canada leaving her all alone with no support. She has disrespected her husband because he does not earn money...ok so please do tell what did you do to raise the kids as a good mother? NOTHING. No she is not a good mother.
SHe has loved her grandkids but BY GOD Soham was loved by Varsha too... whats the difference in what Savita did and What Varsha did... oh I forgot Savita went one step further, took archana's husband along wiht her kids varsha only took the kid! SHe has made Ovi and Teju's life full of bitterness and hatred thats not what good grandmas do that is what KKK clan did keep the rage and feed the hatred... no sorry not a good grandma!
Staying with a good for nothing husband does not make you a good wife, just makes you a wife. Vandana is also staying with her abusive husband! So bottom line is Savita is a model that has no redeeming features. Really so far not a damn thing comes to mind!

Well Said!!!!!!ClapClapClap
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: boredomom

What rubbish ! Do you even realize what the word 'incest' means?

You are using it incorrectly on this topic. Look up a dictionary before making such posts.

What is illegal? Savita trying to keep her son away from her daughter-in law? Which law states a mother in law is legally at fault by doing so?



Well! not that Laila2009 does not know what incest means, but in fact WE possibly don't know what Emotional Incest means. 😃 We tend to jump and our emotions are triggered by a single word. Well I am sure you must be aware that


social intercourse - communication between individuals
but just reading the word intercourse can trigger different emotions.

From the internet: This is one of the many available.
Emotional incest occurs when a parent sucks (don't take this word literally 😆) dry a child to fill their own inner emptiness that is really the parents responsibility to fill. Dad and Mom are supposed to give the kid energy. When a parent abandons himself or herself, gives up on the future in many ways, that parent latches on to the kid to fill the chasm that occurs from self-abandonment. While it might not be as traumatic as sexual incest (wow this is what I initially thought it was😕), it occurs for the same reasons (See @TM we were close..😉)- a wounded parent using a child addictively to get love and avoid pain.

PS: I also understood this terminology now. My first reaction: I thought @TM is suggesting po*nography in PR. 😳 Since I have understood this now I can identify this EI in DABH and in Kairi.. wow I am now an expert on this subject. 😃

Thanks to @TM and @Boredomom for making me do some research on this subject.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: justme42

WHy do you think she is a good mother? Manav was raised by his uncle, his brother Sachin and Vanadana were raised by her and he was not a picture of resposnsibility in any way in fact she used to encourage him to steel from manav. Vanadan turned out to be a weak woman who put with her husband beating her. S asked her married son to divorce his wife so he can give his mname to sachin and sharvni's son. She abandoned her daughter in the hands of her abusive husband and took off to Canada leaving her all alone with no support. She has disrespected her husband because he does not earn money...ok so please do tell what did you do to raise the kids as a good mother? NOTHING. No she is not a good mother.
SHe has loved her grandkids but BY GOD Soham was loved by Varsha too... whats the difference in what Savita did and What Varsha did... oh I forgot Savita went one step further, took archana's husband along wiht her kids varsha only took the kid! SHe has made Ovi and Teju's life full of bitterness and hatred thats not what good grandmas do that is what KKK clan did keep the rage and feed the hatred... no sorry not a good grandma!
Staying with a good for nothing husband does not make you a good wife, just makes you a wife. Vandana is also staying with her abusive husband! So bottom line is Savita is a model that has no redeeming features. Really so far not a damn thing comes to mind!




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