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sry yaar...was unable to reply to the below in time...so replying now...


Bhabo is a Bad Lady , and Mother .

, She Maintained a Boss - Employee Releation , Work Minded , No interference in Personal Matters , Same Bhabo is Boss Talks about Family Expenses , Worried of Oil , Kaju , Badam Pista fruits ,

see i mentioned boss-employee relationship just as an eg...where it's wise always to react...at times v need to be silent...

as far as life has taught me...i ve learnt something called as sense of proportion..wat, where, wen, who, whom & how to talk..the reason 4r mentioning dis ll say...

u say she is worried abt oil...work minded...

tell me onething..wat do u expect frm formation indian constitution and indian laws...r u under da the expectation dat she is a professor...yaar she is an illiterate, typical country women and a house wife..her knowledge is confined only in management of house holdings...

dont know whether u accept..every drop of water makes ocean...u talk abt she always speaks abt usage of these things...can i tell u something..once upon a time our family dint ve proper 3 square meals..my mom used to feed us and my dad and she used sleep many mind empty stomach...but 2day v r living in a metropolitan city in own house...u ve mentioned bhabho is worried about oil, kaju...my mom has diligently utilized groceries and managed household expense and was able to create some savings and gave a significant support to my dad during the construction of our own house...so if bhabho is talking abt proper utilization of articles...dont take it in a wrong sense...if she is talking abt family expense...it's nt wrong...if a eye is nt kept on it...one day u dont wat ll happen...

i dint understand ur pt " No interference in Personal Matters "


She is Not a Kind of Mother that we Like . She never lets freedom to her Kids . But House is not Office Right To Maintain B-Employee with Mother ,

it's true dat she her approach is nt v gud...she lets v less freedom...dat is the drawback of this character...but it doesnt mean dat she maintains B-Employee relationship...

Mother WOW one Wonderful Creature of GOD , am really feeling sad that am giving reply by yelling on a Mother on Mothers Day . She Must be Like a Best Friend , what is she ? Insanest woman ---------bhabho is nt a insanest woman...she luvs her family to the core...but her hitler approach is nt gud...she blindly believes her children who is backbiting her...but she is unaware of the same...

Mother WOW a Beautiful Word . A Mother is the one Who Treats Everyone as her Child ----------- agreed

But Bhabo she Treats only sons and her Daughter Reasonably , Taunts DIL UnNecessarily , in the Name of SAAS Adikaar , Patni Rules , U cannot do a Work what ur Heart Feels , Bcoz now u became a Bahu to Some House , So u Have to Leave all the teachings of Parents and Live here as we Want.

----------- if u ve time pls see the below link...i ve posted on apr 16 "analysis on bhabho's character"...see she believes in one tradition where it says once a gal gets married has to follow traditions & customs of in-laws place as she no more belongs her parental place(but nt sentimentally / emotionally)...but it doesnt mean dat gals ve to leave the teachings of their parents...

http://myeduniya.com/Entertainment/TvSerials/?SCID=394_Diya_Aur_Baati_Hum

Bhabo - Mother only Name Sake ... , Her Heart is a Gutted Motherly Heart

as far as i ve felt she is actually nt a bad woman but...definitely with some extremities in her character...i wud say pls go thgh the link dat i ve mentioned above i mentioned almost all the points relating to bhabho rt frm the beginning...i can say only dat..

Suraj -


Not Upto Mark of Perfect , Only a Husband , -------to a dry person like sandhya...he's not only a perfect...but more than dat...pls watch previous episodes...u ll get to know how much he has done...every step he has saved her...i ve never seen such a nice husband...


Who Promises that he ll welcome Nayi Soch , But never Show make that Before his Mother , Whats the Need of Doing that by hurting Himself and Showing Blood to Viewers and Sandhya , Cant He Tell We are going to College to take Her to College for ceremony . Its the Result of her HardWork , In those Meadals she sees her Parents Love , Care , Affection , Harkword. Now her All her Memories are in Materialised Form , Cant she give Even a Materialsed Love of Parents too ? What a Mother Man ? ? Chi Chi !!!

a correct required...sooraj has never promised Nayi Soch...becoz he's a ficitious character...it's DABH CVs who have promised nayi soch...so pls blast them & nt sooraj...

regarding prize distribution ceremony...i think u ve nt watched the episodes properly...if u want to recall pls watch it once again...as soon as sandy's college principal left his house...it was sooraj who immediately approached his mother and asked her to permit sandy to attend the funcation...she dint accept...i.e., the reason 4r him to play such a drama...pls again dont comment on dis...becoz as per bhabho a gal's real achievement is in kitchen...and the same she preaches her daughter also...pls see the episodes...how she bashes chavvi be it teaching preparation of rotis, masalas, stitching...this shows the limitations of her knowledge dat's it...


Whats the Need of Doing Chup chup ke Without Saying , She is a Mother Right , If he says Her Mother feels Happy if sandhya Takes those awards , Will She Deny ? Ok Lets Think she Denys , But think Wats the Reason to Deny ? This Agin Tells she ia s Hollowed human Too .

she is definitely with principles...but with lack of knowledge...dat's all i wud say...

Coming Back to Suraj --- where are the Promises of Nayi Soch ,Why was he Not delivering those Promises ?

can u tell me wat promises a fictional character sooraj has made for Nayi Soch...i dont remember...can u pls list them??????

Bad Husband , Bad Mother !!!!!!!

definitely a NICE & SWEET husband...come on yaar...show one person who agrees his wife after she says dat she cant accept him for ever...

I ll nt say a bad mother...but definitely I ll say her approach is not proper ------- HITLER APPROACH

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Posted: 13 years ago
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U Like Suraj , Like him , Love him , If u have not seen such a good husband ever , Just continue , No Problem . U have never seen such a goody husband ? No Problem .. Enjoy to see Mr, Suraj Rathi .

U Like Bhabo Like her , Love Her . Adore to her Restrictions on Grown children , Enjoy to see her Thumb , Fist Grips on Adults .


Everyone is Entitled to their views .

I dnt get any Husband Perfection in this Character . For ur Kind Information I watched Every Episode of this Show , No need to go back to recollect.



BTW have a Look Here too :: https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/diya-aur-baati-hum/2976122/sandy-the-unwise


BTW i dont Like to Follow other articles , other sites .

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Oh I read ur Post Just Now , Bit by Bit , Word by Word.

U got a Crush on Suraj and Anas Rashid that was very Clear . Try to see a coin other side Figure , dont see either of Figure and Say this is World , We have to Make ur Mind Broad to Make Articles .

I Really Appreciate , U. U Gave Analysis on crap Characters Like Bhabo , Wow , Such a Wonder , I have to say U are Very Very Brave , Stubboorn Hearted Woman , U gave analysis , on her centuries Ago Practices , whose Behaviour is of English ruled India Some 300 Years Ago.

I really Appreciate u, People Still Like U are Revolving Around the Chracters Bhabo , with Full Love ,People with Old Fashioned are Still there In India , this am seeing From Some Article Makers, , Analusis Report Submitters and the Supporting Behaviour with silly Excuses and Serching Faults on Sandhya to excuse the Unclepable creature of Earth Bhabo and Her son , Who are Immature , ill - Minded .

I Admire ur Views Finally , Love Bhabo Unpluggedly , UnLimitedly ... Love this Spineless Husband Boundlessly ,... Love this Crap, Shameless Family Restlessly ... With Love ❤️



Edited by ananth12 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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PEOPLE Who Say Sandhya Dont Understand Suraj Are The Real Insane People And Dont Know The Importance of this Character , Dont Know Girl Feelings, We WILL KNOW ONLY WHEN WE GET MILS LIKE BHABO AND HUSBANDS LIKE SHAMELESS HUSBAND , SURAJ . Then when People Ask why were not Falling in Love with Suraj , then Atleast then , that Moment V will get Answer and Understand how Sandhya Must be Feeling .

OMG am Fainting to see some poeple analysis , I read some Posts on some other threads too . with lot of Timid , Minded words in those Posts .

We Should not Put Posts and full of Timidness. Try to Change our Mind B4 we start Writing a Article in a Forum or in any Forum or Site

I think ,We need to Watch Satyameva Jayate Every Week and Write Articles that Lift Spirit , Poor Talents of Writing Skills and Understanding Skills of this Generation.

People who Yell at Sandhya for Suraj Feelings also need to Watch Aamirs New Show , Atleast then u read a Girls Mind , V are Asking her to give Fake Feelings under Force .

V are Supporting Suraj, An OBIDIENT PET OF BHABO , Who never goes Assertive and Spineless only Worthy For Mother , Family But Not Wife .


Kind Request to Article Writers , Do Download Every Week SJ show , Watch the Show Thoroughly , and then make Article , No Problem Even the our Great India Cricket Team Watch Chak De India , Patriotic Songs , National Anthem , B4 going to Match and get Spirits , If they dont have Spirits Atleast then they vill Get and Come with Pride Outcomes 😊 .

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Originally posted by: ananth12


Oh I read ur Post Just Now , Bit by Bit , Word by Word.

U got a Crush on Suraj and Anas Rashis that was very Clear . Try to see a coin other side Figure , dont see either of Figure and Say this is World , Make ur Mind Broad to Make Articles .

I Really Appreciate , U. U Gave Analysis on crap Characters Like Bhabo , Wow , Such a Wonder , I have to U are Very Very Stone Hearted Woman , U gave analysis , on her centuries Ago Practices , whose Behaviour is of English ruled India Some 300 Years Ago.

I really Appreciate u, People Still Like U are Revolving Around the Chracters Bhabo , with Full Love ,People with Old Fashioned are Still there In India , this am seeing From ur Article , Analusis and ur Supporting Behaviour with silly Excuses and Serching Faults on Sandhya to excuse the Unclepable creture of Earth Bhabo and Her son , Who are Immature , ill - Minded .

I Admire ur Views Finally , And I really Pray for GOD to give u a MIL like Bhabo and even more a triple times Squarer than her , If u are Married , I Pray GOD to chnge ur MIL to Bhabo and if Possible More Raw. Love Bhabo Unpluggedly , UnLimitedly ... Love this Spineless Husband Boundlessly ,... Love this Crap, Shameless Family Restlessly ...



Hey, You are getting personal here. You have no right to say anything about the forum-member's personal life and make a prediction of his/her life. You are here to argue/discuss/criticize/talk about the show, NOT ABOUT THE FORUM MEMBERS. You should apologize to the person for attacking her personal life rather than her thoughts and views about the show and its characters.
Attacking the person, making the argument, rather attacking the argument is not accepted in this forum. Please apologize to the person. Otherwise I will have to report to the Channel Moderator.
Thanks.
Please try not to bring in someone's personal life in the future, in any forum discussions.
Thanks once again!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@_Mahi _ ::

Oh Ok Thnk You , Edit Made , in the Form of Apologise , Could u Edit ur Post too

Thanks and Regards

Ananth

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Guys Just Chill , Dont take Personal

Hmm , I think Both the comments are Considerable, One is Saying common this is country Woman thought, and the other is Saying common take a Bold step ,
One is Saying to have a restricted Life without chaging the other persons and the other is Saying to Lead a Barrier Less Friendly Life .

I think conserved Life we cant stay , under the Fist of someone behaving Rudely

And i do think its ,Time and Generation , to Not Support her Practices by ignoring her with the Backwardness thoughts , Definetly a Change is Needed and So I take My Stand on Change and Boldness as I Always Tend to see the chnge in behaviour rather than Ignoring their Well - Thoughts [Limited thoughts]


NOT Offensive !!!!!! Its Just My POV
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ananth12


Originally posted by ananth12
Oh I read ur Post Just Now , Bit by Bit , Word by Word.

U got a Crush on Suraj and Anas Rashis that was very Clear . Try to see a coin other side Figure , dont see either of Figure and Say this is World , Make ur Mind Broad to Make Articles .

I Really Appreciate , U. U Gave Analysis on crap Characters Like Bhabo , Wow , Such a Wonder , I have to U are Very Very Stone Hearted Woman , U gave analysis , on her centuries Ago Practices , whose Behaviour is of English ruled India Some 300 Years Ago.

I really Appreciate u, People Still Like U are Revolving Around the Chracters Bhabo , with Full Love ,People with Old Fashioned are Still there In India , this am seeing From ur Article , Analusis and ur Supporting Behaviour with silly Excuses and Serching Faults on Sandhya to excuse the Unclepable creture of Earth Bhabo and Her son , Who are Immature , ill - Minded .

I Admire ur Views Finally , And I really Pray for GOD to give u a MIL like Bhabo and even more a triple times Squarer than her , If u are Married , I Pray GOD to chnge ur MIL to Bhabo and if Possible More Raw. Love Bhabo Unpluggedly , UnLimitedly ... Love this Spineless Husband Boundlessly ,... Love this Crap, Shameless Family Restlessly ...



Hello...Hello...Hello...

I think u need to mind ur language in da forum...& maintain the basic mannerism and discipline of the same...
everybody has his/her own pt of view to any aspect...
I ve given my pt of view...& I ve managed not to make assumptions as u ve made...
watever I given in the dat article it's based on the telecasted serial...
If u r nt ready to agree my comments...u r most welcome to provide counterargument 4r the same...
but u dont ve any rt to aske me to take back my comments...
Also u ve mentioned dat i ve crush on Anas Rashid...i think u ve to mend not only ur language also passing personal comments...as in my article I ve mentioned anything abt the actor...i ve just analysed 2 fictional characters sooraj & bhabho...hope u need to control urself while passing comments and ensure u r nt abusing any member in the forum...u r abusing fictional characters like bhabho & sooraj 4r their rude behaviour...
but u ve forgotten the basic mannerism of responding to a unknown person...
I hope u r matured enough to understand dat u dont ve any rt to abuse any member of the forum personally...


4r ur kind info...i ve mentioned dat bhabho thgh nt bad @ heart...is of extremities...think u understand english which means nt a perfect character...which is of lack of practical knowledge...
a question to u...pls dont mind...dont whether u r married r nt...if ur husband says dat not to expect anything frm him as he cant do any justice to u..wat wud be ur response?????????

u ve spoken dat i dont understand girlish feelings...as i'm a gal...i can definitely understand girlish feelings...& also understand men feelings...watever i ve spoken tried to be impartial...nt only u many ve said sooraj is spineless...but let me tell u onething in the game of life both husband & wife are partners who need to play actively to gain their innings...here one person is playing actively and another person doesnt cooperate...so watever sooraj has done is more than enough to sandy...now his rude behaviour...dont know how cranky CVs of this show take it...but with dis rude behaviour also he is the looser...remember dat...in dis mess of marriage he is the looser...
Moreover I had few questions in the post...think u vent answered but started abusing me...
if u want prove ur comments pls cum back with ur comments with egs of episodes in the serial...if I find satisfactory I dont mind in accepting urs...
GOD BLESS U!!!!!!!! as I dont want to fall down to ur level in abusing
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There are Many Posts where we said Sandhya Saying that Answer , Not to Expect Anything was Reasonable , We Understood her mind , Felt her tension and Peace Less Life , Indirect taunt of sex Life from Bahbo ,. Many Agreed and said Right with wat she said , her piece of mind was in . Husband wont offend for her , but she has to be in a way , He wont try to maintain peace , he wont give her what she want , but he expect everythin from her .How Meaningless it was Going , It will be a Beendini Life then , Not a Carrer Oriented Gal LIfe !!!!

But still I dont get , Why People are swinging on this point and Yell at her all the time .

Coming to ur Question ,See , If my Spouse Says Not to Expect Anything from her , I wont at all consider that comment, I will wait for her ,coz i know she is communicating with me , but need time in a way of that , I feel her Stress position is maing her to say like this . and i feel Time Changes her coz I know No Person stand on this Statement Life long , else i will Let her free From tensions and make her Secure All the time , If Possible i will create a friendly Environment in Home , but Not a Head Bending Situation i wont make to my spouse , and i wont bend too , If I feel something is moving beyond the balance , I wont Bother , First i make my mother Brain wash and make come out of centuray ago like u said country woman thoughts . Bcoz its My Duty to make My Mother Sane reather than Letting her Behave Wildly , its My duty to give a Place to My Wife in my Life and in a Place where i am Staying . But I wont Bend My Head Silently Like Suraj . After all it was My Duty to Maintain Balance between Releationships


Have A Look here Please , I feel i made a discussion to say something , I dont think I have Fallen down,I think I wrote What i Felt by reading ur Article Songs and Post songs, Dicipline Will also be considered by our thoughts, I dont think Decipline is in the Form of Accepting Injustice , Decipline in the form of Excusing ,People who are Flawed , As the Next Generation comes there Thoughts Changes and those thoughts are needed to cope with this World , Next Generation should make the People with sane Thoughts , Writes Reports /posts with Reflection and Glaring Thoughts , My Decipline is in My Thoughts , Not in Accepting Elders Torture in the name of Respect , When they dont have Manners , they dont deserve Respect . They dont Deserve Respect in any way , [this is note said by Aamir in recent show , I think many BWard thoughts People should Follow this point , this is the reason i say People who write Analysis should watch SJ , so that when People read their Articles , in some or the other way they are Implementing Good Manners ] , Infact I feel People who are Supporting Backward Thoughts have Fallen down in my sense ,😆 And I dont think i Supported Any Backword thoughts , Instead i Posed Ques , why do want to behave / Suppoert them . Only People Ignoring/ Supporting InSane Behaviour with Excuses will Fall down in Every one sense . I dont think i did this . I was always Friendly in accepting a sane Behaviour from People Around me . 👍🏼 BTW i dont mind if people dont agree with my sane behaviour ⭐️

This is my Last Reply , I dont have Patience to Discuss on this , Offend on the meaningless thoughts , coz I think I have Covered all the points i felt like Saying ,

And GOOD BYE

with No take of Supporting ill / Coward treatment , WRITE GOOD SPIRIT FILLING ARTICLES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 👍🏼

ITS GOOD FOR U AND US TOO to READ THEM ⭐️ .

*** AND Anyways GOD BLESS TO U TOO !!!!!!!!!!! ***
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Originally posted by: ananth12


There are Many Posts where we said Sandhya Saying that Answer , Not to Expect Anything was Reasonable , We Understood her mind , Felt her tension and Peace Less Life , Indirect taunt of sex Life from Bahbo ,. Many Agreed and said Right with wat she said , her piece of mind was in . Husband wont offend for her , but she has to be in a way , He wont try to maintain peace , he wont give her what she want , but he expect everythin from her .How Meaningless it was Going , It will be a Beendini Life then , Not a Carrer Oriented Gal LIfe !!!!

But still I dont get , Why People are swinging on this point and Yell at her all the time .

Coming to ur Question ,See , If my Spouse Says Not to Expect Anything from her , I wont at all consider that comment, I will wait for her ,coz i know she is communicating with me , but need time in a way of that , I feel her Stress position is maing her to say like this . and i feel Time Changes her coz I know No Person stand on this Statement Life long , else i will Let her free From tensions and make her Secure All the time , If Possible i will create a friendly Environment in Home , but Not a Head Bending Situation i wont make to my spouse , and i wont bend too , If I feel something is moving beyond the balance , I wont Bother , First i make my mother Brain wash and make come out of centuray ago like u said country woman thoughts . Bcoz its My Duty to make My Mother Sane reather than Letting her Behave Wildly , its My duty to give a Place to My Wife in my Life and in a Place where i am Staying . But I wont Bend My Head Silently Like Suraj . After all it was My Duty to Maintain Balance between Releationships


Have A Look here Please , I feel i made a discussion to say something , I dont think I have Fallen down,I think I wrote What i Felt by reading ur Article Songs and Post songs, Dicipline Will also be considered by our thoughts, I dont think Decipline is in the Form of Accepting Injustice , Decipline in the form of Excusing ,People who are Flawed , As the Next Generation comes there Thoughts Changes and those thoughts are needed to cope with this World , Next Generation should make the People with sane Thoughts , Writes Reports /posts with Reflection and Glaring Thoughts , My Decipline is in My Thoughts , Not in Accepting Elders Torture in the name of Respect , When they dont have Manners , they dont deserve Respect . They dont Deserve Respect in any way , [this is note said by Aamir in recent show , I think many BWard thoughts People should Follow this point , this is the reason i say People who write Analysis should watch SJ , so that when People read their Articles , in some or the other way they are Implementing Good Manners ] , Infact I feel People who are Supporting Backward Thoughts have Fallen down in my sense ,😆 And I dont think i Supported Any Backword thoughts , Instead i Posed Ques , why do want to behave / Suppoert them . Only People Ignoring/ Supporting InSane Behaviour with Excuses will Fall down in Every one sense . I dont think i did this . I was always Friendly in accepting a sane Behaviour from People Around me . 👍🏼 BTW i dont mind if people dont agree with my sane behaviour ⭐️

This is my Last Reply , I dont have Patience to Discuss on this , Offend on the meaningless thoughts , coz I think I have Covered all the points i felt like Saying ,

And GOOD BYE

with No take of Supporting ill / Coward treatment , WRITE GOOD SPIRIT FILLING ARTICLES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 👍🏼

ITS GOOD FOR U AND US TOO to READ THEM ⭐️ .

*** AND Anyways GOD BLESS TO U TOO !!!!!!!!!!! ***



Exactly, there were many posts supporting dat statement and also there were many posts criticizing dat statement...every person has his/her pt of view...agreed dat she is passing by tensions...1. the reason 4r her tensions is either her fault r her negligence r frm some other corner tensions start...2. do u remember sooraj insulted her infront of all his neighbours in ganghor festival...it was a real shock to her as he was her sole support in dat house and her life...the very next day wen a govt officer came to their house 4r bribe...she dint ve impact of dat insult is it?????she blasted dat officer & went to the shop & starting picking up samples without waiting 4r sooraj to cum...4r such things i think no insult has impact on her...is it?????????

i think u r wrong in saying he expects everything frm her...i ve nt seen even a single episode he expecting something frm her 4r the support which has given...u r talking abt career oriented gals life...

my pt of view is here...

b4r providing my comments...i do admit dat story in any serial runs as per the direction of the CVs of dat serial...

Practically, in sandy's case...she was best to decide 4r herself to know wat she wanted in her life...wen she knew dat she needs a career oriented life...she shudnt ve agreed to marry @ first place until she was ready 4r the same...i do agree dat she fought with her bro but he emotionally threatened her...at some pt...she became weak and compromised...but while compromising she shud ve thought how far she can compromise and wat ll be the impact of her compromise...she dint do it...all these career related things r supposed to be discussed b4r marriage itself dat she dint do...she got married and she was the first to know the hidden facts behind this marriage...as she knew wat she wanted in life..she shud have thought if she cud live with an halwai...if she was ready...she shud ve revealed the facts atleast to sooraj and had discussed abt her ambitions which she dint do even he asking her 4r the same...if he agrees to fulfill...prob resolved...doesnt agree...option 1: compromise and be his wife option 2: if cant compromise say the facts and say good bye...and pursue with her dreams...this is something practical...this shud ve happened in the beginning itself wen she got to know da facts...but instead she doesnt want to leave her ambitions and doesnt want to disclose them also...doesnt want to either to accept him / leave him...this is really a stupid thing not taking right decision @ rt time...& after so many months she telling to sooraj cant accept him was really bad...
I really appreciate ur empathetical understanding dat u ve narrated abt ur same position with ur spouse...in ur case dat might be true & correct...but in sandy's case she meant wat she said & v cant say dat it was due to her peaceless life...becoz while she was living peacefully also she never showed any int in him...if she is nt inted in him...she shud ve said dat in the beginning itself as she is ving all the right to say dat becoz even she was betrayed in dis marriage mess...

this is da reason dat ppl r yelling @ dis character...

speaking abt the expectations of bhabho r sooraj...

as far as my opinion is concerned there is no fixed rule dat every person shud the same goal in life...whether educated / uneducated...it's none of ur business r my business to say dat the expectations of bhabho / sooraj is not gud / correct...can i tell u something even many educated gals dont wish a career oriented life they wish to get married and settle so do u say dat they r useless...i ve seen many guys / my male colleagues telling they want a luving & caring wife & nt earning wife...do u mean to say they r useless guys???wat an individual aspires in life is the sole rt and freedom of dat individual...
prior to marriage bhabho was clear in her expectations...it was sandy's bro who betrayed both sandy & rathi's family...sandy was also clear abt her aspirations in her life...v dont ve rt to say watever bhabho expected is wrong...but she dint take rt decision @ rt time which is her fault...if was taken...she neednt ve had endured such a shit dat she is enduring now...she herself is the creator of the hell dat is created around herself...i dont know how far u accept dis...but as per my standpt...as & wen v leave some weak pts around us crooks like meenakshi, mohit & chavvi definitely doesnt loose the opportunity of misusing da same and create a mess around us which wud ve longlasting impact and we wud be the victims...

cuming to ur pt of educating ur mother...i wud say dis definitely a positive pt...but one thing..ROME CANNOT BE BUILT IN A SINGLE DAY...it's really impossible to educate a person in one day...as per my experience in life if in the ladder of knowledge a person is standing on the 2nd step and another person is standing on da 5th step has to bring dat person to the same level has to go down to dat person's level give supporting hand and take him to further steps...sometimes v need to go in the way of elders and enlighten them abt the changes in the society...just standing @ our level and trying pull elders up doesnt succeed...frst bend ur head in front of ur elders and then lift...

cuming to ur discipline of thought...ur discipline of thought is focussed only on sandy's character...but my discipline of thought is dat my focus is divided b/w 3 characters...bhabho, sooraj & sandy...
bhabho wanted bindini who is wellversed with household chores and who can be a luving, caring wife of her son sooraj...sooraj wanted a life partner who is luving and who can be friendly with all his family members and who respects & serves his parents a lot, but is open-minded person 4r any changes dat is positive & unharmful to his family...sandy wants a career oriented life...

now also i wud say dat bhabho is not bad @ heart...but she needs lot of relaxation, yoga & counselling...I definitely agree with dat...u see bhabho as insane character...i see bhabho as a mother whose heart is crying 4r her son's life...she believes dat her son's life is @ stake as he doesnt ve a deserving life partner...now i dont want to quote any episodes frm the serial dat has made her to believe dis...like a wounded lioness she bombards which is suiting her character...but sometimes she has crossed the limit which is nt gud...I do agree with this..

sooraj is a selfless nice person who without expecting anything frm anybody just gives light to them without any discrimination...he luvs sandy a lot without any expectations frm her as she is principled, truthful and v caring 4r his family...and he is unaware of her ambitions...his thinking is v empathetical...some say he is spineless, dimwit...but i say a strong character dat appears to be v mild...i remember bhabhasa telling abt sooraj he is nice until he is nice but once he takes a strong step nobody wud be able to stop him...

sandy a career orientd gal...principled, truthful, concerned abt society, social awareness...agreed with dis..but lack of commonsense. confused, confusing, dry character...as some ppl mentioned she is more booksmart and a street stupid...she is more concerned abt other ppl rather than correcting her life...no saint has said dat spoiling our life v shud interfere in other's matter...

as per my discipline of thought in DABH, the conflict is b/w the differences in aspirations / expectations of ppl...so there is a need of an pt of union which happens with compromise / adjustment frm all the characters...v need to wait & see 4r the same...

My discipline of thought is this...just a person shouts / yells doesnt mean dat the person is bad / insane...if v r matured enough need to know the reason 4r da same and provide a solution 4r it...i think this is nt a backward thought...as u ve mentioned...😵

My discipline of thought is until a person's intentions r bad...i dont consider dat a particular person is bad...becoz no person is perfect...every person has strengths & weaknesses...i think ppl who r matured enough ll know dis...

My discipline of thought I ready to accept any thoughts / ideas dat is sensible whether it's small / big...many times even small ideas / thoughts do ve a big impact...👍🏼 I'm ready to accept it irrespective of the origin of the idea either frm educated / uneducated background...becoz degree is just a first step to actual education and life is the teacher who teaches a lot...

My discipline of thought is not confined like urs only to a career oriented gal as society can't be inhabited with only career oriented gals...society is big and it is filled with diversified attitudes, cultures and mentality of ppl...so while writing posts i wud definitely ensure dat my posts focus on all the characters, points...dat is my way of writing posts & if ppl r nt matured enough to understand the same i dont mind 4r it...⭐️

U said dat watever u ve felt u ve written reading my article songs and post songs...i welcome ur response 4r the thoughts rather than ur curses/abuses which u dont ve any RIGHT 4r it...❓

I too dont ve patience on discussing dis matter again...with the experience dat I ve got in my life i make analysis of characters...

I dont ve the habit of supporting illtreatment / coward treatment...😆

thnx 4r ur advice of writing gud spirit filling articles 😛

THOSE WHO HAVE ENOUGH MIND MATURITY WILL UNDERSTAND THE POINTS AS IT IS AS I HAVE NEVER ANALYSED ANYTHING FROM A SINGLE POINT OF ANGLE...IF U WANT TO COMMENT ON THIS PLEASE DO COME BACK ON THE SAME WITH EVIDENCE...⭐️

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