Sandy the unwise.

Same Feeling I got After that TV segemnt . What sandy Taking headaches by involving in that Matter ?

But U Know What I had an Answer For this And I sat silent , Even ...😆 .

The Answer is Her Selflessness Makes her Unwise ,. 👏 👍🏼 . Good But It makes Troubles , and She is Fighting Spirited Gal ,[ IPS Lady ] Fights for Even Knowing there is , No Support . But a Hope .

And the Second Thought I got Is May be Social Awareness , From their Show , TO Put a Break on Marriages of Gals , Specially Educated Gals , B4 Getting Self-Dependent .

Originally posted by: Hiral_Madame

Wisdom. Small word but crucial. Most of us, By the time we're 18,19, adults, we have acquired some. It comes from observing,listening,remembering. We begin to recognise that certain actions will bring certain consequences. We understand ourselves and others. So we live and learn. Our environment teaches us. Our companions in life, parents,siblings.spouse...even our children teach us many object lessons.

Now the point is, why does Sandy poke her nose in and speak for Chavi? I'm assuming that when the engagement happens, she tells Dilip and family to wait for Chavi to finish her degree?

I ask you, will you do this in Sandy's shoes? Your husband is showing signs of intense conflict, your MIL is barely tolerating you, your SIL is scheming ...you KNOW all this, and you still open your mouth and invite trouble?

Okay, forget in-laws. Your HUSBAND is barely holding it together. You have just had an altercation with him on a trip, still nothing has been resolved, he's still saying things about you and pushing you away in front of his family...and you open your mouth? In front of all your in-laws AND visitors?

I'm not a sage who has amassed vast stores of wisdom, but even I know, that I need to keep my mouth shut in the above situation.

Originally posted by: Hiral_Madame

ananth12: her selflessness makes her unwise?

if that's selflessness, then I don't want it. Being selfless doesn't mean you ignore other people's feelings. wait for the right time and place. if ppl don't respect you to start with, are they going to listen to you?

so she what? says it and expects to be attacked? so when Suraj throws her out, she knows it's a price she has to pay for Chavi's education?

okay then. so that's why she's in a bigger mess end next week.

Originally posted by: Snehalatha2012

No offense but isn't tht sandhya character? She did the same even in maasa village even then she was humiliated treated badly but still she raised her voice and saved that marriage ...thats what we admire her ... For sandhya studies are important her life her dream everything how will she nt speak for chaavi isn't tht a good thought even though she can't study she want her Sisin law to complete studies ...in regards to suraj anyways he's lukin for an opportunity to throw her out if not this he will surely find a way to throw her so at least this way we still respect sandhya views ...

Agree with u

This is the Reason I like her Character, Even in Darkness She Gives Light .

Originally posted by: rsvparam11

dat isnt selflessness...i.e., foolishness..do u know something...wen in mahabharat wen draupadi was dragged to the places by dushyasan and he tried to stip off her clothes..did Lord Krishna cum immediately to her rescue????he dint cum to save her until she prayed and called him...

so where there is no respect...shudnt poke our nose...

in maasa's place it worked...but everytime it doesnt work out...in maasa's place guy's BIL supported her...but here there is nobody to support her...& she doesnt know wat chavvi wants...so it is wise to be silent...

Originally posted by: Hiral_Madame

aaah exactly!!!! this is a big part of the story! has she talked to Chavi about this? Has she asked Chavi what Chavi wants? has she advised Chavi?

oh she just makes one blunder after another.

Why Does a 83 % Merit Cadidate Likes to stop Studies , If there is time to Discuss on that she Would Have asked Chavii , After sgaai , They will discuss Marriage dates . There wont be time . If Chavi Feels Objection She Would Have Stopped Sandhya , BTW How can we Not Expect Sandhya to invove in this Issue ? When it s A Education End question of Ones Life ? A Glorifying character Of Story , If there is No Sandhya , Who Will Make them aware of All these things ? Ghar Ka Sab Log Padi- Likhi Nahi . So Sandhya She Need to Poke Her Nose to Make them cognizant ...

Originally posted by: rsvparam11

dat isnt selflessness...i.e., foolishness..do u know something...wen in mahabharat wen draupadi was dragged to the places by dushyasan and he tried to stip off her clothes..did Lord Krishna cum immediately to her rescue????he dint cum to save her until she prayed and called him...

so where there is no respect...shudnt poke our nose...

in maasa's place it worked...but everytime it doesnt work out...in maasa's place guy's BIL supported her...but here there is nobody to support her...& she doesnt know wat chavvi wants...so it is wise to be silent...
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In maasa place only the guy Bil support her I agree but her chaavi fiance and his whole family supported her infact they agree with sandhya it's same circumstances but only different is suraj but he agrees to tht whole heartily but hes just acting to throw her out for her own good ...this is nt foolishness if u want do something good u can't wait to see other opinions sandhya can't stand tht whenever wherever something wrong happened she try to stop it she doesn't see the places circumstances ...when her married life was at stake in maasa village she worried for the other whom even she doesn't know much but chaavi is her sis in law she is the member of the family whom she thinks is hers how can she keep quite ... If she keeps quite there is no justification for her character