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Posted: 13 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: sahil70

must say gayatri is right arti and her ansh ansh is getting too much .

True today Yash explained the same to her.She's only creating problem for her son and nothing else.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: cimba

i would also not say hatred for them as much as their characteristics.

May be only one i hate so far is Pari. By default in my personality i have no tolerance for makhaan laga ke types. Too much butter for me. She is not sweet but very sleek ,who goes as far as going to give her used sari as a gift to get what she wants.
arti is for sure is over reactor as far as things are concerning her son. Are you hurt is the first line comes out of her mouth... i could care less about her tries to win anyone over but she should stop over protecting and pampering Ansh. she is most irritating character for sure. She makes me not like Ansh. It is like stay away from those overreacting,overprotective moms and their kids.
vidhi i adore ,who is a sweet lady, good daughter in law and a great sister in law for the new comers. Poor thing have no time for hubby since the two do nothings are no good for anything.

I don't hate Paridhi, but I definitely find her the most annoying bahu. You're right...she's more sleek than sweet. She used to be sweet, but now she seems very selfish to me. She doesn't care if she leaves all duties to Vidhi and Aarti as long as she can leave the house and work at her office. Having a career is one thing, but if a woman doesn't want any household duties to hamper her career, then she shouldn't get married, but if she does get married, she'd better make time for her family or else no one but her is to blame for the consequences.
I do find Aarti irritating at times, but she's a lot more tolerable than Paridhi, and even to an extent Vidhi. Vidhi could make time for her husband if she wanted to, but she's like the opposite of Pari. She's so absorbed in housework that she neglects her husband, which is also not good as we can clearly see. If she wanted to make time, she could literally force Aarti and Paridhi to cook dinner for once without her, and go to the movies or something with her husband. She has that right after working for 18 years for that family.
Aarti should definitely stop being so possessive of Ansh. She's hampering his growth and only making his behavior worse, but right now...I think Ansh kind of needs her love. True, she still shouldn't smother him, but until everyone in the house treats him civilly, he needs Aarti's attention.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#13
I knew i should not have clicked on this before bed...now i will have to respond...

First of all it's been like 2.5 days post marriage...cut them all some slack...

ok i admit all 3 are not flawless heck they are humans so it's impossible...but i do NOT believe the problem is the bahus at all...it is their MIL...

Vids: yeh shes obssessed with the household and clearly ignores her hubby...and of all 3 she is the one that should be putting down the house rules...if she even mentioned or delegated the other 2 would step up...but she doesnt believe the other two can handle the work or frankly jus doesnt trust them to do at as good as her...what she needs to realize is that if she doesnt start to delegate and teach now (while aarti's already gettign yelled at so who cares if she makes square parathas instead OCD circle ones)...and the panks vids drama will come in a little bit later this is simply the beginning of the ground work...once aarti is settled thats when the true vids drama will begin...

Aarti: as a great role model always said, "OH Puh-leeze" michelle tanner had it right. It's been 2.5 days since she's set foot in this alien land of gurukuls and paramparas...shes trying to get her footing and in the process shield ansh from psycho dadis and archaic schools of thought...and lets not forget the one person she was supposed to be able to count on as a CO parent...yash...has just checked into the parenting world of ansh like 5 hours ago...so meanwhile she is trying to protect her son from getting locked in damp dark rooms, making food for a billion ppl who btw are ver ocd, trying to get a handle on a man who never talks and she knows nothing about, dealing with two very spoilt bratty girls who quite frankly have been spending too much time with their crack head dadi...so yeh she's slackin a bit in the cookin dept ...but guess what if she was left to her own she woulda handled all that shit and more (i will refer to scooter epi where she not only dropped ansh off but picked up veggies on the way home...multitasker anyone??)...as for the ansh ansh ansh...give hte woman a break...she's a mom...and no one in this freakin household respects her or her son...she's called arpi and always yelled at about hte most random of things...and ansh yeh sure he was a bit poor mannered in teh beginning (please refer to my team ansh post if your really care) but he was in a foregin place and ignored...once aarti and esp yash tookt he time to include him he's settled donw...he only acts out if PROVOKED>..and that my friend will happen till PALAK is dealt with by her spoiling father and dadi...

as for pari...all i will say is GOOD FOR YOU...you all say she knew waht she was getting into when she married prats but the truth is she didnt...in fact i remember in a epi she straight up asked prats..."your parents will be cool with me working post marraige right" and prats said YES...so if anyone is to blame its prats he lied/didnt follow through...as for muska-ing...you know what pari wouldnt ahve to resort to that if her MIL wasnt nutso...but prats isnt steppin up to the job and she sees MIL flip out over hte littlest of thigns on aarti so who can realy blame her for avoiding the fire and taking the easy way out...now we all know in the long run it is going to bite her in the behind...but we all know prats and pari are the youngsters and immature couple they will learn with time...as for avoiding household work...well vids needs to step in and delegate...she shouldnt let pari get away with murder...she should TEACH pari...but i guess i cant blame her too much since clearly MIL is dumb enough to be blinded by superficial compliments rather than heartfelt concern...

as for 21st century...i dont know where ppl think that today's women who work look "down" on cooking/housework...and that they think it's "beneath" them...now i admit i'm not from india (shocking i know right) but where i grow up the entire household is run by the female ALONE no devranis or jeetani's to help share the load...oh and you def wrok to maintain a running household...and no ram dulares either...

PS i do not mean this in any hatred or anger...it is simply me ranting 😆 and they are strictly my opinions...i respect all the views but sometimes i just have to word vomit mine 😉
Edited by arp04srocks - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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do vidhi and pankaj have kids.. i m sorry.. not followed PV from start.. if yes.. then why dont their kids mix up with arya's kids
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: qqagarg

do vidhi and pankaj have kids.. i m sorry.. not followed PV from start.. if yes.. then why dont their kids mix up with arya's kids



yes a boy and a girl...they pop up randomly...but they are usually off at school...i thinkmaybe even boarding school...not sure tho...you see/hear them whenever panks wants to get romatnic with vids 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Arpu 😆 Calm with the rage... 🤣 I done the same thing as you when I came across this post I was just getting into bed... But I do love what you have said...

Though agree it has only been a few days since they have been in the house and Aarti is making the effort, she is trying to cope with Yash's OCD and well Payal and Palak she is getting them acquainted with her because they have been nothing but bratty... and her mothering of Ansh there is nothing wrong with it, cause nor is Ansh mean without cause nor does he ever lie to her or anyone... He trusts his mother to be there and she doesn't want to break that trust in him...

As for my point on Pari - It is a joint household so responsibilities are balanced out and if they want Pari to help out around the house explicitly tell her, we all know she can't cook and well she just isn't as domesticated but it is Vids responsibility to allocate the duties out and well teach her, make her be part of the house...

And my final point how is it her fault if MIL is falling for her flattery... She should be old enough to know what is happening!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree. The women in this house need to get their acts together. Also i would like to add that Vidhi should still try to spend time with her husband because he feels that she doesn't want to. So although she has a lot of chores, she is partly to blame for thinking that she and her hubby are too old for romance.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: arp04srocks

I knew i should not have clicked on this before bed...now i will have to respond...

First of all it's been like 2.5 days post marriage...cut them all some slack...

ok i admit all 3 are not flawless heck they are humans so it's impossible...but i do NOT believe the problem is the bahus at all...it is their MIL...

Vids: yeh shes obssessed with the household and clearly ignores her hubby...and of all 3 she is the one that should be putting down the house rules...if she even mentioned or delegated the other 2 would step up...but she doesnt believe the other two can handle the work or frankly jus doesnt trust them to do at as good as her...what she needs to realize is that if she doesnt start to delegate and teach now (while aarti's already gettign yelled at so who cares if she makes square parathas instead OCD circle ones)...and the panks vids drama will come in a little bit later this is simply the beginning of the ground work...once aarti is settled thats when the true vids drama will begin...

Aarti: as a great role model always said, "OH Puh-leeze" michelle tanner had it right. It's been 2.5 days since she's set foot in this alien land of gurukuls and paramparas...shes trying to get her footing and in the process shield ansh from psycho dadis and archaic schools of thought...and lets not forget the one person she was supposed to be able to count on as a CO parent...yash...has just checked into the parenting world of ansh like 5 hours ago...so meanwhile she is trying to protect her son from getting locked in damp dark rooms, making food for a billion ppl who btw are ver ocd, trying to get a handle on a man who never talks and she knows nothing about, dealing with two very spoilt bratty girls who quite frankly have been spending too much time with their crack head dadi...so yeh she's slackin a bit in the cookin dept ...but guess what if she was left to her own she woulda handled all that shit and more (i will refer to scooter epi where she not only dropped ansh off but picked up veggies on the way home...multitasker anyone??)...as for the ansh ansh ansh...give hte woman a break...she's a mom...and no one in this freakin household respects her or her son...she's called arpi and always yelled at about hte most random of things...and ansh yeh sure he was a bit poor mannered in teh beginning (please refer to my team ansh post if your really care) but he was in a foregin place and ignored...once aarti and esp yash tookt he time to include him he's settled donw...he only acts out if PROVOKED>..and that my friend will happen till PALAK is dealt with by her spoiling father and dadi...

as for pari...all i will say is GOOD FOR YOU...you all say she knew waht she was getting into when she married prats but the truth is she didnt...in fact i remember in a epi she straight up asked prats..."your parents will be cool with me working post marraige right" and prats said YES...so if anyone is to blame its prats he lied/didnt follow through...as for muska-ing...you know what pari wouldnt ahve to resort to that if her MIL wasnt nutso...but prats isnt steppin up to the job and she sees MIL flip out over hte littlest of thigns on aarti so who can realy blame her for avoiding the fire and taking the easy way out...now we all know in the long run it is going to bite her in the behind...but we all know prats and pari are the youngsters and immature couple they will learn with time...as for avoiding household work...well vids needs to step in and delegate...she shouldnt let pari get away with murder...she should TEACH pari...but i guess i cant blame her too much since clearly MIL is dumb enough to be blinded by superficial compliments rather than heartfelt concern...

as for 21st century...i dont know where ppl think that today's women who work look "down" on cooking/housework...and that they think it's "beneath" them...now i admit i'm not from india (shocking i know right) but where i grow up the entire household is run by the female ALONE no devranis or jeetani's to help share the load...oh and you def wrok to maintain a running household...and no ram dulares either...

PS i do not mean this in any hatred or anger...it is simply me ranting 😆 and they are strictly my opinions...i respect all the views but sometimes i just have to word vomit mine 😉


i hv only one objection to ur otherwise perfect post.Palak has not been spoiled by Yash, she has been spoiled by daadi. How can u call Yash a spoinling father to Palak? in fact, he is the one to needlessly scold them sometimes( over discipline)...didn't u see he told ansh to tease payal and palak? i won't go into whether he was right or wrong in that, but surely if he was a spoiling father to his daughters, he would never have asked ansh to do so! and if u call yash spoiling becoz he cares for them, well, then there is no doubt that aarti is much more a spoiling mother for ansh.she did not even hv the courage to be strict with her son that he wasn't right when he banged plates on tables,insead she pampered him by fake scolding Yash!
I personally do not hv any problem with either yash or aarti..becoz both hv many flaws, and thats real. but when someone unnecessarily blames one of them, i can't stop myself frm defending him/her.

Topicmaker- AArti is the most irritating character?😕 I am so shocked that i hv nothing to say. All i can say is i disagree with this part wholeheartedly. agree about Pari though. she is getting on my nerves. I agree aarti's over possessiveness for ansh becomes tad irritating smtimes, esp in yesterday's epi, when she was so bind that she couldn't even realize that she was encouraging her son's fears and this would cause problems for him in the future, but we need to cut her some slack, becoz, honestly, the kind of monstrous treatment ansh has faced from gayatri has scared aarti out of her wits!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Don't worry... Yash is taking care of aarti's over protectiveness... and Paridhi... I don't think she is cheap... just a young bubbly girl who is new to this environment and a little chau purja to make her things up...

Instead of fighting she gets her things done by buttering as her husband does not have guts and she don't want to bring rift and do thing peacefully she is taking these steps...
She doe not do anything wrong and even does not support wrong... she will have to learn to take responsibility... one who need real and immediate fix Is G3... then everything will be in order

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