What Society Needs to Learn - Page 2

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I was so shocked to hear Mona had no degree? Father said she was not educated...But Mona said she does not even know where her degree or diploma was...Her life was Pradeep and kids...She never bother keeping track of them..
NEways First Mona was let down big time by her cheating husband, but then hearing her father was even more hurtful..Father let the daughter down in the time of need.
It is extremely important to have not only supportive ILs but Parents too...Having a good girl friends who are intelligent and realistic helps out alot...Women can be women's worst enemy too..
Mona does not need another man to make her life..She cand do it herself. It will take time but it is doable.
These is why I am so against parents marrying of their kids in early to mid 20s when they have not matured enough, not thought things thru, or gotten it all out of their system..
SOme of the things Pradeep was saying was hard facts...Although it sounded like Anushka talking.. Some day he is going to be on his face and thrown out by Anushka only...She will eventually get tired or he will realize she is psycho more than a good woman to be with.
Education, being self sufficient and having something of your own, good female friend for support and family supports are crucial in woman's life..
EMA has been around for as long as I have know mostly on men's part but women are also making those statisticals for a while..What I dont understand is many women think this can never happen to them..Their husbands can never cheat on them...Having the full trust and not keeping eyes and ears open...Although all signs are in front of their face, still ignore and blind eye to them..Never ever let anyone have that much power that they can destroy you like this..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree, Mona's father is so mean, he's more concerned about the society than his daughter who has suffered at the hands of her husband.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: veechafan123

I wanted Pradeep to cross over completely. Aar ya paar. Ab paar ho gaya hai...so I want to see what Mona will do.


I want Mona to stand up for herself, do her higher studies with her in laws support, get into the corporate world n rise so high that one day she will take over Anushka's company. That will be worth watching. I want Pradeep to realise whether his sapne are really worth living or is it worth living with his apne?


Amen to that! It will be even better if Mona can do that without sacrificing her family time, thereby showing Anushka and Pradeep that it IS possible to balance career and family without giving up one for the other.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

What have we learnt from this show today? Firstly, its very important for those parents who do not educate their daughters thinking what use it will be since they will just get married and not work - well this is the answer. If the husband leaves the wife and she has no education no degree then what will she do with her life? She will be reduced to suicide like Mona but unlike Mona may not have a MIL that will come to save her. So the message learnt is that it is very important for a girl to be educated upto Bachelors level or similar so that she will at least have some security in life.

Second, that even in relatively modern societies a father is still selfish enough to think about society before thinking about the dukh of his daughter and her suffering. This will also contribute to the suicide attempt. Parents need to throw away this stupid society caring and fear and care for their children first.

The theme of this show about extra marital affairs is not a pretty one but unfortunately it shows something that is becoming a very common occurence. I say good on it for opening our eyes to reality and secondly for sending some important messages to the public.

Woops, just saw another post is quite similar. I do apologise😊 But please do leave your comments😊

sanaya ??? ..wat r u doing here ? 😆😆 ..but luking at the likes on ur post ..i feel u r with the majority here ...😉 ...its a refreshing change 😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankit_34

sanaya ??? ..wat r u doing here ? 😆😆 ..but luking at the likes on ur post ..i feel u r with the majority here ...😉 ...its a refreshing change 😆😆



Well of course Ankit I never support extra marital affairs I just feel in BV its very different since it was child marriage and they never understood the meaning of marriage when they were just kids so its natural one of them has every right to marry their choice but this is just Pradeep running after money and success and being a big time cheater when he has three kids also! he didnt once think of them! And I fully support Mona and hope she never takes the guy back. Anushka is only the selfish right person for the selfish guy.

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