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Oh, come on. It wasn't Gopi's fault that his mom made him marry her. It wasn't Gopi's fault he jilted Anita that way. He took revenge for it all in the first year. Even he didn't know the kalakaaris, his behavior with Gopi wasn't justified at all. Throwing her out of the BR, calling her gold digger, slapping her, scolding and crushing her injured hand because she decorated his room, putting her down at the drop of a hat without hearing any explanation from her, and so on? We have been through all that. Yes, he was wronged, but not by Gopi. OK, he came to love her and support her, but she deserved that,didn't she? He has to do that. He is the hero and not the villain of the show.
I don't understand tears for Anita (who for all intents and purposes is moving on and is happy) are justified, but not for Gopi (who is still waiting for her husband's love) just because he doesn't know about kalakaarisš? If tears for Gopi are not mandatory, then they are not mandatory for Anita either. Why any tears at all then? What is Anita to him now? HIs past. What is Gopi to him now? His present and future. And I think Gopi was anxious and nervous just in front of him because she was afraid of his reaction, she was fine with others. Agree he did a lot for Gopi, but she also in return, has put him up on a pedestal and worships him. No matter what he does to her, she will never treat him badly on purpose, so I don't understand what should she do to pay him back for all he did for her. I thought he has been doing it because he is slowly falling in love with her, not out of some duty. I am confused why Anita deserves better than Gopi?Sorry, if it sounds like a rant. Got confused why we are going over what Ahemji did for Gopi? I thought we were talking about his reactions to Anita.
It was neither Gopi nor Ahem's fault that they were forced to marry and accept each other. It was Ahem's mom Koki's fault that she forced her choice on her son & the good boy Ahem did not disappoint her. I would call him a good son for listening to his mom but I did not like the way he broke up with Anita...as if he had strapped a bomb to her put her in a wheelchair and told her to run away from his land was he fair? Today when he can rationalize his act so was very shameful hence teary and upset. It was fine for a newly found compassionate man to be sad and upset and teary on seeing his past love/friend/well-wisher in front of him. Tears for Anita are a must to wipe away her past hurt and mental agony. He does not deserve a noble piss prize for being in tears and showing his emotional side to us audience.
For Gopi it shd be love and only love no tears!! I feel he has given Gopi the desired backbone and confidence. He shd be happy for Gopi not cry for her as together they have created some wonderful memories ...together they'll march towards a new bright horizonš³. Gohem today have built their love castle on the past hurt so hate and tears have knit the muscle stronger. So plase Ahem shd not shed any tears for Gopi now. Just my POV
Advocate Anjali Awasthi
Health and Fitness
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