Poor Ahem & his Knotty Trouble... - Page 3

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Happy debating till then :)

Originally posted by: 5cents

Varshu, Moist eyes for Anita did not feel right? His moist eyes made me make this post. It took me straight to apology land 😳. He had yelled at Gopi and has surely been not fair to her actually wronged her but he too was wronged. Being forced into a relation is never a desirable thing and that to with an illeterate is absolute no for a qualified man like Ahem. Gopi was not only uneducated but was very naive( laptop washing) had no confidence and could not string complete sentence properly and was always crying and simpering. I guess life challenges us all the time. I would say after throwing a tantrum did actually embrace the challenge Gopi😛. Maybe he was reluctant in the beginning but was amazed by her truthfulness and loyalty, so went all out and met the challenge and worked steadily with it and made that his strength and transferred his strength to her. Once he realized her problem ...He immediately decided that he'll free her of her useless anxiety and pull her out of her depressed thoughts. And you know what it did to GOPI?? It surely enhanced her self-esteem in many folds and give her hope for the wonderful future. 😳 Today tears for Gopi are not mandatory as he is completely unaware of all the kalakaries. But today he is a sensible, dignified, and responsible gentleman, facing a girl who he has wronged for no fault of hers.
hence the tears for Anitha are completely justified and shows his innate goodness😳

Originally posted by: 5cents

Varshu, Moist eyes for Anita did not feel right? His moist eyes made me make this post. It took me straight to apology land 😳. He had yelled at Gopi and has surely been not fair to her actually wronged her but he too was wronged. Being forced into a relation is never a desirable thing and that to with an illeterate is absolute no for a qualified man like Ahem. Gopi was not only uneducated but was very naive( laptop washing) had no confidence and could not string complete sentence properly and was always crying and simpering. I guess life challenges us all the time. I would say after throwing a tantrum did actually embrace the challenge Gopi😛. Maybe he was reluctant in the beginning but was amazed by her truthfulness and loyalty, so went all out and met the challenge and worked steadily with it and made that his strength and transferred his strength to her. Once he realized her problem ...He immediately decided that he'll free her of her useless anxiety and pull her out of her depressed thoughts. And you know what it did to GOPI?? It surely enhanced her self-esteem in many folds and give her hope for the wonderful future. 😳 Today tears for Gopi are not mandatory as he is completely unaware of all the kalakaries. But today he is a sensible, dignified, and responsible gentleman, facing a girl who he has wronged for no fault of hers.
hence the tears for Anitha are completely justified and shows his innate goodness😳

Oh, come on. It wasn't Gopi's fault that his mom made him marry her. It wasn't Gopi's fault he jilted Anita that way. He took revenge for it all in the first year. Even he didn't know the kalakaaris, his behavior with Gopi wasn't justified at all. Throwing her out of the BR, calling her gold digger, slapping her, scolding and crushing her injured hand because she decorated his room, putting her down at the drop of a hat without hearing any explanation from her, and so on? We have been through all that. Yes, he was wronged, but not by Gopi. OK, he came to love her and support her, but she deserved that,didn't she? He has to do that. He is the hero and not the villain of the show.

Originally posted by: aris22l

Munni, don't get me wrong. I am not maligning or misinterpreting Ahemji's character because of his tears. He is one of the most beloved characters in the serial. Since it is so rare to see him cry and he has never done that for Gopi, for us Gopi-lovers, it is natural to feel confused and jealous😳. I am sorry to keep ranting about his tears. They hurt a lot.

Originally posted by: 5cents

Varshu, Moist eyes for Anita did not feel right? His moist eyes made me make this post. It took me straight to apology land 😳. He had yelled at Gopi and has surely been not fair to her actually wronged her but he too was wronged. Being forced into a relation is never a desirable thing and that to with an illeterate is absolute no for a qualified man like Ahem. Gopi was not only uneducated but was very naive( laptop washing) had no confidence and could not string complete sentence properly and was always crying and simpering. I guess life challenges us all the time. I would say after throwing a tantrum did actually embrace the challenge Gopi😛. Maybe he was reluctant in the beginning but was amazed by her truthfulness and loyalty, so went all out and met the challenge and worked steadily with it and made that his strength and transferred his strength to her. Once he realized her problem ...He immediately decided that he'll free her of her useless anxiety and pull her out of her depressed thoughts. And you know what it did to GOPI?? It surely enhanced her self-esteem in many folds and give her hope for the wonderful future. 😳 Today tears for Gopi are not mandatory as he is completely unaware of all the kalakaries. But today he is a sensible, dignified, and responsible gentleman, facing a girl who he has wronged for no fault of hers.
hence the tears for Anitha are completely justified and shows his innate goodness😳

agree ahem was wronged...but never by gopi...if he had to throw a tantrum or take issue with he should have done it with koki...she knew exactly who gopi was...and gopi did not pretend to be anybody other than her self...as far as her being uneducated...she did not let ahem be in the dark about that...that again was koki...gopi actually told ahem abt being illeterate...too bad he was thinking of anitha at that time to listen to her...no matter what i still feel ahems tears should have been for gopi...if and when he does cry...now it will not be special...sorry did not mean to offend anyone...just my pov

His life is not fair to him, all thanx to cvs. First he had to marry the girl which his mother choosed instead of his love and when he was happy with gopi the past comes in front of him and here comes his guilt back of being unfair with her by not giving her the proper explanation. I think its normal but i want him to come out of this by asking for apology and starting his life afresh with gopi, his love.

tina what ever you said right but i just din't like the tears he have i dont think it was nesecery to show ahem with tears for anita in front of the family the most is gopi how did she feel the tears that gopi has show us how she has shattered in side her heart

Awesome OP! Awesome posts! Awesome thread!

👏a brilliant and much required post 👍🏼

Originally posted by: aris22l

I respectfully disagree, Harini. The tears should have been just for Gopi. They make sense just for Gopi and would have been beautiful just for Gopi, and not for a past love. This wasn't the right time or place or person to show them. It wouldn't have the same impact when they show his tears for Gopi in future. The CV's got it wrong this time.

Aris, this kind of divergent opinion makes the form rock 😃. I may not agree with you here but I respect your POV. Why tears only for Gopi why not for Anita? Anita was wronged for no fault of hers. The last time when Kinjal made Ahem & Anita come face to face then Anita's looks said...Ahem, nobody can love you more than me. I only wish you'd let me😭. Ahem & she loved each other ...so is falling in love a crime? Nope! Yes, they could not be together fine ...fate -which came wrapped in Koki's sermon😲... dealt a loosing hand nobody can complain. As you all are saying, Gopi too was wronged...she was asked to marry Ahem or rather forced to marry him, her choice was never considered. But she with her simple ways harmed and wronged Ahem many a times. Whose fault was it...washing the laptop was a sin believe me ( not sure how many of you work here) people who are from corporate world will agree with me that loosing data can be detrimental... one can even loose job for that. And putting that flyer in the mango boxes... the famous mango-banyan kalakari 😛lolz was the icing on the cake🤢

You call it tears...I call it a sentimental look which stemmed from his uneasiness and regret for breaking Anita's heart and relationship in such a rude way. It is a matter of seeing the glass half full or half empty. It is our perception...how we want to view it and perceive things. Ahem is not a spineless, spiritless, evil human... He is man full of compassion, love, durability, dependability and thoughtfulness so on seeing his past love right in front of him he could not mask his emotions. It just goes to show how truthful, and genuine Ahem is. There is nothing frivolous or superficial about him. He was upset seeing Anita, the x lover an outsider today, in front of him as he had hurt her badly and had broken her heart mercilessly . As far as tears for Gopi are concerned he has completely changed for Gopi. The new found love and compassion for Gopi is for everyone to see and relish.

Ahem Modi has become Gopi -Pati today so he has to apologize to Anita for Gopi's sake😉.