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Posted: 13 years ago
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This post was like a breath of fresh of air for me! ⭐️ It really is wonderful! 👏 Thank u!
His facial expressions in each episode are just becoming more and more beautiful each time!
His tears today for me finally assayed his vulnerability which perhaps personally never noticed before, but was very much evident in today's episode.
The man is finally letting go of everything that he has stuffed inside of himself and is now getting rid of!
His eyes voiced a man who is in pain...because he never really got to say a 'proper goodbye'...and when he came to face to face with Anita today...it was like he was trying to say a huge sorry to her and that he hopes one day she will forgive him.

Despite it being an emotional ride today...seeing Nazim's brilliant acting was totally worth it! 👏


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aris22l

😆 Varshu, we share the same thought process. I just said what you said in your as post.



aris...🤗...i just read ur post...great minds 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aris22l

😆 Varshu, we share the same thought process. I just said what you said in your as post.


Just one thing guys.. Ahem's tears whether it is guilt, anger, sadness, anguish or love is not wrong. If he loves Gopi now, he did love Anitha once..
He may not love her anymore but he once did and it is actually justice that he does pay some homage to a relation that would have given him joy in the past..
When Ahem remembers Gopi, he smiles.. That makes their relation what it is.. Not Ahem's tears.. When the memories of a relationship give you pain, then it means you get over it.. But when it gives you joy, you keep it with yourself forever.
Ahem is trying to close that painful part of his past.. Tears I think makes sense and is beautiful😊 Just my PoV
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1


Just one thing guys.. Ahem's tears whether it is guilt, anger, sadness, anguish or love is not wrong. If he loves Gopi now, he did love Anitha once..
He may not love her anymore but he once did and it is actually justice that he does pay some homage to a relation that would have given him joy in the past..
When Ahem remembers Gopi, he smiles.. That makes their relation what it is.. Not Ahem's tears.. When the memories of a relationship give you pain, then it means you get over it.. But when it gives you joy, you keep it with yourself forever.
Ahem is trying to close that painful part of his past.. Tears I think makes sense and is beautiful😊 Just my PoV

I respectfully disagree, Harini. The tears should have been just for Gopi. They make sense just for Gopi and would have been beautiful just for Gopi, and not for a past love. This wasn't the right time or place or person to show them. It wouldn't have the same impact when they show his tears for Gopi in future. The CV's got it wrong this time.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tina dear thank you... thank you...thank you/... thank you so much reason harini told ,,,😛

first a HMT hug🤗

- went away and stayed quite, it was pathetic and disheartening to see Ahem's character being minced and made meatballs and made a soup of it...
- when he confesses or hugs gopi... he will be the sugary sweet, chocolate pie...and he will be the vanilla ice cream
-this is what i feel is hypocrisy

- when he hurt his ex-girlfriend ..broke her heart,..it was not an amicable break-up.. being a truthful and honest person.. i expected him to be sad and guilt and the guy went ahead with the same expressions of sadness guilt and tears... had i not seen tears in Ahem's eyes for his past hurt and guilt today... I would not be here defending him and i would not have liked his character...

-how many years it might be ... the way you break up will always bring back the hurt and pain.. if you are human enough you will feel the pain... if he was not human enough... he would not even care to look at her.. he would just have his hand on his wife's waist and be sipping a soft drink in the wedding hall... and that is definitely not the Ahem Modi i want to see...he has to feel the hurt and pain he caused to anyone... in the past...not only Anita

- Hypothetically ... if everything was said and done.. that is confession and proper SR was over.. then comes Anita... gopi would be more hurt than now.. the same guilt and hurt would haunt Ahem... this is only for hurting Anita... so it would return anytime later...
but now is the best time... he will get over the past get a closure.. gopi will know Ahem's closure on his past.. she will have a closure and be secure with out the apprehensions of ever facing Ahem's past again
Anita will have a closure - Ahem and Gopi are happy in love and marriage ..she will go her way

if Ahem shed tears for Anita why are these tears misinterpreted.. why is his character maligned...
Ahem to me is doing perfectly brilliant and i expect any person to do what Ahem is doing


sorry tina.. got to comment after 3-4 days of being silent ..so the rant became long😛

Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: varshu27

They should nab

aris...🤗...i just read ur post...great minds 😆

🤗 Varshu. I am glad you feel the same way about the tears. The tears are so rare in Ahemji, they should be saved for really special occasions. And an ex-girlfriend no matter how loving or loved ain't it. They shouldn't have wasted these precious tears on Anita. Really diappointed in the directors of the show.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: aris22l

I respectfully disagree, Harini. The tears should have been just for Gopi. They make sense just for Gopi and would have been beautiful just for Gopi, and not for a past love. This wasn't the right time or place or person to show them. It wouldn't have the same impact when they show his tears for Gopi in future. The CV's got it wrong this time.


Perceptions do differ Aris😃 It is alright..
To me Ahem Parag Modi's tears today was a homage to Gopi's love than to his past love for Anitha.. If it had been just because of Anitha, Ahem would have shed the same tears 2 years back when he jilted her.. His tears today tell me the man he has become from the one he was due to his Gopi and these tears are the proof of the fact. Her love has made him realize the value of love.. Whether it is his, Gopi's or Anitha's.. So yeah.. I love it and I do not think the CVs are doing anything wrong. Again just my PoV😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lovely post dear...feel sorry for ahem ...!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad



Tina dear thank you... thank you...thank you/... thank you so much reason harini told ,,,😛

first a HMT hug🤗

- went away and stayed quite, it was pathetic and disheartening to see Ahem's character being minced and made meatballs and made a soup of it...
- when he confesses or hugs gopi... he will be the sugary sweet, chocolate pie...and he will be the vanilla ice cream
-this is what i feel is hypocrisy

- when he hurt his ex-girlfriend ..broke her heart,..it was not an amicable break-up.. being a truthful and honest person.. i expected him to be sad and guilt and the guy went ahead with the same expressions of sadness guilt and tears... had i not seen tears in Ahem's eyes for his past hurt and guilt today... I would not be here defending him and i would not have liked his character...

-how many years it might be ... the way you break up will always bring back the hurt and pain.. if you are human enough you will feel the pain... if he was not human enough... he would not even care to look at her.. he would just have his hand on his wife's waist and be sipping a soft drink in the wedding hall... and that is definitely not the Ahem Modi i want to see...he has to feel the hurt and pain he caused to anyone... in the past...not only Anita

- Hypothetically ... if everything was said and done.. that is confession and proper SR was over.. then comes Anita... gopi would be more hurt than now.. the same guilt and hurt would haunt Ahem... this is only for hurting Anita... so it would return anytime later...
but now is the best time... he will get over the past get a closure.. gopi will know Ahem's closure on his past.. she will have a closure and be secure with out the apprehensions of ever facing Ahem's past again
Anita will have a closure - Ahem and Gopi are happy in love and marriage ..she will go her way

if Ahem shed tears for Anita why are these tears misinterpreted.. why is his character maligned...
Ahem to me is doing perfectly brilliant and i expect any person to do what Ahem is doing


sorry tina.. got to comment after 3-4 days of being silent ..so the rant became long😛

Munni, don't get me wrong. I am not maligning or misinterpreting Ahemji's character because of his tears. He is one of the most beloved characters in the serial. Since it is so rare to see him cry and he has never done that for Gopi, for us Gopi-lovers, it is natural to feel confused and jealous😳. I am sorry to keep ranting about his tears. They hurt a lot.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: varshu27

tina that was a lovely post from ahems pov...i know ahem loves gopi...but what got to me was his tears...here we were all hoping that he would cry for gopi one day and to see him with moist eyes for anitha just did not feel right...i think i would have been ok with any of his emotions...be it anger,confusion,sadness,guilt or what not...i just wanted him to reserve his tears for gopi...thats not bad of me was it...ahem loves gopi ...he just needs to realise it soon...




Varshu, Moist eyes for Anita did not feel right? His moist eyes made me make this post. It took me straight to apology land 😳. He had yelled at Gopi and has surely been not fair to her actually wronged her but he too was wronged. Being forced into a relation is never a desirable thing and that to with an illeterate is absolute no for a qualified man like Ahem. Gopi was not only uneducated but was very naive( laptop washing) had no confidence and could not string complete sentence properly and was always crying and simpering. I guess life challenges us all the time. I would say after throwing a tantrum did actually embrace the challenge Gopi😛. Maybe he was reluctant in the beginning but was amazed by her truthfulness and loyalty, so went all out and met the challenge and worked steadily with it and made that his strength and transferred his strength to her. Once he realized her problem ...He immediately decided that he'll free her of her useless anxiety and pull her out of her depressed thoughts. And you know what it did to GOPI?? It surely enhanced her self-esteem in many folds and give her hope for the wonderful future. 😳 Today tears for Gopi are not mandatory as he is completely unaware of all the kalakaries. But today he is a sensible, dignified, and responsible gentleman, facing a girl who he has wronged for no fault of hers.
hence the tears for Anitha are completely justified and shows his innate goodness😳

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