girls like most of you

I was so angry with ahem on friday , imaging ways that gopi could get back at him
But as the weekend progressed I thought abt everything that has happened
Between gopi and ahem and started to feel a little positive so here are some
Of the things I am holding onto :

1. For 8 months we have watched Ahem evolve and get closer to gopi all on his own
Nothing had changed wud gopi , only he started learning abt the woman he married
He obviously liked wot he learned cos she gained his respect , care , friendship , attention
, Admiration, he even started calling her his wife with pride. Now for a man ahem that is
A huge change ,he went so far as to be influenced by her outlook on family and life .

2. The biggest event in his life choosing a life partner he never fought his mom on , but he
Fought not only his mom but the principal of gopis school for her to be educated.
He could have easily won his mom over to accept anita using the same tactics he used to get
Koki to allow gopis education but he didn't ,he accepted his moms decision .he could have easily
Taught anita to become the dil his mom wanted and becos she was desperate to be wud him she would
Tried just like how he taught gopi how to be a student but he didn't do that for anita. Too me that
He either knew deep down she wasn't the one for him so y try or he just didn't think abt it which to me
Is a sure sign he didn't have deep abiding love for anita cos when inlove and if its forbidden u would go
All out to find ways to keep ur love.

3. The manner which he treated her after the breakup by driving away not making sure she was ok even though
She was suicidal cos she tried to kill both of them but now in the last few months if Gopi so much as not smile he wants to know wots wrong , he apologize if he sed something wrong .

4. They say out sight outta mind , he has proven that in anita case for the last year only when she reappeared did the memories come flooding but wud gopi when she went to urmi he was besides himself with thoughts of her he was driven to the point of not being able to work , eat or sleep (these are 3 things that is very to ahem ).

5. Ahem 1,5yr ago wud have being arrogant and almost cruel to anita not understanding that is behaviour with was not right , had they met again , but becos of gopis effect on his life he can now feel guilty for treating anita so badly .
Remember anita was his first experience of life besides his work and family so obviously for a person who had his head in the books since childhood will fall hard for the first crush and it will have lasting effect on him especially as he was not allowed the normal tym for that relationship to run its cause but rather he was forced to end it .


So girls these are the reason I am feeling positive , I am not saying I am not gonna get upset wud him if he carries on in this tone of friday as that wud be impossible for me has I am very emotional attached to gohem and gopi.this and the hundreds of little incidents between gohem will have to carry me thru this next few weeks

Taniks. As the storyline goes the writers are on a merry go round. Turning a much loved character into a negative one. They have always been consistent with Urmila, Rashi and Kinjal but with the others they can't seem to make their minds up. First it was Kokila, then Hetal and now it is the turn of Ahem. Gopi's tears may push up the trp's as often is said. But how much more pain can be inflicted on one person. It is not normal nor humane. I watched this serial from the beginning and really felt for Gopi in all her tests. Will she pass this one? If I watch this serial it is because I need some respite from everyday life. A bit of fantasy, if you like. To know that there is a life of hearts and flowers and love. I am resigned to this current track because that is the way it goes. Hope it does not last too long and can once again see Gopi smile.

Cool post taniks.

Hoping for the best, prepared for the worst

Originally posted by: A2ZV

Hoping for the best, prepared for the worst

Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Cool post taniks.

Although I don't see why Gopi has to suffer all the time. It's time Aham came in for some heart-break. Hopefully by the time he chooses Gopi she has left MM without a word to anyone! And it takes months to find her and then she refuses to come back! Now that is a track I would love to see!

i so much want that to happen as well