Didn't you feel terrible for Arpita's Mom? - Page 3

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i felt bad for her at first but the whole applying the haldi first was really weird and then the whole name change crap wth what world do we live in i don't think ppl do tht unless they live in some village. These ppl r supposed to be educated and more open minded at least they portray themselves to the world but this is ridiculous. First when MIL #1 called her arpita i was like maybe she's having a moment but then to change someones name like tht wth😡 if the show want to show a progressive thing about remarriage they really need to stop with these ridiculous crap, lying about the brides marital status, and changing her name the families they r showing r not some village ppl they live in a city have a very high standing in society and look at the other new DIL if they can accept her can't they not give up these weird customs like changing the name of the bride its becoming like a typical saas bahu drama and the wedding hasn't even happened yet
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you so much for replying, everyone. Taking all the points into consideration, to an outsider like you and me, Arpita's mother is obsessive and compulsive regarding her daughter to an extent that she wants to become Aarti's mother without the latter's permission. But from her POV, she is just a helpless grieving mother.

Point being , that we become judgy ( in Damon Salvatore's language) because we are on the outside and not inside the situation. Like we hate Daaku Mom, Disco Maansi, Aaadiwaasi Dad because their pettiness gets to us. But at the same time, they may have weaknesses too or even maybe good sides.

To be grey is human. And its permissible until it threatens the lives of the ones around you. Arpita's mother maybe a creep or she maybe a blessing - its too early to judge. Humph, see how i used the word JUDGE again.

Forgive me , but i was just playing Devil's Advocate.No offence meant. 😃

Love and luck always,❤️
GOD bless everyone. 🤗

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