From Shakti's point of view - Is he right?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey all 🤗
So, Shakti Singh is at loggerheads with Sajjan Singh. He's taken over the Haveli and his plan for revenge has been exacted. Today, he went on and on about how he was always the neglected child while KST was the favored one.

Now, I could have seen this coming years ago. You might hate me for this, but I think Shakti was right in his statement. Somehow, I always did feel that Krishna always received preference over Shakti. Krishna was the ladla of the house, the apple of his parents and grandmother's eye. But Shakti never received that love.

Just think about it. Shakti turned out just the way his father wanted him to turn out. He's a true blue-blood Thakur. He ran his life the way his parents wanted. He got married according to their wish. While Krishna was lazing at home for years, Shakti spent his days working, and you could say he was living off his hard-earned income. Yet, he was the one who was scolded at home, he was called Katra-Naresh, Bail buddhi, Kutta... you name it, and Shakti's been called it.

So, while Shakti really did over-step his boundaries today, was he wrong in what he said? Is his belligerence really Sajjan Singh's fault? Isn't it the elders of the family who planted the jealousy seed in Shakti's mind when they continually favored Krishna over him?

I think yes. I believe that the root cause why a child starts hating his own siblings is because that child receives less love from his parents. It's very natural to feel this way. If parents favour one child over the other, there will be differences between the siblings.
What do you all think? Is Shakti right in claiming that he was less loved? Did Baba really get more preference over him?

And for all our mothers on the forum... please answer this question from your heart. Even though all parents claim that they love all their children equally (most of them do, I'm sure, my parents did 😆)... Is it possible that some parents love one child more than the other? But still expect that their children would not feel resentful?

Share your opinions please 😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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No...It's never right when you take, what doesn't belongs.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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good post.😊

Today Shakti let out all the bottled up frustration that he had about being second to K in everything. I think he had every right to vent it out, the way that he did it I don't agree with. I agree with you whatever SS wanted Shakti to do he did and K got away with doing nothing. It is only when P came into his life that you started to slowly see K working and trying to change .

I noticed when KN was letting out his frustrations SS had tears in his eyes and I think maybe for the first time he realized how KN felt.

I would have preferred that KN had told this to his father earlier before taking his property behind his back, but then I think the impact of his words would not have the same power as they did today.
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Dear elle,Apart from the fact that u try to get at the point in a very emphatic manner, I'm sorry that I can't agree with the content simply b'coz I perceive Sajjan's love for baba as a recognition of his inner beauty. Shakti is wicked from inside & SS knows it well. Shakti's jealousy is obvious but SS can't be held responsible for this discrimination. If u draw a parallel, prophet Jacob used to love his son Jseph more than his other sons. This sowed the seed of jealousy in their hearts & the threw joseph into a well. Joseph survived & became the king of Egypt. The legend still remains & u may come across numerous such examples in everyday life.Good stuff for a debate, though.
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Originally posted by: ssrbaqri

Dear elle,Apart from the fact that u try to get at the point in a very emphatic manner, I'm sorry that I can't agree with the content simply b'coz I perceive Sajjan's love for baba as a recognition of his inner beauty. Shakti is wicked from inside & SS knows it well. Shakti's jealousy is obvious but SS can't be held responsible for this discrimination. If u draw a parallel, prophet Jacob used to love his son Jseph more than his other sons. This sowed the seed of jealousy in their hearts & the threw joseph into a well. Joseph survived & became the king of Egypt. The legend still remains & u may come across numerous such examples in everyday life.Good stuff for a debate, though.



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well when shakti was in jail both father and mother were worried for him they love them both equally but what ever shakkti felt he should talk with family in proper way not like this abusing them and take their property with fraud
See when sajjan try to seperate his wealth he tell his lawyer I wanted to give hveli to kst and lands to shakti
But doing this with his own father he has lost the love of his family
When shakti wants to marry his parents did all they could
And kst love pratgya most when he felt his wife trying to hurt his mom he left her even gave her divorsE when her amma asked him to do
Krish saved his father from makhnu singh and did evrthing to bring him safe ad sound
While Kn told makhnu to kill his father but he will never get the ransom
Even sankata told the difference between kst and kn and scold kn
Even kn try to take advantage from that girl which kst brought for his father safety
In starting when pratgya argue with family ad krish told evry body a lie that he will do his busness ad misbehave prtagya told his family what ever krish said its was wrong but 1 thing is good that he have think of doing some work but krish didntt start
Even krish quetions pratgya why u try to sepperate me from my familyy which pratgya deny that and telll him I want that I wanted to see year respect thatss all sooo
And krish felt that when she was in hospital
And shakti turned bd with his fmily for menka
Sooo who is better son
Kst and kn
Kst
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well all parents love their children equally bt it,s children time which sometimes goes wrong and thinks negatively that time they only c one side of a coin and feels that they r neglected and not loved by parents and even they don,t bother to c the other side which is gud and full of lve for them same for shakti Yaaa he always been scolded beaten by ss bt ss always lve him tooo when a track started of krish work that time ss cried and he told him that he is right hand of him to whom he can trust not baba although he love baba tooo bt he said this becoz every children have sme gud and bad points and for that ss always scold them and abuse wht can we do if KN has more bad points than baba!!! Always for father his elder son is like his right hand and last one is Ladla same is the case here shakti only saw his father angerness on him bt he never bother to c his father lve for him today Whtever he done was not at all acceptable he abused his father kicking out his own family like this that son never live happy in his life and we,ll c this in the upcoming episodes!!!!!!
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Originally posted by: piyarapiyari

Well all parents love their children equally bt it,s children time which sometimes goes wrong and thinks negatively that time they only c one side of a coin and feels that they r neglected and not loved by parents and even they don,t bother to c the other side which is gud and full of lve for them same for shakti Yaaa he always been scolded beaten by ss bt ss always lve him tooo when a track started of krish work that time ss cried and he told him that he is right hand of him to whom he can trust not baba although he love baba tooo bt he said this becoz every children have sme gud and bad points and for that ss always scold them and abuse wht can we do if KN has more bad points than baba!!! Always for father his elder son is like his right hand and last one is Ladla same is the case here shakti only saw his father angerness on him bt he never bother to c his father lve for him today Whtever he done was not at all acceptable he abused his father kicking out his own family like this that son never live happy in his life and we,ll c this in the upcoming episodes!!!!!!



@bold very true

@red Agree shakti will bear the consequences of his actions in the upcoming episodes just wait until he finds out about Menaka's past and I think it will come out soon, unfortunately because of how he treated his family they won't be there to help him through it. I think it will take a while for SS and SDS to forgive him.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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SS definitely favoured Baba over Shakti..that is a fact. (that doesn't mean he loved Shakti less..just had a extra soft corner for Baba). Shakti's jealously and frustration is understandable but how he behaved today is no way acceptable.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good post Elle.
As a parent its important to love your kids equally, as I do, if kids ever feel neglected or feel the other one gets preferrential treatment its important to point out that they're equal, what one gets, the other one does.
Whilst they mollycoddled K, SS got KN to work for him, he was in on all their attempts to murder P, they encouraged him when he buried Kesar, but it was for their benefit - he never received any respect/affection from them. They always showered K with their love, albeit a very selfish love, but never respected him either, but KN craved that sort of attention but never received it.
Amma and KN were also allies, she encouraged his behaviour, but never thought of the consequences of the sort of man he was becoming.
I can see that KN feels he's justified in his actions against his family, but as usual he's gone about it in the wrong way, encouraged by menaka.
When a parent makes it so obvious that a certain child is the apple of their eye its bound to have repercussions.

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