What's the problem with Vidhi and her husband?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey guys,
While watching Tuesday and Wednesday's episodes, I had a doubt...is there some kind of problem in Vidhi and her husband's (forgot his name) marriage? It seems like there is some kind of tension between them which they are trying to hide...what do you guys think?
Vidhi seems like such a kind, thoughtful lady, but I didn't like how she interrupts her husband all the time...I'm wondering if there is some trouble between them.šŸ˜•
And is their son in college or high school? Does anyone know?
-Janu

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Posted: 13 years ago
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^ I think he is or maybe he started college?šŸ¤” We haven't seen him yet and not much info has been given so I dunno. I think it's like Vidhi's more focused on her son then her marriage and her husband (I can't remember his name eitheršŸ˜†) and he misses the time they used to spend together. I guess he wants her to focus on him too a bit and spend some quality time but she can't take the hintšŸ¤”
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ravjot-

^ I think he is or maybe he started college?šŸ¤” We haven't seen him yet and not much info has been given so I dunno. I think it's like Vidhi's more focused on her son then her marriage and her husband (I can't remember his name eitheršŸ˜†) and he misses the time they used to spend together. I guess he wants her to focus on him too a bit and spend some quality time but she can't take the hintšŸ¤”

I totally agreed with you.He wants more attention than their son Vedant.Vidhi is being shown more as a mother and always concerned for her son in comparasion to her hubby.
Note: I love this lady Vidhi so much ya.She is a perfect daughter-in-law.I love the way she handles her MIL.😊Only thing she needs to understand that her hubby also wants more of her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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This problem normally happens btween couples with this age, normallyy ladies be more mother and mens are searching for thier wife there the problem starts, here vidhi is also busy in thier childrens and her husband wants attention frm her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: JaiShriSitaRam

Hey guys,

While watching Tuesday and Wednesday's episodes, I had a doubt...is there some kind of problem in Vidhi and her husband's (forgot his name) marriage? It seems like there is some kind of tension between them which they are trying to hide...what do you guys think?
Vidhi seems like such a kind, thoughtful lady, but I didn't like how she interrupts her husband all the time...I'm wondering if there is some trouble between them.šŸ˜•
And is their son in college or high school? Does anyone know?
-Janu


I don't think there is any problem as in. But she is unable to give any time to her hushand as seh is the only daughter in law even thought there are 3 sons. She has to take care of everything in the house especially as Gayatri has the problem of forgetting😲.

So mya be once Arati comes Vidhi will get some time for her husband as Arati will take care of Yash's daughter also.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Vidhi's husband's name is Pankaj.


Wether its a man or a woman, as a person you have different roles to fulfill in your life time.


In a joint family, like in the Scindia household, Vidhi seems to have lots of responsibilities particularly with a forgetful Mother in Law, a mystery aunt, a strict possibly chauvinistic Father in Law, one brother in law who is playful and possibly immature, another brother in law who is withdrawn and in another world altogether, two very young kids and not to forget her own son who she has to guide through various phases of life.


When she got married, her first priority was probably her role as a DIL and as a wife. She must have paid lots of attention nurturing these relationships. Now her roles have evolved, her priorities are different. She needs to take care of so many people and their needs.


If Pankaj feels neglected by Vidhi then he needs to talk to her and maybe take some of her burden on his shoulders. I don't agree with the 'men are like that, women should understand' kind of thought process. He cannot expect Vidhi to magically understand what is in his mind. šŸ˜•Talk to her and then she will make sure on putting away some time for their relationship. 😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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There ain't any problem between them! The couple is really cute & understanding. Its just that Vidhi i too much into her kids , who are in college! 😊
The couple just need to rejuvenate their romance 😳
Also in one of their scenes we got an indication that theirs' was a love marriage 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Angake...
Lady it is so great to see you... Man I have missed your detailed input in the emotions of characters...
I absolutely agree with you..
Yes Pankaj is his name...
Absolutely Vidhi is like a super human in this household taking care of so many people at the same time...
But I think her main focus is always Vedant..
Remember how she left Payal and Palak on the table and ran for his phone call..
Today also she just ran to her son's need..
It also could be possible that sometimes she gets so tired mentally to oversee all these that the call from Vedant is a great relief for her and she just runs to attend to it and gets locked in her own world..
Pankaj feels neglected...
As he was remembering the old golden days Vidhi had a beautiful smile on her face so these two do have the share of their romantic days..
I also think Pankaj is bit sentimental as the way he saved that wedding card and remembered their 1st meeting
Where as Vidhi is on more practicle side as for her she does not have time to dwell on those moments.. It is just that both have different thinking process and just differs in their thoughts..
But then duty calls and Vidhi has to run..
So in this big household of so many demanding issue she does not have time for romance... And being the responsible person in the household she does not have liberty to negelect any person. She has to atten all but she can negelect her husband as he is her own and he would not complain or put demand on her..
I think initially Pankaj would not have minded it but as the time passed by and he was always given the last attention and then no attention I think now her heart is hugry for some time with his wife seeing all his brothers are going to settle in their own world and he must want his own world too...
Yes I think they will bring that in open one day and Vidhi will realise and be good to him..
Edited by evasumi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ravjot-

^ I think he is or maybe he started college?šŸ¤” We haven't seen him yet and not much info has been given so I dunno. I think it's like Vidhi's more focused on her son then her marriage and her husband (I can't remember his name eitheršŸ˜†) and he misses the time they used to spend together. I guess he wants her to focus on him too a bit and spend some quality time but she can't take the hintšŸ¤”




after watching episodes i too feel they is tension between them...i agree with ur statement...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Man doesn't get enough attention. She is busy with kids family and no time for romance. that a is another thing missing in our culture romance. Women are good wife mother but they lack romance and so do men for what ever reason. family constraints etc.

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