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"IS CHEATINS NECESSARY TO MAINTAIN A RELATIONSHIP"
what do u think guys is it necessary that v must cheat to maintain our relations..
Please do share your precious views it vl be of greatest help..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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at the first place wat do you mean by cheating???

If you lie so that they dont get hurt : in my opinion not that bad coz ur intention is not to hurt your loved ones. For ex my mom is very particular about me goin out with my frnz. At times i cant disappoint my dear frnz also. So i go with them without telling the truth to my mom. But ofcourse i know my limits and i always keep that in my mind. I have found arguing doesnt work. So i dont prefer to tell. In a way its cheating, but i dont want her to be worried.


Another thing is breaking the trust of your loved ones. Doing something wrong knowingly. Ntohing much to say, if you broke someone's trust you dont value them and then u cant love them.

Hope it helps 😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Cheating is wrong but it depends on the circumstances that it occurred in and who it directly affects
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am not a good adviser but still stay there is no harm in lying (cheating can hv different meanings) as long as you are doing it to save the partner frm getting hurt. One person tend to lie or cheat only when the person opposite be it parents /partner doesn't try to understand you or impose their views on you. Hope you get more and more suggestions to solve your dilemma
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I've never been in a relationship-to be honest.
But I think cheating is NOT BAD when you try to prevent your partner from getting hurt but cheating can get REALLY UGLY when you hide something,you shouldn't from your partner.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: madhubala123

at the first place wat do you mean by cheating???

If you lie so that they dont get hurt : in my opinion not that bad coz ur intention is not to hurt your loved ones. For ex my mom is very particular about me goin out with my frnz. At times i cant disappoint my dear frnz also. So i go with them without telling the truth to my mom. But ofcourse i know my limits and i always keep that in my mind. I have found arguing doesnt work. So i dont prefer to tell. In a way its cheating, but i dont want her to be worried.


Another thing is breaking the trust of your loved ones. Doing something wrong knowingly. Ntohing much to say, if you broke someone's trust you dont value them and then u cant love them.

Hope it helps😊


Thank u thanks a lots ur views are of greatest importance
Cheating in any sence like a husband cheating on wife eq telling her she is looking beautiful even when he has not given a glance to what she is wearing..
This topic is soo confusing n u hv just given me fantastic points thanks a lots dear thank u
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: miss_giggles

Cheating is wrong but it depends on the circumstances that itoccurredin and who it directly affects


Thanks for sharing ur view are of greatest help for me thanks a lotts
Edited by d2407 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kar1538

I am not a good adviser but still stay there is no harm in lying (cheating can hv different meanings) as long as you are doing it to save the partner frm getting hurt. One person tend to lie or cheat only when the person opposite be it parents /partner doesn't try to understand you or impose their views on you. Hope you get more and more suggestions to solve your dilemma<b></b>


Thank you very very much for your advice dear
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Posted: 14 years ago
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My POV is...

cheating is not good to maintain a relation ship...

if we tell the truth it will be better than cheating...truth some times hurt but it will cure after some time...
but cheating will broke them in to pieces...

cheating and telling lies for simple things which is not at all going to hurt that person then its fine...

exceptions ::::::
some truth will broke the person so its better to hide it from them...



if u want a good and ever lasting relationship then be truthful to that person...


don't cheat,,,, but tell simple lies to make them happy...
Edited by nishha - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: SallyAmanda


<font size="3" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">I've never been in a relationship-to be honest.</font>

<font size="3" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif">But I think cheating is NOT BAD when you try to prevent your partner from getting hurt but cheating can get REALLY UGLY when you hide something,you shouldn't from your partner.</font>


This topic is soo very confusing..thankyou very very much for sharing

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