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Posted: 13 years ago
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You see, a TV serial can only run for so long if there is no conflict between the lead pair. To introduce a conflict, inevitably there has to be a breach of trust. And really, that is what the viewers enjoy. I just don't like the public ways in which these matters are resolved, aren't issues better dealt with in talking them out in private place?

Also, the next time there is a conflict between the two (there has to be one sooner or later), I'd like it to be more about regular issues that regular people have. Jobs, home management, kids etc. Somehow, every issue in MKAP ends up being linked to someones second marriage and I am tired of this now.

About Komal: I agree she will go the Saxena way. I really believe she will lie to both families and continue living in GH as if she is still married to Adarsh. At least in the near future.

About having ample opportunity to talk: Kriya on one side, I think this can be applied to Arushi and Tanmay as well. Arushi has enough chances to ask Tamtam about what exactly is bothering him about her, and why? Why not have it all out in one go? Why is Arushi dragging out the inevitable?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: elle45

You see, a TV serial can only run for so long if there is no conflict between the lead pair. To introduce a conflict, inevitably there has to be a breach of trust. And really, that is what the viewers enjoy. I just don't like the public ways in which these matters are resolved, aren't issues better dealt with in talking them out in private place?

Also, the next time there is a conflict between the two (there has to be one sooner or later), I'd like it to be more about regular issues that regular people have. Jobs, home management, kids etc. Somehow, every issue in MKAP ends up being linked to someones second marriage and I am tired of this now.

About Komal: I agree she will go the Saxena way. I really believe she will lie to both families and continue living in GH as if she is still married to Adarsh. At least in the near future.

About having ample opportunity to talk: Kriya on one side, I think this can be applied to Arushi and Tanmay as well. Arushi has enough chances to ask Tamtam about what exactly is bothering him about her, and why? Why not have it all out in one go? Why is Arushi dragging out the inevitable?


Tam and Arushi are waiting for their own track to take center stage😛🤣. The Sax sisters are brilliant at talking but rarely walk their talk. Tam is at the moment distracted by $$$$ signs and the GH house. Prats is financial secure (maybe not, if Naiki has anything to say about that😆). It's Mr. & Mrs. Tam who may be out on the streets if Shamu had given the house to Adarsh in which case Komal and Chinki may get it in their divorce settlement. Tam wants to make sure Shamu still owns it so he can scam it out of his sasurji. Another opportunity for a PBJ.😛

Did you notice, viewers are pleased Arusia is married to a louse like Tam, no more complaints about her.🤔😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: piyarapiyari

Ohhh wowwwe mera diii u back wid ur long long colourful postwas seriously saying so was missing it 😭 thankx u made it again and brilliant 👍🏼 agree wid u bt at the same time agree wid dhanya Dii tooo in all they both r totally mad in love for each other so can do anything for each other love kriya arja 🤗


Thank you. 😃 It's always fun to hear different POVs. We may easily have overlooked a key point and often approach it from our experiences.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Mera dii🤗
a long colourful post...that too with word count...🤗

Clearly shows the difference between the Sax & Thakur siblings...

Really hope that Komal stands for herself & Chinky and gets educated, find a job and without anyone's help or sympathy move forward in life.Its really sad that the Sax family who give importance to education haven't even bothered to get her to learn atleast the basics.
Adarsh is a gone case.Only when he experiences the same betrayal & pain that Komal went through, will he realize Komal's value.

Another couple...who loves each other to the core, but still reluctant to confide within each other...Prats did have lots of chances to tell K...but she chose not to, in the name of love. But isnt she forgetting that one or the other, the truth will come out and that might hurt him more that she couldn't trust him...Moreover it is his reports, he has the right to know...Suppose it was the other way around.K hiding the truth and P comes to find out...what will be her reaction?
This could have been avoided totally, if P told him on the first day itself in the privacy of their room. Initially he would be devastated but gradually will look for alternatives..(but who am i kidding...this is a soap...so drama is a must😆)


And now to the youngest Sax sibling...Arushi and Tanmay have one thing in common...meddling in others life and they are good at it.They ignore their own insecurities and offer advice to others without even understanding the essence of marriage.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Oh ho bossji.😲..amazing post ..👏nevr ever thaught that we would have the luck to read them ever again...thank u sooo much..lubbed it n agree wid u all the way👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ssweety007

Mera dii🤗
a long colourful post...that too with word count...🤗

Clearly shows the difference between the Sax & Thakur siblings...

Really hope that Komal stands for herself & Chinky and gets educated, find a job and without anyone's help or sympathy move forward in life.Its really sad that the Sax family who give importance to education haven't even bothered to get her to learn atleast the basics.
Adarsh is a gone case.Only when he experiences the same betrayal & pain that Komal went through, will he realize Komal's value.

Another couple...who loves each other to the core, but still reluctant to confide within each other...Prats did have lots of chances to tell K...but she chose not to, in the name of love. But isnt she forgetting that one or the other, the truth will come out and that might hurt him more that she couldn't trust him...Moreover it is his reports, he has the right to know...Suppose it was the other way around.K hiding the truth and P comes to find out...what will be her reaction?
This could have been avoided totally, if P told him on the first day itself in the privacy of their room. Initially he would be devastated but gradually will look for alternatives..(but who am i kidding...this is a soap...so drama is a must😆)

And now to the youngest Sax sibling...Arushi and Tanmay have one thing in common...meddling in others life and they are good at it.They ignore their own insecurities and offer advice to others without even understanding the essence of marriage.


Lallantop post Sweety👍🏼🤗

Adarshwa is going to get his comeuppance. I doubt he'll ever get to leave MMGJ. Tam's plan to get custody of GH will go tel lene.

Tam and his Mrs. are the example of a marriage of convenience...more like roomies. Not a passionate born in either one of them. 😛

Will write more after LUD.😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: gees

Oh ho bossji.😲..amazing post ..👏nevr ever thaught that we would have the luck to read them ever again...thank u sooo much..lubbed it n agree wid u all the way👍🏼


I do like to surprises a lot.😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Meera di.. I have to admit it took me a while to read your looong post .. but amazing analysis as always..pleasant surprise.. 😆😛

I have a question though I accept Prats should have told K the truth before things got out of hand as I have stated before her reason for hiding was understandable but there comes a time when telling the truth and letting K deal with reality becomes far more important then assuming he cannot handle it.. now I would love to know would these illiterate Tachurs ever accept their son is the one at fault he is the individual incapable of having children.. they are not the types to easily give in to logical intellectual arguments.. of course K would have accepted it without fail.. but would SS ever accept his son is infertile.. Yes she would have eventually convinced them but I doubt they would ever truly accept it.. I can already see them overlooking everything and blaming P anyways..

As for Komal am loving her she has taken a stand for herself for her child succeeding where most educated individuals tend to fail... she does not need a husband like Adarsh.. who lacks humanity.. he truly does not deserve her.. and I hope they show her gradually becoming independent.. How strange is it that both of the Tachur siblings not only listened but follow the principles the educated simply preach.. I loved how K questioned Prats why did she feel the need to lie when she was the one who said marriages are based on trust and love.. too bad we did not get an answer nor did he demand one.. KBJ please di don't expect too much.. we are bound to be disappointed where this is concerned.. !!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Binny...

Meera di.. I have to admit it took me a while to read your looong post .. but amazing analysis as always..pleasant surprise.. 😆😛 Thank you Binny.😳😆

I have a question though I accept Prats should have told K the truth before things got out of hand as I have stated before her reason for hiding was understandable but there comees a time when telling the truth and letting K deal with reality becomes far more important then assuming he cannot handle it..She never gives K much credit. She is more like a mother to him than a wife with her baashans. Great at dishing out sahi-galat but goes mute when she's questioned. I had teachers at school who never liked to be asked questions they didn't know the answers to. 😆It's not like K is a kid. No one is prepared for life-altering news. But after the shock and denial they learn to cope with it. Isn't she there to help him? After all it affects both their dreams. Or is she happy having raised Samar? now I would love to know would these illiterate Tachurs ever accept their son is the one at fault he is the individual incapable of having children. they are not the types to easily give in to logical intellectual arguments.. of course K would have accepted it without fail.. but would SS ever accept his son is infertile.. Yes she would have eventually convinced them but I doubt they would ever truly accept it.. I can already see them overlooking everything and blaming P anyways.. .Like K they too will have to go through the process of dealing with the shock, the denial, the emotions before they come to a place of acceptance and repair the relationship. That's where forgiveness comes into play. If everyone kept scores about the wrongs family has done them, there will be few families that survive. Forgive but don't forget or repeat the same mistakes.

As for Komal am loving her she has taken a stand for herself for her child succeeding where most educated individuals tend to fail... she does not need a husband like Adarsh.. who lacks humanity.. he truly does not deserve her.. and I hope they show her gradually becoming independent.. How strange is it that both of the Tachur siblings not only listened but follow the principles the educated simply preach. PBJ fell on deaf years this time with Adarsh and Komal 🤔 I loved how K questioned Prats why did she feel the need to lie when she was the one who said marriages are based on trust and love.. too bad we did not get an answer nor did he demand one.. No surprises there Binny👏 😛 As always Prats swept her actions under the rug with "forget it Krishna". The day she admits to her actions and holds herself to the same standards she holds the Takurs accountable is the day I'll accept. All talk and no walk, that's the Sax mantra. KBJ please di don't expect too much.. we are bound to be disappointed where this is concerned.. !!! His questions are always averted with "hamey samajne ki koshish karo (try to understand me)", "usko bhool jao"(forget it), "aisa nahi hai"(it's not like that), "I tried to explain but you didn't let me" ...the blame is laid on him and he retreats. 😳



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: MERARAI


Lallantop post Sweety👍🏼🤗Thank you dii😃🤗🤗

Adarshwa is going to get his comeuppance. I doubt he'll ever get to leave MMGJ. Tam's plan to get custody of GH will go tel lene. Poor guy...all his efforts will be in vain(refering to both😉)😆

Tam and his Mrs. are the example of a marriage of convenience...more like roomies. Not a passionate born in either one of them. 😛Let them stay that way...Atleast spare us the torture😉

Will write more after LUD.😉will be waiting😃

Edited by ssweety007 - 13 years ago

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