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rightchoice

@rightchoice

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Although she appears over reacting to the situation, she is not. Actually thats how anyone would act if they see their brother or sister act like 'getting married' WITHOUT informing them. Marrying a girl with family having some objection is OK but marrying without informing family is like insulting them. It's shock to them especially for Anjali who looks after her chote so well. She has every right get upset with Chote as well as Khushi. She consider both of them close to her...

People are saying Anjali and Nani did not create fuss during La...but I tell you they were the first to oppose the idea of live-in. In fact Nani was hell bent on opposing live-in relationship. They allowed it on the pretense that they will get married eventually. Then Arnav did not do it hiding this with the family. That is why they accepted on some condition.

Remember in IPK calendar it is just one day / one night since Arhi got married. It would look so naive if CVshow family started accepting them as soon as they enter RM.

Mostly tomorrow she will ask for remarriage of these two which would set everything right for Khushi and gives her the rights on Raizada parivaar not only in front of family but also in front of public. How cheap it would look for as prestigious family as Raizada that he got married by eloping with a girl...remarriage and rightful entry of Khushi wouldn't have been possible if family has not reacted like this. They are thinking in the right direction. As elders they need to see everything objectively.

Give some slack to Anjali and Nani, they will gradually accept ARHI relationship. Let them come out of that shock first. Please remember Anjali and Naani were happy that Arnav has affection towards Khushi. They are not against Khushi, they are against her behavior which unfortunately Khushi can not give justification.

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Shas3

@Shas3

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Posted: 13 years ago

I think they have a right to be angry but I would really hate it if Anjali refuses Kushi and then Kushi leaves RM. I hope nothing like that happens. As is Kushi at this point has no one, not even Arnav because he does not even want to speak to her. Watching this is just heartbreaking but it is only 1 day after the marriage and they will take time to accept..

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427050

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Posted: 13 years ago

I was really trying to understand them,I couldn't.

You say any person will behave like this...ok yes,anyone will get upset.But will anyone CRY this much.Anji baby has only 2 emotions,happy and sad.Nothing else.

What's all this stupidity about never forgiving arhi?Didn't khushi forgive her when she blackmailed khushi because of her selfish reasons?

I understand they try to make anjali this very emotional character,who feels much more than she thinks.But IMO they fail miserably.

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rightchoice

@rightchoice

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Shas3
I think they have a right to be angry but I would really hate it if Anjali refuses Kushi and then Kushi leaves RM. I hope nothing like that happens. As is Kushi at this point has no one, not even Arnav because he does not even want to speak to her. Watching this is just heartbreaking but it is only 1 day after the marriage and they will take time to accept..

No! Arnav will not let Khushi go out of RM at least for the reason that Shyam might follow her if not for out of concern for Khushi. He has married her for a purpose and that is to distance Shyam from Khushi.

We might see Arnav fighting for Khushi to get her rights. That is why he declared he will leave RM along WITH Khushi.

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rightchoice

@rightchoice

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Ipepe
I was really trying to understand them,I couldn't.
You say any person will behave like this...ok yes,anyone will get upset.But will anyone CRY this much.Anji baby has only 2 emotions,happy and sad.Nothing else.

What's all this stupidity about never forgiving arhi?Didn't khushi forgive her when she blackmailed khushi because of her selfish reasons?

I understand they try to make anjali this very emotional character,who feels much more than she thinks.But IMO they fail miserably.

Anjali said, she will not forgive them so soon...! it means it will take sometime. Naani was the one to disown Chote...!

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427050

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Posted: 13 years ago

^^ didn't she say she will never be able to forgive arnav?😕...but whatever it is,that's just one dialogue.Overall I can not tolerate anjali,I try really hard but can not.

Cry cry cry.She is angry so she cies, she is upset so she cries

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556195

Hibernated

Posted: 13 years ago

i respect your POV!

but tell me something when the elder of the family behaves like this what would you call it except over acting! they should get angry..they have full right but the way they are behaving Arnav will for sure loose all the respect he has for them! can she for once think that there must be some reason..let me ask him in a calm and mature manner!..may be they too want to share something with us.. let us be by their side! let us try to understand the people who are left all alone!!

without informing your family you got married.. but you got married with the very same girl whom they WANTED! this was the time to show some maturity..show the real meaning of "having a family".. its better to leave alone than having a family which doesnt trust you .. trust your acts.. at least care to try to understand you?? all they are doing is crying and making the situation heave..when a thing can be discussed and solved a proper way why creating fuss? Arnav cant leave khushi can he? so whats the point for all this?

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@pamk06

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Posted: 13 years ago

I think his family is justified. Anjali, Payal, Nani...

Payal and Anjali are hurt because their siblings are not sharing the reason with them. Who wouldn't... You brother or sister who has shared each and everything with you till date just eloped without giving you any reason, are you just going to forget and forgive. No ways... i would expect my family to react exactly like this. Payal is reacting by keeping quiet, that's her personality but from her reactions we know she is not happy, she is hurting as much as Khushi is. Anjali is reacting by crying.

The "why" of any situation goes a long way of accepting things but as they don't know the "why", the leads are or cant answer the "why" so they are fighting to get the answer in the only way they know.

i feel they are justified, i would have been more upset if they would have just accepted. Its just next morning,. Give them time...

Nani is justified because she is little from old school. "Bhaake" shaadi, is still a big crime in her world. For all you know they are thinking,"Is khushi pregnant, thats why the rush"

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rightchoice

@rightchoice

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: vampire_girl
i respect your POV!

but tell me something when the elder of the family behaves like this what would you call it except over acting! they should get angry..they have full right but the way they are behaving Arnav will for sure loose all the respect he has for them! can she for once think that there must be some reason..let me ask him in a calm and mature manner!..may be they too want to share something with us.. let us be by their side! let us try to understand the people who are left all alone!!

without informing your family you got married.. but you got married with the very same girl whom they WANTED! this was the time to show some maturity..show the real meaning of "having a family".. its better to leave alone than having a family which doesnt trust you .. trust your acts.. at least care to try to understand you?? all they are doing is crying and making the situation heave..when a thing can be discussed and solved a proper way why creating fuss? Arnav cant leave khushi can he? so whats the point for all this?

I would say its a normal reaction and it is expected even from Aranv / Khushi point of view I believe. Now tell me, how should they have reacted otherwise? Consider this, ARHI is not telling the reason for their marriage...!

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Julie0001

@Julie0001

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

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I agree RightChoice. I see no real issue with Anjali. Every person has a purpose and Anjali's purpose is the bearer of rituals. There is nothing wrong with this as this is how she views her contribution to the household. Her brother, who she loves more than anyone denies her being part of his wedding. And for no reason. I would be hurt if my brother got married without me and I am nowhere as conservative as Anjali.

Plus this is about the growth of Arnav. He needs to repeat these rituals. Perhaps the significance of what he has done, the promise that he has made will finally sink in. He slapped sindoor on Khushi and thinks that he has no investment. But he just pledged his life to her. These rituals as Anjali wants them may help him understand that he has taken the responsibility of Khushi in his hands AND he can never walk away from that.

Not sure if you used to be on the CB forum. but I have always enjoyed your views.

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