Why bash Anjali? - Page 2

Originally posted by: sweet.nisha25

Let me put it this way. If my brother went out and married the woman I know he loves I would be so happy for him. I am not traditional in any sense of the word, so may be thats why. I would not turn his happiest day (atleast it is supposed to be) into a nightmare because I love him a lot. I would think that he just wanted to it be a private affair with him and the woman he loves. And then I would ask him to throw a really big party or something.

I feel like I am going to explode if I have to watch one more drama/crappy episode. I give it till friday. If next week this persists I really might just have a fit of anger. I mean they act as if she is pregnant or that Arnav married a wh*ore.

Why cant a human being make a decision about their own life? At is 28, I think, and Khushi is 18 or something like that. The Indian government allows them to get married. So just chill people.

Crazy backward people 🤢

Originally posted by: jpalagrawal

I agree RightChoice. I see no real issue with Anjali. Every person has a purpose and Anjali's purpose is the bearer of rituals. There is nothing wrong with this as this is how she views her contribution to the household. Her brother, who she loves more than anyone denies her being part of his wedding. And for no reason. I would be hurt if my brother got married without me and I am nowhere as conservative as Anjali.

Plus this is about the growth of Arnav. He needs to repeat these rituals. Perhaps the significance of what he has done, the promise that he has made will finally sink in. He slapped sindoor on Khushi and thinks that he has no investment. But he just pledged his life to her. These rituals as Anjali wants them may help him understand that he has taken the responsibility of Khushi in his hands AND he can never walk away from that.

Not sure if you used to be on the CB forum. but I have always enjoyed your views.

Originally posted by: sweet.nisha25

Let me put it this way. If my brother went out and married the woman I know he loves I would be so happy for him. I am not traditional in any sense of the word, so may be thats why. I would think that he just wanted to it be a private affair with him and the woman he loves. And then I would ask him to throw a really big party or something.

I feel like I am going to explode if I have to watch one more drama/crappy episode. I give it till friday. If next week this persists I really might just have a fit of anger. I mean they act as if she is pregnant or that Arnav married a wh*ore.

Why cant a human being make a decision about their own life? At is 28, I think, and Khushi is 18 or something like that. The Indian government allows them to get married. So just chill people.

Crazy backward people 🤢

Originally posted by: rightchoice

Although she appears over reacting to the situation, she is not. Actually thats how anyone would act if they see their brother or sister act like 'getting married' WITHOUT informing them. Marrying a girl with family having some objection is OK but marrying without informing family is like insulting them. It's shock to them especially for Anjali who looks after her chote so well. She has every right get upset with Chote as well as Khushi. She consider both of them close to her...

People are saying Anjali and Nani did not create fuss during La...but I tell you they were the first to oppose the idea of live-in. In fact Nani was hell bent on opposing live-in relationship. They allowed it on the pretense that they will get married eventually. Then Arnav did not do it hiding this with the family. That is why they accepted on some condition.

Remember in IPK calendar it is just one day / one night since Arhi got married. It would look so naive if CVshow family started accepting them as soon as they enter RM.

Mostly tomorrow she will ask for remarriage of these two which would set everything right for Khushi and gives her the rights on Raizada parivaar not only in front of family but also in front of public. How cheap it would look for as prestigious family as Raizada that he got married by eloping with a girl...remarriage and rightful entry of Khushi wouldn't have been possible if family has not reacted like this. They are thinking in the right direction. As elders they need to see everything objectively.

Give some slack to Anjali and Nani, they will gradually accept ARHI relationship. Let them come out of that shock first. Please remember Anjali and Naani were happy that Arnav has affection towards Khushi. They are not against Khushi, they are against her behavior which unfortunately Khushi can not give justification.

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Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

I beg to differ.. 😊 we are not bashing Anji but are analysing her character . ...

Agreed ASR got married without the consent of the family... but it was not as if Nani & ANji were totally in the dark... over the last couple of weeks they have seen them getting closer... both Nani & Anji were keen on getting them married... So why are they creating a big furore now?

why can't they accept Khushi as RM bahu now and give her the respect she rightfully deserves ? Why is another wedding needed to do this? I cannot understand why society would see their relationship in a different light just because they get married again ... A second marriage is not going to obliterate the fact they eloped to get married.. Nani & Anji are unaware of the circumstances under which their marriage took place... so it is not as if they are suspecting something.. ... What we see here is both Nani's and Anjali egos at play...

Agree they have a status in society ... if this marriage was considered cheap, then how did they tolerate LA in a Live-in relationship? I think Mami's behaviour gives away a lot... her behaviour in public leaves much to be desired... Naani yelling at LA in full view of guests is cheap behaviour than what has happened now...

Originally posted by: Nrp77

What you say would be true in most cases, but Anjali is living in her brother's home and telling him that she won't accept this union. She does have a right to be upset and she has every right to leave Arnav's house if she can't accept his union. However, Anjali won't leave b/c Arnav pays for her lifestyle and provides her with a roof over her head, which is more than her husband has ever done.

For a woman who is all hell-bent on following 'traditions', why is she okay with her husband being a ghar jamai!?!