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subiaman

@subiaman

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Posted: 13 years ago

#31

I agree with you. It seems so melodramatic, since it is dragged so much. Like you said, Its only been a day... They (Anj and nani) might be wondering why they had to do this. They were ready to arrange the wedding. Now this looks like an insult to them and their relationship. If there was a proper explanation, that would be another thing...Just like Khushi had dreams/expectations about her wedding Anjali might also had wished a lot for her brother's wedding...

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thechaigirl

@thechaigirl

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Posted: 13 years ago

#32

I beg to differ...I do agree that Anjali and Nani had a right to be angry anyone would. But their reactions are seriously OTT. If I remember correctly it was Anjali who convinced Nani to let Arnav bring LA home and even then he followed all the rules that Nani had laid down like living in separate rooms etc etc. If he was the irresponsible arrogant jerk she is making him sound he would have just ignored her where La was concerned.

I have been feeling since the first time Nani brought up Arnav's dad that she is punishing Arnav for whatever his dad did...doesnt she see /understand how much he has suffered bcos of his past...how can she have any right over him when she is tearing his heart apart every now and then.. Anjali keeps giving such a "bhashan" to Arnav about moving forward from his past why hasnt she even once told nani to shut up on that issue...if Arnav was in her place he would fight with his last breath (as he is) to protect his sis from getting hurt.

Also Anjali needs to remember that it was for her that he went and brought back Khushi whom he hated so much at that point of time.

Most importantly what I dont get is Nani and Anjali (who claims to "mein tumhari ankhon mein tumhari mann ki baat leti hun Arnav) cant see read the pain in his eyes which is so evident. Also they know khushi enough to realise something is wrong when khushi has done so much for their family.

Also one important thing, no matter who be it nani, mami (arnav buying that necklace for her), eanjali, akash, Arnav always read their reactions and made an effort to make them happy...where are they when he needs for them to understand his evident state of distress...

Coming to Payaliya dear...she is proving she is her mothers daughter and Bua's niece , ok looking at her personality of being meek...if she is not able to defend khushi, she can atleast refrain from giving her "BITCHY" glares and looks...so much for calling herself jiji...being upset is different from abandoning your loved one in time of need...

Last I have been wondering if my bro (whom I am very close to) did this..I would b upset angry but somewhere i would not want to spoil such an important moment in his life...being patient and giving space is called mature love for your loved ones...

Just my take ...sorry if I bored u guys with a long post

Edited by memyselfandrshi - 13 years ago

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farfar319

@farfar319

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Posted: 13 years ago

#33

I can speak from experience - their reactions were a little too OTT.

My cousin also eloped without the consent of her parents and rest of the family. Our family has a pretty high rep within the society too and she's the eldest daughter of the family... and this all took place back home... Yeah there was a lot of screaming and fighting and crying, but nothing like this OTT stuff.

I don't think adults are this immature in real life and I know its a show and all, but at the very least Anjali shouldn't be this OTT. I never abandoned my cousin (who's like my sister) when she did this... yeah I was angry that she did it without telling anyone, but its not like I gave her this "i'll never accept this...you brought shame to our family" treatment.

As a sister, Anjali should have been more understanding, like she said she's been understanding about everything else Arnav's ever done. Because, in the grand scheme of things, he married a girl much better than they ever thought he would, whats the issue? Last night should have been the end of her wailing.

She should've been the mature one, the bigger person, the elder one (despite the fact that she usually acts like his baby sister), and accepted the situation at hand in the morning and dealt with putting the broken pieces and mending the family. Thats what siblings do for each other. They stick together, no matter how stupid of a decision the other one made.

And most of all, she should not have taken it out on Khushi either. She asked Khushi why last night... and it should have ended there. Khushi is not her sister, she has no right to be angry at her. (No, this doesn't mean Payal is justified in her reaction either..she's another basket case).

Her anger should be only reserved for Arnav, her brother. No matter how close she and Khushi are, she has no rights over being angry at Khushi. You can say they think of each other as sisters or they're really close, but at the end of the day they're friends. And friends don't get mad at each other like that either, no matter how stupid of a decision the other one made... there are worse betrayals out there. Anjali needs to learn how to put things in perspective.

Just my opinion =), sorry it's so long!

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Purvim

@purvim

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: Ipepe
I was really trying to understand them,I couldn't.
You say any person will behave like this...ok yes,anyone will get upset.But will anyone CRY this much.Anji baby has only 2 emotions,happy and sad.Nothing else.

What's all this stupidity about never forgiving arhi?Didn't khushi forgive her when she blackmailed khushi because of her selfish reasons?

I understand they try to make anjali this very emotional character,who feels much more than she thinks.But IMO they fail miserably.

lekin mujhe lag raha hai ki gupta family, Anjali, nani, shyaam aur ASR un charo ne kisi na kisi bahane se khushi ko blackmail hi kiya hai jo khushi ke liye nyaay nahi hai.

Gupta family use yeh kahe ke BM karta raha ki woh unka khun nahi hai.

Syaam ne kaha ki babuji aur buaji ki ichha se tum mujh se shaadi kar lo

Anjali ne kaha ki mere bhai ke laakh rupees wapas dedo our nahi kar shakati hai to La ko shaadi ke maayne shikhao

Nani ne kaha ki tumhari humein aur zaroorat hai ...yaad hai na woh ullala song ka waqt ...

Asr ne kaha ki tum mujse shaadi kar lo varna tumhari bahen ki shaadi nahi hogi.

ismein Khushi kya chahti hai woh kabhi kisi ne socha bhi nahi hai.

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427050

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Posted: 13 years ago

#35

^^ this is what I was thinking too.Many characters in the show take advantage of a person's(specially's khushi's) emotions or any kind of bad situation and then blackmail that person.

May be khushi has manipulated in the past too but those were small incidents.I don't think she is capable of blackmailing someone and making them cry/do something they don't want to.

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