Sharon...Give her the Benefit of Doubt!!!

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ABI

@ABBY92

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Posted: 14 years ago

If Yesterday's episode made me smile like crazy and skip around my house...Today's episode was just devastating...Watching the KR college perform the Dazzler's routine was just heartbreaking...I literally felt like someone was stealing something of mine...Had tears in my eyes from the very beginning...and the sadness just turned to anger as I saw Shivam smiling...and to pour oil into the fire...Was it really necessary to show us the whole routine being performed by KR again???...I mean Come on man!!!...we're already devastated, mad n watching KR doing the whole thing again just irritated the hell out of me...During this whole thing...Rey's optimism came like a ray of sunshine...and I was hopeful again...I just kept saying the DAZZLERS will definitely rock the floor...and everyone will realise who's idea it really was...But seeing the whole thing go down the drain in front of me just made me lose it!!!...I understand why they did that...and I'll admit that the storyline seemed more real having the Dazzlers be nervous like tat on stage...After everything that happened...their reactions are justified...

But still,my topic of concern here is Sharon...Knowing the person that she is...That's what made me feel real bad...She's the perfectionist...the one who wanted to win more than anyone else...the one who put in the most amount of effort to make sure victory is theirs...and to see all that being destroyed in a split second...Just imaging what she must have felt makes me want to cry...Sharon has always put her team first...and to think that she's the reason for their failure today must be heartbreaking for her...I was happy to see Rey not blaming her...Its good to see that he knows his best friend well...For a moment I thought there'll be no one for Sharon...but still,for everything tat Rey did today..I got to say I LOVE YOU, REY !!!

Some people don't seem to understand why Sharon reacted the way she did...I feel so bad seeing people blame Sharon for everything...I admit it was her mistake that she trusted Shivam so much...but everyone is allowed to make mistakes even Sharon...and then I see people blaming her for running off the stage and leaving her team all alone...They got to understand that everything that happened today affected Sharon more than anyone else...Yes,the Dazzlers were devastated, panic stricken and nervous when they went up on stage today...but its a whole other thing for Sharon...She's the Diva...she's used to people admiring her, trying to get her attention or trying to be like her...but today all she saw was disgust and hate in the eyes of everyone!!!...She's the girl who used to call everyone else Loser and today to hear that word being hurled towards her...I know most of you guys are going to say she deserves it...Karma's a B**ch!!!

But not for today...That was the old Sharon...I got to say please wake up and realise how much she has changed in the past few months...She even some what accepted the Weaklings...Her reaction to everything that happened today is totally justified because she's in a whole different situation than her team mates...She knows she brought this upon herself...that makes everything that happened even worse for her...I already expected Nil and Vicky to blame her...and I understand where they are coming from...but to actually see it during the precap...Sharon in tears...Her team means the world to her and for her to think that they don't trust her...You guys should be able to understand her pain...The only thought that is comforting me right now is that I really hope Swayam will be there for Sharon tomorrow...cause I don't see anyone else being able to calm her down right now...

The main point of this topic was just to get people to understand Sharon's point of view and realise that she may have been bitchy last time...she may have thought she was better...but you all have to realise that all that was in the past...She's not that Sharon any more...How come no one remembers her being nice to Kria...her helping out the Weaklings by making Swayam stay even though that was more for herself...Why does no one make a big deal when Sharon shows her good side but the moment she does something wrong, they just start bashing her...Please remember that she is also HUMAN!!!...And its going to take time for her to transform herself...All I'm saying is that Yes,whatever that happened today was mostly Sharon's fault...but do realise and understand that she did it unknowingly...and that's why her reaction towards the whole thing was different than that of her team mates!!!...Basically,why don't you all try giving Sharon the BENEFIT OF DOUBT sometimes!!!

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Sakina

@-Sakina-

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Posted: 14 years ago

Amazing,and much needed post,Abi.

My heart went out to the Dazzlers yesterday-Footloose has been their dream,their ambition.They've toiled,they've worked really hard,and to see someone else taking away all the credit,and themselves getting booed for something they should have won accolades for-is heartbreaking.

Its very easy to blame Sharon,no matter what the situation is,because she's never been Miss Goody-two shoes.She's had her share of flaws,she's made loads of mistakes.We're all like Sharon in more ways than one,somewhere down the line,yet,people tend to blame her for every smal thing,just because she's not the spotless,Indian heroine.

Yes,somewhere down the line,Sharon did ask for trouble.She did allow Shivam to use her for his calculating purposes-but what people don't understand is,the REASON Sharon did so!

Everything,everything she's done has always been for Swayam-to extract a reaction out of him,to make him go back to what he was before,to make him love her like he used to.There was no other way she could think of,to get him back-she could SEE him drifting away from her,and getting close to Shivam was a desperate attempt to stop Swayam.She hadn' realized where she needed to draw the line.

Somewhere down the line,she is definitely at fault-but she shouldn't be blamed outright for this.Footloose has been more than just an ambition for her,and dor someone like Sharon,for whom adulation,admiration has been a common thing-to be booed is something she CANNOT handle.

You definitely need to give her benefit of doubt.

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manasi

@manasie23

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Posted: 14 years ago

Abi i completely agree with each and every word of your post... You somewhat spoke my heart out... After yesterday's episode i was so happy like literally on cloud 9 and just after today's episode... M not even in the mood to say anything... Ok i knew this had to come... Aisa hona hi tha... Par when i saw KR guys perform dazzler's routine i could literally feel their pain... Like some1 stole my my dance routine and perofrmed it before i could...

Sharon's reaction were justified mann... Come on she sharon... Sharon raiprakash the diva... People admire her... For her she is just the best... And to see something like this happen to urself... Its heartbreaking mann... May be after this she will just lose her self confidence... Her friends who are damn important for her are blaming her for all this... Yes somewhere down the line it was her mistake but not completely... Uss thodina pata tha... That shivam is using her... She was trying to be a genuine friend...

But i have to say this... Rey mann i love u for today's episode... Just when i thought all her friends are gonna blame her... Rey was the one... Who took control.. And calmed dem... I loved his optimism...

Yes many people are bashing sharon for whatever is happening... But common guys... Sharon is a human just like us... And to err is to human isn't it... Just try and understand her... U will come to know she ain't bad... She is just a normal girl like us...

And that precap... Its killing me... Sharon crying.. While nil and vicky blaming her... And this time rey is not there to support her... May be cos he has got his won problems to solve... I just hope... Swayam lands up der and just lets her know... Ki whatever happen... I m always der... *sorry i can't help it.. Mere thoughts me SwaRon hi aata hai*

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doc42

@doc42

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Posted: 14 years ago

Pehle tou very well written Abbi .. Thumbs up . I totally agree to what you have tried to make us clear about, Sharon is like some blame karne ka character or something, jab jis k jee main aye, suna dalo . Although we know that she is such a complicated character, there's just no way she can be blamed wholely and solely . What i really don't understand in this whole situation is that even if hamare friends se koi mistake hojaye, tou aisa tou nahin that we start blaming them, sometimes circumstances hi aise hojate hain . In Sharon's case, it was a pure pure mistake . To err is human, right so she shouldn't be blamed entirely about this whole thing . I am pretty much hoping that Swayam would make this whole situation come under control and yes Rey also, we saw it today how he actually supported them all . Lets hope this whole situation gives us some amazing SwaRon moments to cherish ..
Sneha kapoor .. You are brilliant . Amazing . Awesome work .

P.S .. ShanTANNU looks so cute in the new video . =D

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SwaRon227

@SwaRon227

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Posted: 14 years ago

Huff, finally read the whole post.. AMAZING !!! amazing abby dii!! this is brilliant !!! I LOVED the way u explained everything...
Even i LOVED rey today...he didnt blame her...he was the leader of the group and it was his responsibility to support his group when everyone were breaking down..and he did...the result wasnt good but thats not the point here... love rey for this! and i just hope in tomorrows episode ... rey's attitude's like this only... i hope he doesnt blame sharon for everything...I just HOPE :(
And ur ryt di, everyone worked equally hard for footloose and it meant a LOT for EVERYONE .. but for sharon it was something TOTALLY different ..m nt saying that sharon is the only one working hard for the eliminations... everyone did ... and the fact that her reacting totally unexpected... breaking down ... crying . running away ... is well, pretty obvious to us.
Everybody is upset...frustrated..angry..sad...but they dnt really have any proof that sharon is the responsible for KR guys copying their routine... do they ??? do they have any proof?? so itna sunnana ... tanut karna ... mujhe samajh nahi aata WHY.
And she was that bitchy sharon only the starting to D3 ... the first 20 episodes... after RDX's party...and 1st july's locker room scene...the transformation in sharon was started..she was changing ... yeah the process was slow...but she did change!!! she complemented swayam.. a 'weakling' for his dance... supported kria as for feminism .. made swayam stay in St. Louis ... and bas ek galti... sab chadh gaye uspe -___________- srsly... why dnt they give her benefit of doubt ???

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shaani2209

@shaani2209

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Posted: 14 years ago

First of all awesome post dear👏...yeah me tooo felt so bad wen i saw so many of them bashing sharon up😭...but yeah on the other hand m hoping your post will make them understand sharon's side of view...😉😉😉

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hkl75

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Posted: 14 years ago

That's the point abi!

Sharon k sath bs diva ka tag jese chipka hi diya hai! no doubt she is the awesome one but why to forget to she is also HUMAN with her own insecurities?

i felt bad too that she always kept her team as first n just one priority! n her team mates accusing her! fine she made a mistake but she is a human too! if sum1 acts nice with u, u eventually start trusting them. y to make a havoc then😡

lets hope everything get normal asap coz i just cant see sharon in a disaster of being accused n alone

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SwaRon227

@SwaRon227

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shaani2209
First of all awesome post dear👏...yeah me tooo felt so bad wen i saw so many of them bashing sharon up😭...but yeah on the other hand m hoping your post will make them understand sharon's side of view...😉😉😉

Your right. People should understand that she is not a villian :( yes she's a lil aggressive..that doesnt mean shes bad at heart!

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Shivs

@The007Shivani

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Posted: 14 years ago

i understand and she broke on stage but not to fear when swayam is there

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nish22

@nish22

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Posted: 14 years ago

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First of all, BEEP You Shivam and your college... I am not much of an emotional when it comes to Tv Shows and movies but D3 is the only show that has made me cry... First was in the SwaRon Break up thing and now Today!!

We have all been so accustomed to seeing Sharon, the Diva the most strong person in the entire show who cares a hell lot about her image... I mean for peeps sake she EFFING TURNED DOWN SWAYAM just for that.. But today the shame she felt is incomparable to anything... When the dance started the look on everyone's face was highly depressing... Though i always love Nilesh and Vicky just next to SwaRon their actions pissed me off...

We had all expected it.. We knew she was going to get shattered... We knew she was going to be blamed but one thing we knew wrong was about rey.. I have to mention him for his die-hard spirit and his support for his Best Friend no matter what... But the endless tears on sharon's eyes brought tears to my eyes...

The Precap was worst... It really isn't fair to blame her continuously.. Everyone knows she did have a fault but she didnt know anything about that #$%#%%&*^& (Cant say the name) motive... The question i have running in my mind endlessly is that what will happen next? Birth of Actual Louisans?? Cuz both the teams have their losses... Weakling their loveable lead dancer Kria and Dazzlers their Spot on Footloose and their reputation which is now completely gone... I hope people stop blaming Sharon and Swayam taking revenge on the *%&#$%($%!! Oh and i am hoping to see that #$%%$# getting a hard B*tchSlap from Sharon and the enitre Dazzlers!!

Edited by nish22 - 14 years ago

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