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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nice post abi Di! :D
so ya, I am soo upset Abhi seeing the epi! Cnt even think of anything! Just now I said dat how I wanna bash shivam nd everyone wid him, present thr! I was soo disgusted by him, actually am! I mean saari mehnt Sharon nd dazzlings kare, choreograph Kare, sikhaye, practise karaye, motivate Kare, sabse zada tension wo le stil nhi dikhaye! I mean I think she was the person who was most excited today nd jiske liye tdy's day was everything! She was soo determined for it! Practised for hours nd WASTED soo much time thinking about it nd HER TEAM! nd dey are blaming HER for everything that hapent! Nd I'm nt saying ki kisi aur ne mehnat nhi ki! It's just dat I feel ki shro. Was a lil more concerned about it.. But everyone worked hard nd I dnt disgaree wid it or ignore it! :) bt Matlab I knw dat usme shAron ki galti thi bt she is nt a superwoman! She is just a human nd it's meant for them to do mistakes! Life ki philosophy se human has to make mistakes, nd mistakes are obviously unknown! Sharon ke liye uske frnds, uski team is everything for her! Nd they only are making her cry soo much! How lame is that! How can dey do it! Usse bhi hurt hota he! Plz let her live for gods sake! How rey showed d leadership spirit nd trusted his best friend was sumthing (or only thing) I lyked about tdy's epi!
Shiavm! I srsly wanna kill him! Either by burning him, freezing him, bashing him up fully, blasting him, shooting him or anything but how vonvinient it is for him na! Bt mr shivam watever, you just wait and watch! Ye log nhi to me tumhe kuch na du, beware! Kyuki I hv no trust ab dat wil dey do sumthin or nt cz I had ful trust day dey wil perform better or sumthing else bt.. Anyways, wo, uski team, uske friends, sab are jerks! I hate his smile! -______-
I really hoped say swayam wil go today nd console Sharon but wahi ka wahi khada reh gya! May be cz he dnt knw how to react or sumthin bt agar usne kal kuch nhi kiya den I'm sry bt me bare nhi kar paungi!
I hope Sharon be ok! Soo disheartening to see her lyk dis!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sharon did trust Shivam.Yeah its pretty obvious she didnt LIKe him the way she made out in front of Swayam, but she did truly believe that he was her frend and well wisher(puke!!!!).Finding out that this very "friend" had actually showered her with fake compliments and what not just to get to her routine had to be a shock to her, and would be to anyone.Its obvious that she WOULD be frustrated and shocked.I dont blame her ONE BIT for it.

But I wish she hadnt run away from her stage.With the exception of Rey, the Dazzler status and repo had been equally important to the others in the team as well.But they bravely stood their ground, even rinni and simmi.I WISH SHaron had been a true vice captain and stayed with her team when it fell, just like she did when they were applauded.

Anyways,,,in a way I think this was good.Good for SHARON.I'm not saying that she deserved the betrayal OR the jeering.I mean good for her as a way to realise that her ego will ALWAYS bring her downfall.It was because of her ego, and not lack of feelings, that she rejected Swayam, distanced him from herself, and this in turn lead to a series of events, finally leading Sharon to that B*****D.I feel that this incident will make her COMPLETELY let go of her ego(since she already took the first step yesterday).Though she went through crap for it, this maybe a way of bringing a HUGE positive change in her, instead of her taking baby steps.

Hope I didnt say anything offending😊

PS...I LOVED my REY even more today.He's a true leader.He doesnt deserve to get so much pain at the same time.He's lost footloose(dance) as well as his baatcutter(dil)

LOVE YOU REY!!!!<3<3<3
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: manasie

Abi i completely agree with each and every word of your post... You somewhat spoke my heart out... After yesterday's episode i was so happy like literally on cloud 9 and just after today's episode... M not even in the mood to say anything... Ok i knew this had to come... Aisa hona hi tha... Par when i saw KR guys perform dazzler's routine i could literally feel their pain... Like some1 stole my my dance routine and perofrmed it before i could...

Sharon's reaction were justified mann... Come on she sharon... Sharon raiprakash the diva... People admire her... For her she is just the best... And to see something like this happen to urself... Its heartbreaking mann... May be after this she will just lose her self confidence... Her friends who are damn important for her are blaming her for all this... Yes somewhere down the line it was her mistake but not completely... Uss thodina pata tha... That shivam is using her... She was trying to be a genuine friend...

But i have to say this... Rey mann i love u for today's episode... Just when i thought all her friends are gonna blame her... Rey was the one... Who took control.. And calmed dem... I loved his optimism...

Yes many people are bashing sharon for whatever is happening... But common guys... Sharon is a human just like us... And to err is to human isn't it... Just try and understand her... U will come to know she ain't bad... She is just a normal girl like us...

And that precap... Its killing me... Sharon crying.. While nil and vicky blaming her... And this time rey is not there to support her... May be cos he has got his won problems to solve... I just hope... Swayam lands up der and just lets her know... Ki whatever happen... I m always der... *sorry i can't help it.. Mere thoughts me SwaRon hi aata hai*


Thanx Manu...I think all SwaRon fans were feelin d same way yesterday...Yes,v expected all tis too happen...but too actually watch our Diva like tat yesterday was heartbreakin...n I jus hope ppl understand tat Sharon is human too...plz give her a break...yeah,d precap jus made things worse...n even my thoughts r of SwaRon all d time...Jus prayin tat Swayam will b there for her in 2day's epi!!!

Originally posted by: doc42

Pehle tou very well written Abbi .. Thumbs up . I totally agree to what you have tried to make us clear about, Sharon is like some blame karne ka character or something, jab jis k jee main aye, suna dalo . Although we know that she is such a complicated character, there's just no way she can be blamed wholely and solely . What i really don't understand in this whole situation is that even if hamare friends se koi mistake hojaye, tou aisa tou nahin that we start blaming them, sometimes circumstances hi aise hojate hain . In Sharon's case, it was a pure pure mistake . To err is human, right so she shouldn't be blamed entirely about this whole thing . I am pretty much hoping that Swayam would make this whole situation come under control and yes Rey also, we saw it today how he actually supported them all . Lets hope this whole situation gives us some amazing SwaRon moments to cherish ..
Sneha kapoor .. You are brilliant . Amazing . Awesome work .

P.S .. ShanTANNU looks so cute in the new video . =D


Yeah, Sharon has always been d person to blame in D3...I dnt get y...frm d smallest thing to d biggest prob...its like everything is Sharon's fault...but very few ppl acknowledge her when she does sumthin gud...Her character is complex...n I think ppl shuld stop being so hard on her...I'm hopin tat Swayam will console her too...Lets jus pray tat all tis will give us some really great SwaRon scenes...Sneha is a brilliant actor n yeah,TANNU was so adorable in d vid!!!

Originally posted by: SwaRon227

Huff, finally read the whole post.. AMAZING !!! amazing abby dii!! this is brilliant !!! I LOVED the way u explained everything...
Even i LOVED rey today...he didnt blame her...he was the leader of the group and it was his responsibility to support his group when everyone were breaking down..and he did...the result wasnt good but thats not the point here... love rey for this! and i just hope in tomorrows episode ... rey's attitude's like this only... i hope he doesnt blame sharon for everything...I just HOPE :(
And ur ryt di, everyone worked equally hard for footloose and it meant a LOT for EVERYONE .. but for sharon it was something TOTALLY different ..m nt saying that sharon is the only one working hard for the eliminations... everyone did ... and the fact that her reacting totally unexpected... breaking down ... crying . running away ... is well, pretty obvious to us.
Everybody is upset...frustrated..angry..sad...but they dnt really have any proof that sharon is the responsible for KR guys copying their routine... do they ??? do they have any proof?? so itna sunnana ... tanut karna ... mujhe samajh nahi aata WHY.
And she was that bitchy sharon only the starting to D3 ... the first 20 episodes... after RDX's party...and 1st july's locker room scene...the transformation in sharon was started..she was changing ... yeah the process was slow...but she did change!!! she complemented swayam.. a 'weakling' for his dance... supported kria as for feminism .. made swayam stay in St. Louis ... and bas ek galti... sab chadh gaye uspe -___________- srsly... why dnt they give her benefit of doubt ???


Awwhhh,Thanx Chintoo...n I agree,Rey really stepped up n proved tat he's d leader of d Dazzler's yesterday...really respect him for tryin n keepin her team 2geta durin tat difficult time...Yeah, even i'm not sayin tat d otha's didnt work as hard...its jus tat Sharon put in a bit more cause of her competitive spirit n she always wants to win...I agree Sharon has come a long way since D3 started..ppl need to understand tat in her mind she's perfect...there's ntg to change...so, ofcourse d process is gonna take some time...but she has transformed so much since d RDX party scene...Ppl really need to give Sharon a chance to prove tat she's gud too n stop treatin her like d bad person...cus she's isnt!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaani2209

First of all awesome post dear👏...yeah me tooo felt so bad wen i saw so many of them bashing sharon up😭...but yeah on the other hand m hoping your post will make them understand sharon's side of view...😉😉😉


Thanx Shaani...Ppl dnt hav to agree wit me but I do hope tat tis post makes them understand Sharon a bit more!!!

Originally posted by: Hawaida

That's the point abi!

Sharon k sath bs diva ka tag jese chipka hi diya hai! no doubt she is the awesome one but why to forget to she is also HUMAN with her own insecurities?
i felt bad too that she always kept her team as first n just one priority! n her team mates accusing her! fine she made a mistake but she is a human too! if sum1 acts nice with u, u eventually start trusting them. y to make a havoc then😡
lets hope everything get normal asap coz i just cant see sharon in a disaster of being accused n alone


Yeah Hawaida...jus cause Sharon is known as d Diva...ppl forget she's also a human wit feelings n hu is allowed to make mistakes too...Its sad to see tat d team tat she worked so hard for r nw blamin her...I understand where they r comin frm...but to c Sharon like tat jus breaks my heart...I'm hoping all tis will bring some gud for SwaRon in some way...Lets see wat happens next!!!

Originally posted by: The007Shivani

i understand and she broke on stage but not to fear when swayam is there


Awwhhh, tats wat v r all hopin for...Swayam betta b there for Sharon!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nish22

First of all, BEEP You Shivam and your college... I am not much of an emotional when it comes to Tv Shows and movies but D3 is the only show that has made me cry... First was in the SwaRon Break up thing and now Today!!


We have all been so accustomed to seeing Sharon, the Diva the most strong person in the entire show who cares a hell lot about her image... I mean for peeps sake she EFFING TURNED DOWN SWAYAM just for that.. But today the shame she felt is incomparable to anything... When the dance started the look on everyone's face was highly depressing... Though i always love Nilesh and Vicky just next to SwaRon their actions pissed me off...

We had all expected it.. We knew she was going to get shattered... We knew she was going to be blamed but one thing we knew wrong was about rey.. I have to mention him for his die-hard spirit and his support for his Best Friend no matter what... But the endless tears on sharon's eyes brought tears to my eyes...

The Precap was worst... It really isn't fair to blame her continuously.. Everyone knows she did have a fault but she didnt know anything about that #$%#%%&*^& (Cant say the name) motive... The question i have running in my mind endlessly is that what will happen next? Birth of Actual Louisans?? Cuz both the teams have their losses... Weakling their loveable lead dancer Kria and Dazzlers their Spot on Footloose and their reputation which is now completely gone... I hope people stop blaming Sharon and Swayam taking revenge on the *%&#$%($%!! Oh and i am hoping to see that #$%%$# getting a hard B*tchSlap from Sharon and the enitre Dazzlers!!


Damn gal...I can feel ur anger...Seriously...Shivam has to pay for tis...Cant wait to watch him fail...n I hope it happens soon!!!...N yeah,v all expected tis to happen n I tried to prepare myself for it...But to see Sharon shattered like tat jus killed me...I couldnt stop myself frm cryin!!!...N yeah, its gonna b interesting to see wat happens next...really hoping tat d Dazzlers will join d Weaklings nw...n finally, v'll get Louisans...v hav been waitin for tat to happen for so long!!!...Wat I really wanna see rite nw is tat Shivam goin dwn!!!

Originally posted by: SugarCubes

Nice post abi Di! :D
so ya, I am soo upset Abhi seeing the epi! Cnt even think of anything! Just now I said dat how I wanna bash shivam nd everyone wid him, present thr! I was soo disgusted by him, actually am! I mean saari mehnt Sharon nd dazzlings kare, choreograph Kare, sikhaye, practise karaye, motivate Kare, sabse zada tension wo le stil nhi dikhaye! I mean I think she was the person who was most excited today nd jiske liye tdy's day was everything! She was soo determined for it! Practised for hours nd WASTED soo much time thinking about it nd HER TEAM! nd dey are blaming HER for everything that hapent! Nd I'm nt saying ki kisi aur ne mehnat nhi ki! It's just dat I feel ki shro. Was a lil more concerned about it.. But everyone worked hard nd I dnt disgaree wid it or ignore it! :) bt Matlab I knw dat usme shAron ki galti thi bt she is nt a superwoman! She is just a human nd it's meant for them to do mistakes! Life ki philosophy se human has to make mistakes, nd mistakes are obviously unknown! Sharon ke liye uske frnds, uski team is everything for her! Nd they only are making her cry soo much! How lame is that! How can dey do it! Usse bhi hurt hota he! Plz let her live for gods sake! How rey showed d leadership spirit nd trusted his best friend was sumthing (or only thing) I lyked about tdy's epi!
Shiavm! I srsly wanna kill him! Either by burning him, freezing him, bashing him up fully, blasting him, shooting him or anything but how vonvinient it is for him na! Bt mr shivam watever, you just wait and watch! Ye log nhi to me tumhe kuch na du, beware! Kyuki I hv no trust ab dat wil dey do sumthin or nt cz I had ful trust day dey wil perform better or sumthing else bt.. Anyways, wo, uski team, uske friends, sab are jerks! I hate his smile! -______-
I really hoped say swayam wil go today nd console Sharon but wahi ka wahi khada reh gya! May be cz he dnt knw how to react or sumthin bt agar usne kal kuch nhi kiya den I'm sry bt me bare nhi kar paungi!
I hope Sharon be ok! Soo disheartening to see her lyk dis!


Totally wit u Isha...I wtd to jus strangle Shivam today n wipe tat wicked smile off his face!!!...Hw dare he...He will pay for tis soon!!!...N yeah,Sharon was so excited...she has been waitin for tis day for so long...n she wtd her team to win so bad..n to see tat her team failed today...tat too cause of her mistake...it totally broke her...I m mad tat Nil n Vicky r blamin her but I understand where they r comin frm... I jus hope Rey n Swayam will make every1 realise soon enuf tat it wasnt all Sharon's fault...Hw was she to know tat Shivam wuld play such a dirty game!!!...Really hopin tat afta d BB court scene today...when Sharon runs off cryin...she will some hw bump into Swayam n he will console her...cause i dnt think any1 else can calm Sharon dwn rite nw besides Swayam...Its so sad to see our Diva like tis...Hope everything turns out well in d end!!!

Originally posted by: DamonCrazy_D3

Sharon did trust Shivam.Yeah its pretty obvious she didnt LIKe him the way she made out in front of Swayam, but she did truly believe that he was her frend and well wisher(puke!!!!).Finding out that this very "friend" had actually showered her with fake compliments and what not just to get to her routine had to be a shock to her, and would be to anyone.Its obvious that she WOULD be frustrated and shocked.I dont blame her ONE BIT for it.

But I wish she hadnt run away from her stage.With the exception of Rey, the Dazzler status and repo had been equally important to the others in the team as well.But they bravely stood their ground, even rinni and simmi.I WISH SHaron had been a true vice captain and stayed with her team when it fell, just like she did when they were applauded.

Anyways,,,in a way I think this was good.Good for SHARON.I'm not saying that she deserved the betrayal OR the jeering.I mean good for her as a way to realise that her ego will ALWAYS bring her downfall.It was because of her ego, and not lack of feelings, that she rejected Swayam, distanced him from herself, and this in turn lead to a series of events, finally leading Sharon to that B*****D.I feel that this incident will make her COMPLETELY let go of her ego(since she already took the first step yesterday).Though she went through crap for it, this maybe a way of bringing a HUGE positive change in her, instead of her taking baby steps.

Hope I didnt say anything offending😊

PS...I LOVED my REY even more today.He's a true leader.He doesnt deserve to get so much pain at the same time.He's lost footloose(dance) as well as his baatcutter(dil)

LOVE YOU REY!!!!<3<3<3
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I understand ur point of view...n no worries,u didnt say nythin offensive 😊...I'm happy to see tat u guys can understand d betrayal tat Sharon is feeling...she truly trusted Shivam as a fren..n being used like tat jus broke her...as for running off d stage...i get ur point...yeah, maybe she shuld hav stood there n supported her team...but i'm jus tryin to say tat d whole situation on stage was different for Sharon...she's always been d best...n she's neva faced tis kinda humiliation be4...so,to c d audiences callin her n her team Losers jus affected her more than her team mates...resulting in her running off d stage...I hope i didnt offend u by sayin tat...i jus wanna try n make u'll understand y she did wat she did...Totally agree wit u when u say tat tis was gud in a way...maybe nw Sharon will understand d Weaklings a bit more n i'm sure tis incident will play a big role in her transformation!!!...Here's hoping tat oni gud things will come frm tis devastating incident...n yeah,totally loved REY yesterday...he was a true fren n leader in yesterday's epi!!!
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Originally posted by: -Sakina-

Amazing,and much needed post,Abi.
My heart went out to the Dazzlers yesterday-Footloose has been their dream,their ambition.They've toiled,they've worked really hard,and to see someone else taking away all the credit,and themselves getting booed for something they should have won accolades for-is heartbreaking.
Its very easy to blame Sharon,no matter what the situation is,because she's never been Miss Goody-two shoes.She's had her share of flaws,she's made loads of mistakes.We're all like Sharon in more ways than one,somewhere down the line,yet,people tend to blame her for every smal thing,just because she's not the spotless,Indian heroine.
Yes,somewhere down the line,Sharon did ask for trouble.She did allow Shivam to use her for his calculating purposes-but what people don't understand is,the REASON Sharon did so!
Everything,everything she's done has always been for Swayam-to extract a reaction out of him,to make him go back to what he was before,to make him love her like he used to.There was no other way she could think of,to get him back-she could SEE him drifting away from her,and getting close to Shivam was a desperate attempt to stop Swayam.She hadn' realized where she needed to draw the line.
Somewhere down the line,she is definitely at fault-but she shouldn't be blamed outright for this.Footloose has been more than just an ambition for her,and dor someone like Sharon,for whom adulation,admiration has been a common thing-to be booed is something she CANNOT handle.
You definitely need to give her benefit of doubt.


Totally agree wit u,Saku di...Sharon is d easiest person to blame jus cause she's not d spotless Indian heroine hu can do no wrong!!!...Sharon is one of d most real character on television...i mean none of us r perfect...or totally gud...v all hav our flaws jus like Sharon...but i dnt think ppl shuld hold it against her...They shuld try n understand why she did wat she did...Gettin close to Shivam was d oni way she culd think of to hold on to Swayam...but even then,sum where u saw tat Sharon did genuinely treat Shivam as a fren...Yes,it is partially her fault tat all tis has happened...but ppl need to understand tat no one blames Sharon more than herself...Being d perfectionist tat she is...To realise tat she brought the downfall of her team today totally shattered her...N I jus hope sum1...hopefully Swayam will b wit her durin tis tough time!!!
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Lovely post, Abi :) I mostly agree with what you're saying, for sure!

1) I love Rey for being such a great friend and supporting her throughout - he truly is her best friend :') Love him. :)

2) I completely agree that Sharon has changed over the last few months - but people can't change so much that they are completely different different people with different attitudes, right? I am with you when you say that humans make mistakes, and yes, it does happen! But for me, she is still a dazzler who is more about winning a comp, rather than participating in it, and THAT pisses me off! :@ I feel like she's more mad about not winning the comp than Shivam betraying her - you know? That pisses me off.

3) But yes, HOW was the poor thing supposed to know that Shivam was completely using her? :S One CANNOT blame Sharon for not being able to see through Shivam - it's NOT her fault at all! No, no. In fact, put yourself in her shoes, would you think so too? I certainly wouldn't! :o So, I don't think she's to blame for that, but unfortunately :/ Hmmm.

Anyways, sorry for my essay. Loll. I guess I'm going back to my old ways - of writing essays! Hahahahaha.

Great post Abi, again! :)

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