Journey of being together - Sharing his problems!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: 5cents

Navya, welcome back!! Wonderful analysis👏

In all this Mom & Son confrontation what I noticed is that Ahem has become perfect Saathiya to Gopi. He'll never leave her side will infact protect all the time come what may.❤️ He spoke to her very calmly.

Kok, what can I say, it is good that she has spilled her venom, now Gohem together will be able to find a solution to take care of her ( high hope...no harm dreaming😳)

People are so complex . A mixture of both good and bad with a denial of both . And it's just my theory but the good that is around the corner will only come if you make it happen by being who you are. ...this is what Gopi had done earlier with Ahem ji. Now I think Ahem will do the same with Koki. To lose faith is far easier than holding on because everyone, and I mean everyone, is dysfunctional in one way or another. Here Koki, Gopi & Ahem all have some flaw or the other...nobody is perfect...the combination can be 80/20. or 40/60 or 50/50

That is just a fact. But our flaws , as bothersome as they are, are what make us unique and special.

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Wonderful analysis Navya... And a very good question in the end.
I go with Tina.. Ahem has been a true saathiya this time and has and will protect Gopi.. I am holding on to the optimism that just like after Teej, Kokila will realize her mistake soon.. As Tina sai, she is spurting venom (I would have said her innermost fears) to Gopi and Ahem. Once she gets it all out she will be ok and will be able to think beyond her anger.

Originally posted by: ANJ4

Love your anaylsis... Hope you had a good time.

Originally posted by: maddy311

Lovely post navyab. Nice to read this after such a disappointing episode😊

Originally posted by: navyab

Well Dhabu Ahem must have loved Anita, but was that love strong enough to hold them together...it was not as we see he had given up on her...Now he is in love with Gopi...so only time will tell us if it is strong enough to hold them together...we have already seen him supporting her at all situations even if he did not like her...with his feelings changing he is way beyond just supporting her...he is with her in all the decisions...he has already seen what will their separation do to it during the accident track...so Im sure he will never ever give up on her..

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Welcome back navya🤗...hope you had a great vacation...lovely post and excellent analysis of their journey

- @dining table... her whole focus was on him and the concern never left her face...his anger made him to stop her abruptly in a stern voice...

-when she got the kada... he was yet not ready to face her... he softened in his looks... not to make her more worried ...he left into the restroom

copy paste my own :

when she was about to take the blame...he was quick enough to stop her from taking it on her...

he shared his inner most feelings without a speck of hesitation...when he said...i have hurt mom...mom is very hurt because of me...i don't want to hurt mom again and i will only do the pressing of clothes... these were some lines which he could not have shared with anyone in the world except his wife...

he would have shared it with his mom...but the tiff being with mom,..he needed someone who he could share his pain with ...and she was there for him...

earlier he shared his room, his dresser, his closet, gave her his bed now today he shared his inner most pain with her,,,,

hope he understands that how can she be happy when he was sad & that her happiness lies in his happiness..

very true navya...how can she be happy when he was sad

very important think we are missing is...koki is angry because of Ahem helping Rashi... but he never mentioned Rashi's name in the whole conversation to gopi... all he said was mom is angry as i was not concentrating on work... he knew if he told her helping rashi irked his mom...then gopi will blame herself feel guilty and worried...to keep her away from the guilt and worry...he never mentioned rashi to be the reason for his mom' hurt

end the end of the day he has to make place for both of them in his life

Originally posted by: navyab

Latter as Gopi came into the room, Ahem in the meanwhile was contemplating on how to handle the situation !!! As she called out his name & asked him to take the medicine, he glanced at her face which was full of worry & concern for him...there was a visible change in his face as he pushed his anger down & replied back to her saying that he did not want it ...As she insisted, he asked her to leave him alone & walked away from her...leaving her no option of reaching out to him...On the surface their relation did look like they still have distance between them as both are unable to open up & share their problems with each other !!!

aGREE on tis one, was wondering o no, so looks like he doesnt open up to her, then all the eyelocks and care are down the drain, little did I know I was up for a surprise ! What surprised me was he went to the washroom and not out of the room !

The morning shocked Gopi when she saw Ahem ironing clothes...she immediately rushed to his side to take over it from him ...As her Maaji walked in she was a witness to the interaction between her Ahemji & Maaji...her maaji ordering him to iron the clothes & him agreeing to his mom...She did not know what was going on !!! After her maaji left, Gopi requested Ahem to let her do the work...Ahem took this opportunity to explain it to her on why he was doing it...he answered all her questions without hiding any truth...when Gopi was about to take the blame he asked her to leave it & not bother about it...!!!

A person may share the happiness with everyone, but sorrows are for few.

He didnt act so emtionally like Gopi used to when she would cry out telling him his problems (during exam and the bday), but loved it when Ahem told her almost everything except Rashi, which if intentional was very good. About asking her to leaev it and not bother, just wonder, Ahem is more a man of few words, talking to the point, he could have discussed a bit more with her but he always says leave it etc rather than discussing it out..He has a lot of talking to do !

Ahem explained clearly to Gopi that his mom has lot of expectations on him & that he has already let her down & that he is taking punishment for it...Even in all of this he ensured Gopi knows everything but at the sametime he is not allowing her to take the blame. He is standing in front of her as a husband protecting her from anything which effects her...On the other hand Gopi has seen the love & strong relationship between her Ahemji & Maaji from the start of her marriage into this house...as Ahem asked her to leave him after burning his finger...she was hurt that there is friction between a mother & son because of her !!!

In the past when Ahem could not stand Gopi & threw money on her face during Kinjle's wedding saying that she must be happy now because he was humilated, she expressed her feelings out to herself saying that hope he understands that how can she be happy when he was sad & that her happiness lies in his happiness...Now knowing that she is the cause for the friction & seeing her Ahemji trying hard to please his mother & being hurt, she is distressed...will she speak to her maaji & explain that she was the reason that Ahem was not there for the meeting? Will she be able to please her Maaji saying that they have gone to get the bangles for her !!! Hearing the truth from her Maaji that only because of Gopi that her Ahemji is not giving importance to work, will she distance herself from Ahem? will Ahem be able to recognise the distance if she puts in between them? will he allow her to do it or will he put a stop to her efforts of getting in distance between them? Ahem is at a crossroads unable to keep both the women in his life happy at the sametime...as of now he is on the path of pleasing his mom but if Gopi is what he needs to give up to keep his mom happy, will he do that?

All valid questions- But I think she wont tell about teh bangles, when Gopi goes all out to save others, here its ahemji so she is gonna talk to Maaji and give her bit of explanation and hearing what all Koki tells her about shifting his dhyan etc , she might push herself back. But where is she so close that she will push herself back?

And I think Ahem has turned around, and if her mom's push comes to shove, he will fight it out.