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telstra

@telstra

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Posted: 14 years ago

hmm for one second leave kriya there love there bonding aside. i wanted to ask if any couple who due to some issues cant conceive and having difficulty in having childrens what one should do?

1- one should think its all about luck and if having a child is wriiten in ones destiny he will get it from same partner?

2- or one should think that one should live life completely and should remarry to have childrens?

i would like to hear from male members too😛

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Veena.S

@Veena.S

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Posted: 14 years ago

I suggest adoption... Adoptin orphan children... Tats the best option IMO...

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.anshu.

@.anshu.

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Posted: 14 years ago

As usual great post sis😊

May be if the couple are very much despo for a child,they should adopt.But remarriage is a deffo no-no case.

Sum1 very close to our family were having the same problem...they adopted a girl child and now their family is as luvely as any other normal family😳

Childless couple should give chance to an orphan child,in case they dont have any issue with it.

Edited by .anshu. - 14 years ago

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Anondo Rahman

@Anondo.R

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Posted: 14 years ago

If 'TRUE LOVE' Exist they should go for option 1.

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idrees khan

@idreeskhan123

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Posted: 14 years ago

i'm still single.. aur iska jawab to married couples hi achi tara dai saktai hai..

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Posted: 14 years ago

OPTION 1 means true love...

OPTION 2 main first wife k saath zayaadti ho he jaati hai bhalay hubby jitna accha b kyun na ho

OPTION 3 as Veena said, go for adoption.

OPTION 1 with adoption is the super best 😛

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fanvever

@fanvever

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Posted: 14 years ago

In our family the couple adopted from their relatives and they r very happy and contended.. but some people in our society remarry in willing of their own kids.. its also fine but a husband should be able to accomodate both the familes..

I know a family whose both the wives lives in the same house happily, infact the 3rd daughter from the second wife was given to the first wife so that she can look after her..

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telstra

@telstra

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: kriya2010
OPTION 1 means true love...

OPTION 2 main first wife k saath zayaadti ho he jaati hai bhalay hubby jitna accha b kyun na hoexactly mine thoughts that jitna bhi keh lo we will treat same but jis kay saath baby hoga naturally attention love bhi zyada wahin hoga

OPTION 3 as Veena said, go for adoption.

OPTION 1 with adoption is the super best 😛

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fanvever

@fanvever

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Posted: 14 years ago

but in Krishna pratigya case. people r no way understandable.. so I hope they have their own child.. otherwise they should leave the house for inner peace..

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riyya6

@riyya6

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Posted: 14 years ago

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one should not remarry just to have children...

2 situation :-

1. The problem with the wife, husband remarries.

2. The problem with the husband, the WIFE cannot/should not remarry... this is society perception : what rule is this...??????

Suggestion 1:

But sadly, society blames a woman for not having child... this is reality...in my view, if one couple cannot have child they can always seek adoption... imagine the joy they r going to give for the adopted child... n they themselves can feel the parenthood... of couse, none can be compared with your own blood but making someone ur own n giving them life is something GREAT in my opinion...

Suggestion 2:

N i personally think, if the husband decides to marry just to fulfill the wish of becoming dad, then he must/ should divorce the 1st wife n them proceed with the marriage...

Suggestion 3:

But not forget in this world, there a still couples living happily with each other without having any child... yes of course their life is incomplete but they make it complete by having each other...

what ever choice to be made depends on the couple itself... ⭐️

GOD is fair n square, no one gets everything... in anyone there will be something lacking it can be wealth, hapiness, sadness... etc...

Edited by riyya6 - 14 years ago