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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Riyya:u have given the perfect explanation😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Option 1 is the best option...and if dey r sooo desperate to have a kid then as veena dii dey can go for adoption!

And if em not wrong then dey can go for ART(Assisted Reprorductive Technologies)...i am sorry if am wrong!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: .anshu.

@Riyya:u have given the perfect explanation😊

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Posted: 13 years ago
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when u love ur wife truly, u wont remarry just to have child with another person. imagine how hurt the wife will be with ur act. if you know that u cannot have child, go for adoption. if you think theres no problem between couples, you can still wait. who knows one day you will be blessed with one. there are couples who did adoption after that find themselves blessed with own children.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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If its d case of true love where both love each other immensely then i'll go wid option 1😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Superb Thread Naz... n very good responses from guys here... Bravo all...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: riyya6

<font color="#0000ff" size="3">one should not remarry just to have children... </font>


<font color="#0000ff" size="3">2 situation :-</font>


<font color="#0000ff" size="3">1. The problem with the wife, husband remarries.</font>


<font color="#0000ff" size="3">2. The problem with the husband, the WIFE cannot/should notremarry...this is society perception: what rule is this...??????</font>


<font color="#0000ff" size="3">Suggestion 1:


</font><font color="#0000ff" size="3">But sadly, society blames a woman for not having child... this is reality...in my view, if one couple cannot have child they can always seek adoption... imagine the joy they r going to give for the adopted child... n they themselves can feel the parenthood... of couse, none can be compared with your own blood but making someone ur own n giving them life is something GREAT in my opinion...</font>

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Suggestion 2:


N i personally think, if the husband decides to marry just to fulfill the wish of becoming dad, then he must/ should divorce the 1st wife n them proceed with the marriage...







Suggestion 3:



But not forget in this world, there a still couples living happily with each other without having any child... yes of course their life is incomplete but they make it complete by having each other...</font>


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<div><font color="#0000ff" size="3">what ever choice to be made depends on the couple itself... ⭐️</font>

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<strong><font color="#0000ff" size="3">GOD is fair n square, no one gets everything... in anyone there will be something lacking it can be wealth, hapiness, sadness... etc...</font>

👏... Juz PERFECT...
Edited by Veena.S - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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My Pov is, that marriage is lifetime and situations arrive in all marriages. Overcoming these situations makes the love and marriage much stronger. Only rare circumstances should a marriage be dissolved(dometic violence comes to mind).

If couple can not conceive, first they need to determine why and what avenues they can take to have a child. Such as surrogacy, in-vitro, and adoption. Surrogacy can include their child just that the woman can't carry to term and they need another woman to carry the child. I have friends that have adopted kids and they love them so much.



Filza. thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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1st option... thats what i suggest.. and thats what i have seen people, amongst my relatives, do who are not blessed with children

or adoption

in our family couples who have no kids never remarry but adopt a child (of a relative) if they so desperately want one


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