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Posted: 19 years ago
#41
as usual your mindblowing question. i read all other member answer & all gave super ans. i am better reader than writer.
thanks for question. 👏
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Posted: 19 years ago
#42
Hi Dear!
That is a beautiful song 😳
MT, I sure would have lost track if u hadn't posted this weekend… wo kya hai na… main kuch zyada hi lazy hoon aur uski bahut jaldi adath pad jati hai 😕 .

What do you make out of Jai's behaviour today? He was still upset with Bani over the Money Issue and more importantly because of the fact that he heard her calling Marriage a Compromise? Inspite of his distrubed state of mind, he was still looking for Bani, his eyes kept searching for her? Please give an analysis on Jai's behaviour in today's episode?
He is Jai afterall. He can forget anything and remember anything at his convenience.. 😕 😆 on a serious note… he was upset no doubt, the thought of their marriage meaning nothing but a compromise to Bani is killing him from within.. he is suffereing from the same insecurity that Bani is suffering from. His concern for Bani did come to the fore when he saw her feeling sick… even then he was ok aslong as she was there in front of him, but when she wasn't there anymore he began to panic but kept it subtle. If he wouldn't have panicked he would have never bothered to tell Roshini he will take Bani and go home. Sometimes it best if u leave your instincts to take over and may be instinctively Jai just wanted to be with Bani… it would have been some solace for him too. 😳 😳

A question which I know you guys would love to answer; Please comment on Jai's cold snub and direct refusal to Roshni! What was the reason behind it? Was it because Jai is totally put off by Roshni and wants to have nothing to do with her? Was it because he is too strong a character to be ever duped and seduced by a woman like Roshni? Or was it simply because he is absolutely in love with Bani and doesn't want to have anything to do with any other woman?

It was the BEST Jai Walia moment till date 😳 👏 . He simply bowled me over with his frank outright refute. There was no other reason other than what Jai had to say… "jo kal hochuka wo main aaj dubara nahi chahta" He has buried his past for GOOD. He does also realize he is married and is committed to his wife. Jai's refusal just made u realize that he would never take advantage of a woman…and for him LOVE is the most important in a relationship. Oh God just looking at that 30 secs of that scene u surely know why u love, adore and respect The Man, Jai Walia!

Please describe Bani's mental framework from the moment she saw Jai dancing with Roshni, till she heard them both in the bedroom, till she questioned her feelings for Jai, till she cried her way back home and till she saw Jai entering their room?

Watching Jai dance with Bani would have irked her no end… but she wont have been surprised, she has seen Roshini throw herself at Jai all the time 😡 . U know what, I think a lot had to do with the drink she had…she couldn't handle so much of confusion in her… she just needed an answer, she was too tired to fight it out now. She had it clear, if I have to stay then it will be coz Jai loves me, if he doesn't then I am not staying here not even for Massi or the marriages that were taking place. It had to be decided the very moment and Jai-Roshini in the same room did break her heart… and she decided to leave Jai for good. And the tears was the for the man she loves so much who she assumes doesn't feel the same about her. Duffer 😕 !

A slightly vague question; What do you think was in Jai's mind when he entered his room? He was not surprised to see Bani there and actually, neither was she? Was Jai expecting Bani to be there in the room and had he come back with a specific purpose, as in to talk to her or did her presence really came as a bolt from the blue?
Jai did have a look which said 'I am Home to where I belong, to where I should be'. Jai wasn't taken aback… Bani was… ma'am had someother thoughts in her mind which kind of suggested Jai wont be home all night . But Jai was home, in not more than 10 mins. (I don't know how Jai knew Bani had already left but he seemed to know, that is why he was back) Jai wasn't upto anything, if all was normal he would have walked in taken his night dress and gone to freshen up, come back and gone to sleep. I didn't feel he had anything in mind. Yes seeing his distressed wife must have made his heart ache so went upto to ask her what was wrong.

What do you think will lead Jai and Bani to consummate their marriage? Is it because they are both inebriated and are physically drawn to one another? Or is it because they have been burying their deepest emotions in their hearts for too long and the final break-down occurs on Monday? Please describe whether Jai and Bani consummate their marriage in a physical sense only or in a physical and emotional sense also?

I am late to answer this question… I have the privilege of seeing the promo which indicates they consummate the marriage in every sense. 😳

Important Question : Do you think that either of Jai or Bani will confess their love to one another or will both of them confess together or will they confess nothing and let themselves go with the flow of emotions?

knowing both Jai and Bani they wont go that far if there was no love involved. They submitting themselves to eachother(they are in sense as far as I can make out) is as good as they confessing their love.

Please guess as to what will be Jai and Bani's individual reaction the morning after? Will Jai and Bani feel extremely guilty and ashamed and try to avoid one another or will it be only one of them who will go through this state while the other is composed? Or will it be that they won't regret what happened, but will be unable to face one another due to awkwardness? Or disaster strikes, and both Jai and Bani do not remember what happens / only one of them remembers and the other doesn't?

They definitely don't have a chose on this one. They better get up and wish eachother Good Morning with a kiss. Awkwardness? After that night? For what and why? 😕 Oh God, this is too complicated. They can smile, blush and avoid eachother if they want, they better not act as if they are guilty and ashamed. I will hang both of them but before them the creatives have to face the firing brigade at IF.
Incase they don't remember then main hoon na! Un dono ko nani, dadi pardadi sab yaad ajayenge. 😡 😆

That is it dear... sorry for being late.
Lots of Luv
Anu.
Edited by anushka_5 - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
#43
And ... guys lets Hope after mon Nite Bani dosent call her pati dev ... Mr WALIA ... 🤢
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By the way what will she begiin to Call Him ... ????
Suniye Ji ... 😳 ?
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Posted: 19 years ago
#44
And ... guys lets Hope after mon Nite Bani dosent call her pati dev ... Mr WALIA ... 🤢
😆
By the way what will she begiin to Call Him ... ????
Suniye Ji ... 😳 ?
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Posted: 19 years ago
#45
Hi All,

Have never posted to this forum before, but I was interested in the questions you asked... so here goes

What do you make out of Jai's behaviour today? He was still upset with Bani over the Money Issue and more importantly because of the fact that he heard her calling Marriage a Compromise? Inspite of his distrubed state of mind, he was still looking for Bani, his eyes kept searching for her? Please give an analysis on Jai's behaviour in today's episode?

I think Jai's behaviour was one of typical confused male, but one who only knows how to react with anger. He is not happy about the marriage of compromise comment and is angry about her snooping on the raaz, but that doesn't mean he doesn't care about her well-being. And hence when he sees her holding her head, the tries to go to her, but as we all know the Cobra attacks....

Please comment on Jai's cold snub and direct refusal to Roshni! What was the reason behind it?
I don't think its because he loves Bani - he hasn't realised this himself yet. Rite now I think its simply because he thinks of Roshni as a friend etc. but not in 'that' way anymore. And also because he believes in faithfulness in a marriage.

Please describe Bani's mental framework from the moment she saw Jai dancing with Roshni, till she heard them both in the bedroom, till she questioned her feelings for Jai, till she cried her way back home and till she saw Jai entering their room?

Poor girl - she would be simply devastated. I mean I think while she doesn't expect that much from Jai, she would still expect him to keep common decency and not sleep with Roshni while being at a family function, esp when she has done soo much for his family. And the little hope inside her about their relationship would also have faded. Hence she wants to leave straight away so as not to be hurt anymore.

What do you think was in Jai's mind when he entered his room? He was not surprised to see Bani there and actually, neither was she? Was Jai expecting Bani to be there in the room and had he come back with a specific purpose, as in to talk to her or did her presence really came as a bolt from the blue?

I actually thought he did seem surprised to see her there. I reckon he looked for her at the party, but did not find her, and then decided to come home (having already done such great work for the night 😃 )


What do you think will lead Jai and Bani to consummate their marriage? Is it because they are both inebriated and are physically drawn to one another? Or is it because they have been burying their deepest emotions in their hearts for too long and the final break-down occurs on Monday? Please describe whether Jai and Bani consummate their marriage in a physical sense only or in a physical and emotional sense also?

Hmmm. This is a hard question.... I think yes their slightly drunk = can express themselves more than would normally, and yes they are also attracted to each other at some level. Maybe it will happen simply because of these two factors and the fact that the time is right. I think Jai will try to comfort Bani - who will be crying a lot and mayeb once it starts they just don't stop. Therefore I don't think there will be the deep meaningful emotional connection just as yet, but this will be the first step towards their own recognition of their own emotions.


Do you think that either of Jai or Bani will confess their love to one another or will both of them confess together or will they confess nothing and let themselves go with the flow of emotions?

I don't think either will confess their love (don't think they have figured it out for themselves as yet!) But maybe Bani will mention something like she doesn't like seeing him with Roshni....

Please guess as to what will be Jai and Bani's individual reaction the morning after? Will Jai and Bani feel extremely guilty and ashamed and try to avoid one another or will it be only one of them who will go through this state while the other is composed? Or will it be that they won't regret what happened, but will be unable to face one another due to awkwardness? Or disaster strikes, and both Jai and Bani do not remember what happens / only one of them remembers and the other doesn't?

MT - in your Khabri report, I am sure I read that they will both be very surprised the next morning. Therefore they will both have to know what happened nah? It will definitely be awkward - that's a part of the fun of watching such things. But given that all the reports are about their relationship now being a lot closer, I assume that they don't regret it (or at least not for too long). I would assume Bani will be very embarrassed, given she is younger and this is totally out of character for her. But am looking forward to watching this on the video update soon....

Thats my two cents worth
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Posted: 19 years ago
#46
First of all MT sweetie thanks for such a noce updates u rocksssss!!!!

What do you make out of Jai's behaviour today? He was still upset with Bani over the Money Issue and more importantly because of the fact that he heard her calling Marriage a Compromise? Inspite of his distrubed state of mind, he was still looking for Bani, his eyes kept searching for her? Please give an analysis on Jai's behaviour in today's episode?
No not at all…he was not angry over the money issue…he was disturbed n angry because he heard bani calling marriage a compromise…(though she was talking in general) but our sweeto took it in a wrong way…I think Jai ke paas itne property hai ke afar woh apna business bund karde to kam se kam agle 20 se 30 saalon tak uska guzara araam se hojayega aur 80,000 is not a big amount for him.
A question which I know you guys would love to answer; Please comment on Jai's cold snub and direct refusal to Roshni! What was the reason behind it? Was it because Jai is totally put off by Roshni and wants to have nothing to do with her? Was it because he is too strong a character to be ever duped and seduced by a woman like Roshni? Or was it simply because he is absolutely in love with Bani and doesn't want to have anything to do with any other woman?
The first reason I would say is that his charater is tooo strong to be seduced by a woman like rosh…..second reason…yes, it could be that he started falling for bani…and he don't want to betray her....jo pehle kar chukka hai he don't want to repeat that mistake.
Please describe Bani's mental framework from the moment she saw Jai dancing with Roshni, till she heard them both in the bedroom, till she questioned her feelings for Jai, till she cried her way back home and till she saw Jai entering their room?
Ofcourse she is in luv with jai that's y she was so jealous and disappointed as in fact that she didn't expect this from him….laikin usko pata nahin ke uske darling hubby ne uski baatein sun li hain.
A slightly vague question; What do you think was in Jai's mind when he entered his room? He was not surprised to see Bani there and actually, neither was she? Was Jai expecting Bani to be there in the room and had he come back with a specific purpose, as in to talk to her or did her presence really came as a bolt from the blue?
Well….jo hone wala hai (Monday episode) un don one soocha bhi nahin hoga….coz they both r drunk….though they were not surprised to see each other in the room…laikin the way jai entered the room I think he just enter…no specific purpose till now…(don't know wats going to happen)
What do you think will lead Jai and Bani to consummate their marriage? Is it because they are both inebriated and are physically drawn to one another? Or is it because they have been burying their deepest emotions in their hearts for too long and the final break-down occurs on Monday? Please describe whether Jai and Bani consummate their marriage in a physical sense only or in a physical and emotional sense also?
Their emotions….which they had buried from such a long time and now will finally break down…Physically to they will comsummate laikin that is not the purpose….they are emotionally attached to each other now.
Important Question : Do you think that either of Jai or Bani will confess their love to one another or will both of them confess together or will they confess nothing and let themselves go with the flow of emotions?
Jai will confess first n then bani…..
Please guess as to what will be Jai and Bani's individual reaction the morning after? Will Jai and Bani feel extremely guilty and ashamed and try to avoid one another or will it be only one of them who will go through this state while the other is composed? Or will it be that they won't regret what happened, but will be unable to face one another due to awkwardness? Or disaster strikes, and both Jai and Bani do not remember what happens / only one of them remembers and the other doesn't?
Okay they will definetly wont regret wat happened….but yes…will not be able to face each other either. Both of them will remember wat happened last nite coz this thing cannot be easily forgetten….yes, this could be a possibility that Jai might forget laikin in the morning is he sees bani crying or something her totally changed behaviour he will get to know abt everything.

Cheers
Sonia

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