lets help out Jai

when we post, we will pretend that we are jai and that we are asking a psyciatrist for advice. then the next person will give the advice, and ask another question for the psyciatrist.

exa
why do always get "out of love" instead of in??

then the next person will answer this question, and make up another question for the next person to answer etc.

so now, someone answer my "Jai" question, and then ask one.

answer: sometimes we are too scared, too caught up in our insecurities to have the courage to fall in love-yes it does take courage to fall in love-you have to let go of your inhibitions and come to terms with the fact that you are co-dependant on someone

question: why is it that i always drive people away from me despite the fact i love them?

maybe because instead of tellin them how u feel. u keep everythin in ur heart.. not showin anyone how u feel cuz u think u may get hurt.. or they mite leave u and so on.. ((( 😕 😕 😕 i hope that was ok)))


ques - how do i keep the one person that i love so much.. how do i tell her that i love her.. with so much that's going on??


(sorry couldn't think of anythin else.. but nice game :) )

answer: because when we are in love with someone and that person is easily accessible, we take them for granted and feel that there is no need to express ourselves. In actual fact, your feelings, your love for someone has to be expressed and confessed so that there is no assumptions of "them" understanding by themselves, we cannot expect people to interpret our behaviour and make conclusions that this is the way we feel............ so in order to keep them to yourselves or to make them stick to you, you have to let them feel appreciated and loved [so that they are never driven away]

Question: Why does it become hard to see the one you like or even love interested in someone else

Oops!! my answer was to irisheyes question, sorry that I fumbled

thats ok,
I'll continue with yours Cheeze,
answer-because you are first attracted to the person on looks and not attracred to them for who they are.

Question- Why does Jigz always drive away my women???? Doesnt she want me to be happy???

how do i keep the one person that i love so much.. how do i tell her that i love her.. with so much that's going on??


Ans: the fear of being rejected is much better than the fear of watching that one person that you love with all your being walk out of your life without you telling them how much you love them. If you love someone, you have already let that person have the most initimate part of your being - - your heart. Tell that person that you love them and then set them free....like the old saying goes, if it they don't stay with you they were never yours to begin with but if they stay (or come back) then it's for keeps.

New question: Why do I hide the real me?

Ans:
Its because u r scared from urself...u dont want to see real jai in urself...u fell insecure which is not good....u r scared that once u get to know urself real u feel like everything will be vanished.....many ppl in this world hide real person in themselves and show them like they r perfect....just have believe in urself.

Ques:
Sometimes i feel like im lonely...there's no one there for me though i know my family will stand by me if not then my wife will definetly y im so lonely?

Answer- you feel lonley cause you wont accept and let other people in your personal life, and descisons you make. Bottom line- you dont tell anyone and open up about important things and most importantly, you cant ask for help

question- should i tell Bani the raaz

Ans:
Bani is ur wife...ur better-half...she will understand u better than any1 else...or may be understand u more than u do urself. tell her abt that raaz u will feel light.

Ques:
What if she didn't understand? she will leave me??