Phool pe aus jaise girti hai, leheren saahil se jaise milti hai, Kushbu jaise fiza mein chaati hai, waise dil mein Mohabaat aati hai...
The above two line are taken from a beautiful song which describes how quietly and noiselessly love enters our lives.....and we simply do not know when it sweeps us off in its wake......😳 Something, which I guess has happened with Bani and now Jai is the next in line....😉
The very first scene was an indicator of how much Bani has come to become a fabric of Jai's life, for a man like Jai, who speaks less and is basically an aloof and distant man, to talk to his wife about his family in an intimate manner was so heartwarming and a living proof that he considers Bani to be just an extension of his own self and not as an outsider.
And yes, I think the best proof of Jai's changed attitude reflected in the moment when he calmly explained to Bani that Anu cannot get married to Rohit, because he has his reasons and he is not wrong....he used the words, "Trust Me"....and Bani was immediately silenced! Did you guys notice Ranveer's expression in the scene, he immediately sensed how much Bani has begun to influence Jai's behaviour and thinking and he did not like it one bit!😡 (Like who cares what Swamiji thinks!)
I think the whole "Inviting for Dinner" and "Gifting Bangles" Thing was done to perfection and it was a typical Jai Walia scene! He was awkward while inviting Bani out for a date (It was a date, whether he admits it or not) yet he wasn't fumbling or getting goofy....he was pretty much his dignified and composed self, minus the attitude and arrogance that normally accompanies him all the time! And yes, the Banlges were just about the most thoughtful gift Jai could ever give to Bani! See, how much he understands her on one level, he knows that she doesn't value materialistic pleasures and for her the "Thought" counts more than the actual "Gift" and by gifting her Bangles, it was symbolically shown that he considers her his wife by all means and that whatever happened between them till now is just a bad memory! I don't think a Necklace or Solitarie Earrings would have done what the simple pair of Bangles did for Bani! Bangles are after all a symbol of a married woman's life.....and by gifting them, Jai again reassured Bani of their marriage!👏
I still won't say that Jai is in love with Bani, but one thing is for sure, he cannot live without her presence in his life now.....He respects her, admires her, adores her and cherishes her.....but the real feeling of "Love" hasn't yet struck Jai.....but it won't be long before he realizes that all his caring, concern and camadiere with Bani has just one ending.....LOVE!
Howmuch ever the River is frantic, wild and directionless, the fact of nature is that it ultimately joins the Ocean......It is not a matter of choice for the River, rather the Command of God itself.....
Hence, whether Jai realizes his true emotions for Bani or not doesn't really matter, the fact that he has to ultimately fall and remain in love with only Bani and no one else....For she is the Ocean in which he has to finally merge!😃
The questions for today coming your way;
Do you think that Mr. Vijay Chopra (Rohit's Father) and Roshni Chopra are related as Jai and Vijay seem to share a past? Please give any conspiracy theory that strikes your mind with relation to the trio of Jai, Vijay and Roshni!
Whom do you think is at the Door that has so shocked Bani? Is it Dadi, Massi, Jigyasa, Roshni, Vijay Chopra or Jai himself?
Please guess as to whether Jai and Bani will meet for their Dinner Date tonight or will it get cancelled? (Sorry to gloat so shamelessly, But I know the Answer😉😆)
Jai wanted to talk to Bani about something, what do you think is that important topic that Jai wanted to meet Bani alone somewhere outside and speak to her?
Going by the Mumbai Mirror article, we all know that a "Deal in Love" is going to happen. Do you think that Jai will offer some kind of an arrangement to Bani and tell her to stay in the Marriage and work it out at the same time admitting that he likes her a lot, but doesn't love her? What do you think would be Bani's reaction if Jai offers her such a "Deal"?
Why do you think Jai gifted the Bangles to Bani? Was it a sort of apology from his side for all that he had made his wife go through? Or was it simply a gesture of affection that made Jai cheer up Bani? Or was it the unrealized feeling of Love that involuntarily made Jai do something that would make Bani realize what he feels for her?
Bani has given Jai's love the most important position in her life, so much so that she has willingly sacrificed her happiness, independence and her self-respect just for his sake. At the same time, his love has also given her the warmth and security she had craved for all her life. Please analyse as to whether, Jai's love has turned Bani from a Caterpillar to a Butterfly or has it wilted her with his intensity and power?
Love has the power to turn a Saint into a Satan and vice-versa. If Pia brought out the worst in Jai, then Bani has got the best out of him. Please comment!
Would be eagerly awaiting your answers guys, also I am not able to comment back on what you write, but trust me, I read each and every answer almost 2-3 times, as and when time permits and enjoy them thoroughly. Hence, please don't mind my not answering back to you.....but please do respond to the questionnaire, can't tell you how much I appreciate your taking out time for the same!😳😃
Lots of Love,
MT