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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

But why cant they leave a phone number at the stall?
The reason she did not leave a phone number is because she already made the decision to pass off the child as the old man's granddaughter. If she had honest intentions she would have left her phone number at the stall.
I have no issues with ichcha picking up the child -- but by the same token she should only have taken the child if she could bring up the child herself (without deceitfully trying to pass of the child as the old man's grand daughter). If she could not bring up the child herself on her own income, and her own strength - then she should have given it up to the anathaashram.


Wanted to clarify one point: Iccha did not take her mobile phone with her. She left Veer's house with NOTHING at all...not even her phone. I guess that could be one of the reasons she did not leave a phone number with the chai wala.

However, she did try to find out who the parents were...I think Damini or someone checked with the chai wala again after a few days.

BTW: It is OK for Iccha and Veer to adopt Kanha but I feel they need not jump into legally adopting Mukku as her origins are still uncertain. Her biological parents might turn up any day! You would not want to put a child thro the trauma of having to choose between her biological and adoptive parents.

One more point and a rather important one at that - As a practicing psychologist with 12 yrs of work behind me, I would NOT like Mukku returned to Taps though until we are sure about Taps parenting skills. People were wondering if she will recognize her 9 mth baby thro' her cries. They forget - Taps ignored her new born baby's cries when she was lying right next to her after birth. She was busy daydreaming about Veer. If a mother who has just given birth can ignore the cries of her new born baby, she is incapable of recognizing that baby after 9ths and after being separated from it with no physical or emotional bonding having ever been developed.

Unless of course, you lose your baby in a mela in a 1970s movie!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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My counter question is, if we r so critical to not leaving tel no ,informing police so and so, thn why Tapu didnt took tel no, of orphanage or atleast gave her tel no, in any case anything happens to 3 days old child😆😆 cant we suspect her intention becoz she is Tapasya thakur and she cant be wrong😆😆 arey yaar this is serial and u can expect tht everybody will behave so logical and suspect the intention becoz CVs show thm dumb to move their story😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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iccha and veer don't know how to read a newspaper...despite studying in forign universities????hey are so ignorant that they don't read a newspaper everyday??????or not even mai baba dadaaji any of them read a news paper anytime in these few months...atleast they can see the baby's picture???????? or they cant afford a newspaper everyday????or rathore don't have enough money to put the pic in all newspapers everyday...despite being a millioner hecant post the whole story ,where his baby was lost and all...
Edited by geet138 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahmansma


Wanted to clarify one point: Iccha did not take her mobile phone with her. She left Veer's house with NOTHING at all...not even her phone. I guess that could be one of the reasons she did not leave a phone number with the chai wala.

However, she did try to find out who the parents were...I think Damini or someone checked with the chai wala again after a few days.

BTW: It is OK for Iccha and Veer to adopt Kanha but I feel they need not jump into legally adopting Mukku as her origins are still uncertain. Her biological parents might turn up any day! You would not want to put a child thro the trauma of having to choose between her biological and adoptive parents.

One more point and a rather important one at that - As a practicing psychologist with 12 yrs of work behind me, I would NOT like Mukku returned to Taps though until we are sure about Taps parenting skills. People were wondering if she will recognize her 9 mth baby thro' her cries. They forget - Taps ignored her new born baby's cries when she was lying right next to her after birth. She was busy daydreaming about Veer. If a mother who has just given birth can ignore the cries of her new born baby, she is incapable of recognizing that baby after 9ths and after being separated from it with no physical or emotional bonding having ever been developed.

Unless of course, you lose your baby in a mela in a 1970s movie!


wonderful post!! i agree abt taps psychology!! 👏👏 though i m not a psychologists but i like 2 read ppl's expressions & even books on this sub. so i m quite happy 2 know that wat i'd read or made out of ppl's behaviour is almost right if not completely!!!!😊😊😊and i also think that alongwid modern psychology we shud combine it wid our ancient wisdom which is based on the vast experiences of our great ancestors!!!😊😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: geet138

iccha and veer don't know how to read a newspaper...despite studying in forign universities????hey are so ignorant that they don't read a newspaper everyday??????or not even mai baba dadaaji any of them read a news paper anytime in these few months...atleast they can see the baby's picture???????? or they cant afford a newspaper everyday????or rathore don't have enough money to put the pic in all newspapers everyday...despite being a millioner hecant post the whole story ,where his baby was lost and all...

icchha & veer do know how 2 read & write. but it was shown that wen rathore placed that ad in the newspaper ichha was at avinash's home & she was more concerned abt dadu's health & so didn't read any newspaper!! and after daadu's death avinash came out so they left that home & lived in obscurity. so cudn't see the ad. even wen veer placed ad damini saw it in a shop where hse went 2 take milk!!
bundelas did see the ad but thatt was wen the baby was few days old & wid in 9 months baby's face do change!!
and rathore not able 2 put ad wid whole story is in the hands of the CVs & not the ckts!!😆😆😆

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