Inder-Panna's attitude

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achiever

@achiever

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Posted: 14 years ago

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its different in western society and Indian society.. how thy c a married woman deserted by her husband.. thy either feel pity or thy find fault..

I can imagine how difficult it wud have been for family persons like Inder and Panna to have questioned abt thr father and mother.. and y thr father deserted thm and thr mother.. by the society... to hear pitiful words..or berating ones own mother both is unbearable..

the most important function in a person life in Indian society is marraige.. and father has an important role in it.. and is missed most at those times.. especially in a daughter's wedding.. for Kanyadaan.. the person who never thot abt thm once suddenly pops up and claims his rights as thr father.. shud b kicked and not forgiven..

BM waited for him.. hoping for the sake of her children to come back.. bt y shud she leave Kashyaps for fault of one man.. wen thy accepted her.. thy bonded more closely thn with Ishwar.. y shud BM leave such a loving family.. y shud she deprive her children of love of their grandparents and uncle.. especially wen she knows she wudnt b able to break free.. she is not an ambitious independent lady.. she is rather family oriented.. the only thng I dont understand abt BM is y she puts sindoor in his name.. Sindoor and mangalsutra r symbols of happy marriage life..

she better explain it soon.. its bugging me since long..

sindoor signifies longetivity of husband's life and hence well being of family and marital life.. Mangalsutra is worn as a sacred tie of lifelong bonding betn husband and wife and the black beads r put to keep away ill fortune..

BM's stance for sindoor and mangalsutra is pretty hard to digest.. ..

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ReallyCool

@ReallyCool

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Inhuman of what eshwar did to sailaja, shes lucky that she got supportive in-laws.. Raised children herself well n gathered strenght to b a strong woman but eshwar now after this many years if he claims right then its wrong!

How indre n panna reacted is beyond Rude to any person! To express hurt is ok n to que his presence when they needed is ok too but the tone n attitude wer wrong!

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serialmad

@serialmad

Inactive

Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Sorry, differ to your views completely. Feel, Panna and Inder were very justified in what they said and did. Hell, it was emotional for them too. A father who left them and their mother, to settle with another family of his own in the US. However much of a loving family you may have as support (and that is a big blessing), does the stigma that your husband/dad chose someone else over you, ever leave? Yes as adults, society expects certain behaviour, but can one really tell that to ones feelings? It's very easy to tell someone else to behave in a mature manner, while, if the situation actually happens to you or someone close, one will probably be acting the same as Panna and Inder or worse. Many of us preach what we don't practice.

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Netri

@iViews

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

I have nothing new to tell, yet i will give my 2 cents. I agree BM is lucky to have such a family where she gets the love, support, respect she deserves. I will not say that the way BM, Inder, Panna behaved with BP is rigth ot wrong. but Ishwar never came back for family, he came back cauz his NEW FAMILY left him. He must have done something there too. there is no smoke without fire. even if he didnt, then Y he is here? he left wrote letters to his parents but never to his kids? never b'day cards, presents, a phone call to talk to them or any way kept a contect with HIS KIDS? !!!! Since he didnt, does he have right to b called DAD? Ishwar is just replasing one family with another. he has done it in past is doing it rigt now. he is not doing it out of love. If he was that unhappy with BM then divorce hef but go on n marry another is just... The way, inder panna talk to ishar justifice cauz he doesnt deserve respect. ishwar put his NEEDS first, he abandoned inder panna when they were young, needed him, whatever it was it was not inder panna fault so tell me Y inocent kids were panished? just bcause their dad is the worlds biggest *********** . Inder panna never behaved with anyone else like this nor they r going to make a habit out of it. My only point is if he was that unhappy, Y did he fathred children specially when he was going to abandon them.

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rosha.a

@rosha.a

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

A person becomes "father" not by just giving birth. He becomes a "father" only when he performs his duties towards his children properly. What have BP done for his children all these years. In India the children whose father left them is worse than those whose father is dead. Inder-Panna and BM would have heard the taunts from many for BP leaving them. Sorry to say; but I could never sympathize with BP nor agree to his actions.

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