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Just wanted to say this.
I don't think much of Inder and Panna's attitude vis a vis their father. I found it difficult to watch yesterday that they went to Easwar's place and started attacking him in tandem.
Don't get me wrong - they are right to feel bad, feel abandoned, feel resentful, be angry with him but UPTO A POINT. But beyond that, if you look at the big picture, How can you expect someone to do something that they don't want to do? If Easwar had stayed on, miserable and frustrated every second of his life, would he have been a good father? No. He would have been an angry, resentful man and a sour influence.
Left to himself, he might have pursued his life but kept in touch with his children. It was Dadaji's decision to cut Easwar off entirely. And Easwar has suffered as a result of this decision. he has been cut off from his children, brother, extended family, mother. These are not light losses.
Now that Easwar has come back, I'm not saying they should welcome him with open arms but as adults I feel there should be some understanding that maybe this man had different needs.
Sailaja is the first to admit that she was not the kind of wife Easwar wanted - her priorities were always different, always family oriented. It is a very mature attitude, so I don't get why these two are so bitter?
Nobody gets everything - life is an uneven that way when it comes to dealing out cards.
Kabhi kisi ko mukkamal jahan nahin milta
Kahin zamin to kahin aasmaan nahin milta
If they didn't know their father, they had a very loving and supportive family to grow up in. They are happy, cheerful people, so why start berating and heaping abuse on a man who chased his dreams? Yes, he was irresposible, he sought his own pleasure at the cost of his duties but can you make someone stay against their will? Is that right? Love is love when it is given, not when it is demanded and wrested by force!
Also, I don't understand why they are judging their mother for meeting a man who was once her husband?
One, she could be meeting him for a variety of reasons - for closure, out of compassion, from guilt for having deprived him of his family for years, for some remnant of a former duty, and maybe even out of curiousity?
Two, it's her call. If she feels like forgiving him, it's her business. Sailaja understands better than anyone else why her husband left. I don't see why the whole family, including Dadaji should be judging Sailaja for reacting without anger or bearing a grudge.
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I don't think much of Inder and Panna's attitude vis a vis their father. I found it difficult to watch yesterday that they went to Easwar's place and started attacking him in tandem.
Don't get me wrong - they are right to feel bad, feel abandoned, feel resentful, be angry with him but UPTO A POINT. But beyond that, if you look at the big picture, How can you expect someone to do something that they don't want to do? If Easwar had stayed on, miserable and frustrated every second of his life, would he have been a good father? No. He would have been an angry, resentful man and a sour influence.
Left to himself, he might have pursued his life but kept in touch with his children. It was Dadaji's decision to cut Easwar off entirely. And Easwar has suffered as a result of this decision. he has been cut off from his children, brother, extended family, mother. These are not light losses.
Now that Easwar has come back, I'm not saying they should welcome him with open arms but as adults I feel there should be some understanding that maybe this man had different needs.
Sailaja is the first to admit that she was not the kind of wife Easwar wanted - her priorities were always different, always family oriented. It is a very mature attitude, so I don't get why these two are so bitter?
Nobody gets everything - life is an uneven that way when it comes to dealing out cards.
Kabhi kisi ko mukkamal jahan nahin milta
Kahin zamin to kahin aasmaan nahin milta
If they didn't know their father, they had a very loving and supportive family to grow up in. They are happy, cheerful people, so why start berating and heaping abuse on a man who chased his dreams? Yes, he was irresposible, he sought his own pleasure at the cost of his duties but can you make someone stay against their will? Is that right? Love is love when it is given, not when it is demanded and wrested by force!
Also, I don't understand why they are judging their mother for meeting a man who was once her husband?
One, she could be meeting him for a variety of reasons - for closure, out of compassion, from guilt for having deprived him of his family for years, for some remnant of a former duty, and maybe even out of curiousity?
Two, it's her call. If she feels like forgiving him, it's her business. Sailaja understands better than anyone else why her husband left. I don't see why the whole family, including Dadaji should be judging Sailaja for reacting without anger or bearing a grudge.
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