TB: Sarika to begin her college life in BBGC

I just dont know how Sarika will manage housework and college life. She will probably get into trouble from Santosh for neglecting her household duties due to college as if Sarika goes to college then she has to study at home and prepare for exams too and like Vrish said she wont even get any sleep!

Originally posted by: Yuvika_15

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Originally posted by: _Vrish_

I watched Thursday's episode last night (wonder why they can't simply run 5 days a week?) and although I support Sarika studying and going on to become a doc, I can see how Santosh has by her past actions essentially cooked her own goose.

One of the concerns she expressed was that one of her bahus had been prevented from modelling. I didn't agree w/ Dadi's argument that that was the right thing to do, just b'cos one wanted to do something for herself, while Sarika wants to do it for others. Santosh's devrani wanted to study computers, but dropped it on demands of her sasural.

So now, if the other jethanis have objections to Sarika studying, despite my supporting her, I can't exactly fault them. After all, if Sarika has the right to do something she wants to, then it's only fair that other bahus be given similar rights, whether it's to learn computers, modelling, becoming an air hostess, or whatever. It's a vapid argument to say that if a bahu wants to become a student or a doctor, it's okay, but if she wants to become a model or an animation designer, it's unacceptable.

And trying to fix things w/ the argument that Sarika will have to do the morning chores b4 she can leave is even more stupid. First of all, if she resumes studies, she'll have her day in class and in labs, and following that, even after she comes home, she'll still have to study some more. She can't just go around serving tea, or cooking, or doing the laundry. So chances are she'll have some late nights, and may get up just in time to get ready and go. Tossing those morning chores in will just erode her chances of succeeding in what she does. Oh, and if she does badly in either studies or chores, it'll be a pretext to stop her from continuing further.

The article also mentioned that she could have trouble in class. Unlike in the West, where you have students of all ages, and some married, in India, students are almost always single, and once a student marries, they typically drop out and do other things, be it housework, or business, or medicine, or whatever. Sarika will be teased simply if she wears a mangal sutra or bangles, and if she goes in her ghunghat, it'll be even worse. And it's unlikely that the faculty will be sympathetic to her.

In other words, her own dadi as well as Jai has just made her life hell!!! 😡