Finally Talli has made her mark and hopefully Kesar now understands what is wrong with his approach. Talli was playing a win-win game, agar Kesar Talli ki baat na samjhta, to uski maang mein sindhoor daal daita.. mission accomplished. But he understood what she was trying to make him understand.
Recently he is unstable and indecisive so far. He makes his Zid and then just gives in. Yesterday when he said I am not going to even take water, but he did not look dehydrated in the preCap. So whats on Kesar mind. Keeping in view that Talli sensational statement was clear khona chahta hai ke paana chahta hai. Obviously, he is already doing a bad job and lost most of her ,, sirf Gulaal ki chutia hi reh gaye hai uss ke haath mein. But again if he lets her go then she may still go forever and live with her family. She can't fall in love with Kesar for doing it? Kesar understands that she only loves Vasant. Now expecting her to changeover to Kesar is not possible. Kesar wants her to be happy and around in the house. But he is also fond of her. Its a risky call. But all this is based on Kesar's assumption is that Gulaal is happy in this house. This time he may want Gulaal to decide.
Gulaal at the same time koi Einstein nahin hai. She does not know why she is stuck and her ego has created a dead-end to this relationship. Thanks for special services provided by the witches of Talsagra. JK and Sudha. Gulaal came back to save both the families from Huqqa Paani band punishment, but instead of being appreciated for this, it was taken as her weakness and uttethay baithatey she was being treated as a typical bahu who are taken as daasis'.
Ab Gulaal told Reva that mein apni rah pe hoon aur apni manzil ka bhi pata hai. It is not visible in her relationship with Kesar, so its not Kesar. So in her mind she is still following the path she promised to Vasant that she will keep the family together and she will succeed in making her place in this family.
Ab how should Gulaal go about this new situation?
If you have noticed Gulaal looks worn out and weak (it could also be due to the change of a Makeup Assistant) Instead of reacting to Kesar with same anger, she stays cool as if she has a plan. She gives JK and Sudha a strong message about the way she wants to be treated. In the last episode she was mostly thinking. She apparently has thought over it and has worked it out. What she had planned and then suddenly Kesar came up with this new proposal. She could also take this as an insult that now she is not even worth being a wife??
What if Gulaal agrees to break this Deeyar-vatoo.
Leaving Vasants' house could be a big blow to her emotions. She has access to the room where they lived and had their moments (without Talli peeping). She will finish the relations with MotaBha and PaanBa forever. And suddenly she will become almost jobless. She will have nothing left to do. She will have no role to play. She will have no relationship and reason to stay back at MotaBha place. She would not be able to complete Vasant's dream hence would fail Vasant and her purpose of life is gone. She becomes vidvah again and her family will start pushing her again to marry. (knowing PoonamBa .. I can bet )
What if she stays:
She willl have a life in colored sari and she can move around easily without getting the label of vidvah. She will have to face JK and Sudha on daily basis, but she has made it quite lear to them. She still would have the blessings of MotaBha and Paanba. She will have responsibilities in the house. Dushyant also supports her. Kesar is willing to take the pressure off her. She is in a good position to continue Vasant's dream and her purpose of life.
How would the panchayaat go?
Kesar would reason that, jo mein hoon (Kesar) woh Gulaal ko pasand nahin. Jo Gulaal ko pasand hai woh mein hoon nahin, na hi ban sakta hoon aur na bannana chahta hoon. in other words:
Na mein Vasant Bha hoon, na ban sakta hoon aur na hi bannana chahta hoon. Mein Kesar hoon aur Kesar hi rahoonga.
Therefore there is no point in forcing her to stay in this deeyar-vatoo.
Dushyvant maybe biased towards Gulaal this time as he also thinks that he was responsible for giving the last decision against Gulaal.
Panchayaat may agree t0 Kesar's proposal and assume that Gulaal wanted to break up this deeyar-vatoo when she called the panchayaat the first time, would order to consider this deeyar-vatoo null, but Gulaal will speak out, mein ye deeyar-vatoo nahin thodna chahti (woh bechari toh tukde thod thod kar khilana nahin chahti thi).
Everyone including the director may be shocked at this statement. But Gulaal may repeat that she is not a putli (mom ki gudia), ke jab chaha bula liya aur jab chaha nikal diya. Ye pehlay bhi mera faisla tha aur aaj bhi mera khud ka faisla hai.
...something like this.
Ab agay sara kucch hi likh diya toh bechara writer kya karey ga.