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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Manoshono
Hope this will happen... I am sure someone will Stop it, either gulaal or the panchayat would give them some time.. its so difficult to know what would happen there because we know gulaal didn't want this Deeyarrvatto mainly because of talli as she wanted to keep her promise about kesar marrying talking .. but now she has no waja, no excuse. So probably she would stop it...but I think and hope that kesar would act sensible and make her realize indirectly

After the recent chaos starting from Kesar-Talli marriage ceremony till now, things have not only come in the open but also become ugly. Every relationship is now stretched to its limit. Talli knows Kesar does not love him and will never be able to, Kesar knows that Talli loves him but he loves Gulaal but Gulaal is not supportive and does not believe that he really loves her. And she cannot let go Vasants memories. I am not sure if she is convinced that Kesar really loves her then what would be her stance. The drama is taking place in front of the two families. JK and Sudha are creating all sorts of distortions in the Gulaal-Kesar relationship and the biggest problem is that Gulaal and Kesar are not together on this. They have failed to develop any sort of understanding. In thing have become worse between them. (worst thing is that they have Talli as their marriage counselor)

Now in my opinion Gulaal-Kesar have reached crossroads where they have to finally decide, either they stay on the same road or part on different roads. Kesar has called his shots by going to the panchayaat, that he does not want to force this deeyar-vatoo or any relationship with Gulaal for which Gulaal was ordered to comeback. She came back to save both the families.

Now Kesar has removed the shackles and leacve the choice to Gulaal and now if she comes back, she will come back on her own and for Kesar's sake alone.

What is there for her in either case is already discussed in the topic. No matter how independent she wants to be, she does understand her position if she walks away. In this house she wants to be respected and make her choices.

Let's keep our fingers crossed and wait to see how its resolved in the next episode.

Meanwhile do pop up some sedative and muscle relaxants. 😊

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I have just few doubts about DV staying.

She was quite ready to live single at her parents house with Vasant Memories. So if DV breaks off, this will make her way easier. Do you think in this instance she will welcome his decision?

Panchayat will accept Kesar's decision as Dushyant knows that Gulaal is not happy to be remained as Kesar's wife.

Only chance I taking if she oppose his decision that she is not kathputali to come and go at Kesar's request to panchayat.

What will save their marriage?

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Nach_Baliye

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Posted: 14 years ago

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If Gulaal agrees to continue with the deeyarvattu only because of her ego, then that is the worst side of Gulaal we will see. First of all, she is doing this only for her ego; second of all, in this process she is ruining Kesar's life completely because she is hell bent on not returning his love; in return what is the boy supposed to do. He loves her and she cannot reciprocate, he wants to free her and she doesn't want to free him, now he is tied to her for life only to satisfy her ego in the loveless marriage, this is how she will fulfill Vasant's dream? What dream? The family is in shambles and Gulaal continues to ruin lives. So this would be the absolute worst side of Gulaal we have seen till now.

I don't think the panchayat should dissolve the deeyarvattu. First they agreed to recognize it on Gulaal's request, then they denied her request to dissolve it since Kesar disagreed, now again they will go back on their decision because Kesar has changed his mind, that doesn't make sense. Who will take the panchayat seriously anymore? They will become a big joke. They will need to uphold the deeyarvattu and hence that their decision was made after a lot of thought. Dushyant, however, can compensate for his guilt by giving them some time to work it out before dissolving it - that would be the ideal solution. I am sure Dushyant will tell Kesar that deeyarvattu is no joke and again everyone will call him wrong, even though Gulaal is the one who went to the panchayat first. I really think this family needs to start discussing issues internally before making themselves a laughing stock by taking everything to the panchayat without any internal discussions - they would have avoided all these disasters, but I hold Gulaal responsible since she started it without even consulting Kesar.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Gman
I have just few doubts about DV staying.

She was quite ready to live single at her parents house with Vasant Memories. So if DV breaks off, this will make her way easier. Do you think in this instance she will welcome his decision?

Panchayat will accept Kesar's decision as Dushyant knows that Gulaal is not happy to be remained as Kesar's wife.

Only chance I taking if she oppose his decision that she is not kathputali to come and go at Kesar's request to panchayat.

What will save their marriage?

As I said they have reached at the crossroads and they are now forced to make their own decision. Like before if a decision is forced onto them then they will continue to have the same problem between themselves.

If Panchayaat does not let them break it, its status quo, and she will be ordered to lead the same life which she was till Kesar came to the panchayat.

Gulaal would like to make her own decision and keeping her vidvah situation in mind and her background with this family, she would refuse to break the deeyar-vatoo. Marriage will be saved, but relationship built up will take time, Kesar has already taken the first step to give her the option to choose and never ever force himself on to her.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Nach_Baliye
If Gulaal agrees to continue with the deeyarvattu only because of her ego, then that is the worst side of Gulaal we will see. First of all, she is doing this only for her ego; second of all, in this process she is ruining Kesar's life completely because she is hell bent on not returning his love; in return what is the boy supposed to do. He loves her and she cannot reciprocate, he wants to free her and she doesn't want to free him, now he is tied to her for life only to satisfy her ego in the loveless marriage, this is how she will fulfill Vasant's dream? What dream? The family is in shambles and Gulaal continues to ruin lives. So this would be the absolute worst side of Gulaal we have seen till now.

I don't think the panchayat should dissolve the deeyarvattu. First they agreed to recognize it on Gulaal's request, then they denied her request to dissolve it since Kesar disagreed, now again they will go back on their decision because Kesar has changed his mind, that doesn't make sense. Who will take the panchayat seriously anymore? They will become a big joke. They will need to uphold the deeyarvattu and hence that their decision was made after a lot of thought. Dushyant, however, can compensate for his guilt by giving them some time to work it out before dissolving it - that would be the ideal solution. I am sure Dushyant will tell Kesar that deeyarvattu is no joke and again everyone will call him wrong, even though Gulaal is the one who went to the panchayat first. I really think this family needs to start discussing issues internally before making themselves a laughing stock by taking everything to the panchayat without any internal discussions - they would have avoided all these disasters, but I hold Gulaal responsible since she started it without even consulting Kesar.

Thanks for your input. All said and done and blamed and fingers pointed, this marriage has been handled badly by both the parties. The relationship has been stretched to its limits, and now not only it has become ugly but also reached at a crossroad. Its decision time. The decision has to be made by both Kesar and Gulaal. Kesar has made his move.

This outcome of this panchayaat should not be derogatory or forced on to Gulaal else it will be status quo for them.

If Panchayaat asks Kesar, why has he changed his mind, if he tells them that she does not love him and does not do things his way, does not accept him as her pati. What will panchayaat tell Gulaal? will Gulaal become any better if they start discussing such personal matters in the public and again things will be forced or she talks about her rights that she is a wife and not a servant. It will lead to nowhere.

I think Kesar will not say anything which will cause any further damage to their relationship. Probably he might come up with this that he does not want to force this marriage on Gulaal because she is not happy or comfortable and if she want to break it I am ready to accept her decision. Make her feel more important and decision maker.

I agree with your point that panchayaat may not let them do it or give them time, but Dushyant may be a little biased towards Gulaal as he never approved the way Kesar was imposing himself on her by his attitude and behavior and also he feels responsible for giving the last decision against her. Dushyant in all possibility will try and favor the breaking of deeyar-vatoo because he can see how Gulaal is suffering.

But if panchayaat insists on keeping it then it will be a status-quo and nothing will change. We can rewind the show back to 7-8 episodes and replay them.Viewers will suffer for the days to come and start living on drugs.

It has to be Gulaal's decision to stay in the marriage because she wants to stay in this house, and for reasons known to her best, she wants to stay here. this is her house and her family for past so many years. And if she decides to stay as his wife, it will not change the relationship overnight but Kesar has already realized his mistake to force her to do things which she does not like (she likes nothing!!) and will give her all the room and space to feel comfortable (already woh ghut ghut ke marr rahi thi) and possibly less stressed and then get her smile back. 5-7 episodes or Raman/JK initiates an in house conspiracy, whichever is earlier.

But you never know when she becomes normal in the house again, she might want Kesar to marry Talli and complete the 7th phera.

This panchayaat scene could be very interesting.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Thanks for the reply and assuring me that their marriage will be saved.

Hope that She will give Kesar another chance to be better man and husband.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Gman
Thanks for the reply and assuring me that their marriage will be saved.

Hope that She will give Kesar another chance to be better man and husband.

Always hope for the best.😊

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