27th June - Meri Mann/Atma Kahi Door Hai (Kes-Gul) - Page 3

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Great post as always Lennie 😃 Thanks

Though I understand where Gulaal is coming from and her disgust with the turn of events, I also felt bad that Kesar's feelings were so misunderstood by her even though somewhere she knows that her Kesar cannot her view her like that. At the same time, Kesar needs to understand the responsibilities that come with being a husband. Gulaal knows way deep down that Kesar has not viewed her like that, but what he has for the last few days, its all added to her way of thinking and lets not forget anger and hurt she has on top of that, and Kesar feelings yes are misunderstood but i think it was needed for him to finally get it, and what it is coming out as even though its not but to Gulaal its like that and for him to understand it, Gulaal hit the spot when she says you want a Patni dont you, here i am etc, this your want and need and so on, and like you say Kesar need to understand the responsibilities that come as a hubby and also as person, a son and so on, which believe it or not - the way ppl see him and his acts, its no wonder they see him as that. Kesar needs to start emerging a mature man as well... grow in himself and understand things like love, pati, Gulaal and so on

If he thinks claiming Gulaal as his wife now is the same as he did 10 years ago then he's going down the wrong route. He's grown up now! He can't just keep her in the house with the 'wife' tag. She isn't a possession that he can just have (though I know he doesn't view her like that). Exactly, he needs to start realising this, he needs to start asking himself questions, he always asking others questions, he needs to aks himself what is it that he sees in this relation as pati/patni does he know what it entails and so on, and understand it...

You know the word possession, i feel that is apt for Gulaal today coz this is what she actually feel like today and coming back here, like she was forced to...

I want to write more but the heat is killing my brain! I hate the heat as well

Originally posted by: arti07

nicepost lennie ! i loved the scene but dont agree the allegation that gulaal say it doesnt effect u wen ur love is present or not ...no it do... even gulaal obssessive as kesar... gulaal knows vasant is no more but still she is obessessd with his snaps she carries it everywhere in her room in her maayka in kesar's room wonder what will gulaal do without his snaps. ...jokes apart... if vasant was alive will she able manage to live without him...its easy for the person to live without a dead person remembering his sweet memories but is it possible to live without a person who is alive ...leaving in approchable distance ..whom u can see in the temple , in streets in the relative house ...?????

Originally posted by: Lennie

What Gulaal meant in love it doesnt matter if the person is far or near, thats love - Love is not measured by time or whatever

It does make a difference if a person is a alive or not, but you dont go about it the way Kesar has (which was cleverly highlighted by the writers and showing how he is and he has alot of growing up to do), as in forcing it and all that

Today Gulaal loves Vasant the way she did before, probably even more - coz thats love, thats not obsessive as such, and yes it does affect you coz that person is dead and no more, but her love never lessened even today - and thats Love