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It was a nice soft scene between Gulaal and Kesar, still filled with a No from Gulaal, but as she says, stop wasting time which we all knew it would be - the more Kesar says he wants her, loves her the more i think it pricks her inside and another little wall goes up in her, but even Kesar knows that Gulaal doesnt feel that way, and probably wont - as he says all he wants is for her to atleast come back home, even Talli had to avoid looking at them when Kesar says what he did
Raman is probably one the last person to listen to, coz he influences Kesar for his own benefit as well, and he did just that when he went to speak to Kesar on hinting that he should go to the panchyant to place complaint, when Kesar himself knows that it isnt fully right in doing that in a way, but as Raman says it does seem the only option at the moment, the way Kessar walked up to him to listen to the last option, any option to get her back and Raman leaves the decision in his hands (probably knowing full well Kesar will do it), and also says if you want to win someone's heart, they have to be with you and in front of you as well.
What a contrast on how Kesar is with D and Raman, we saw it again - he will listen to anything Raman will say and with respect and with D who is giving him a proper advice to give time and space, he doesnt want to listen at all and will do things his way.
By the way was Kesar writing Gulaal on his notepad??
D looks at Kesar like in what the hell are you doing, filing a complaint against Gulaal, despite however much Kesar looks determined, i do think he is not fully comfortable with doing what he is doing with going to the panchayant and so on, and he seems ratty as well, and like D says you cant force her back esp how Kesar wants her to come back as, and also like D says he knows why she isnt coming, i mean we all know that
Kesar did have dig at D, when he says what am i doing wrong, that is against the law (D and Vasant's secret hint)
Gulaal got a shocker and so did Paanbha when Raman in his way tells them, that this is what he heard outside when it was clearly him who showed Kesar the way, and like Paanbha why doesnt Kesar talk to us and in taking this big decision, i got to admit whenever Kesar takes a decision he doesnt seem to talk to his elders as such esp as he is Motabha's son and some decisions and things he does are pretty out there that the villagers get to see and know about... so no wonder ppl somewhat blame him and call him nasamjh and so on, coz this is what it looks to other ppl and so on, whilst we know what is happening and see his pov but to other ppl its not like that is it and also how ppl are viewing Kesar, and also seems like he is not honoring Motabha in a way, which few ppl have told him
Gulaal's dad is pretty surprised that Kesar even went to complain about Gulaal, what dad wouldnt get angry and raise his voise
Kesar has somewhat made all this worse then what is was before in a way esp as we the reactions of the family and Gulaal's dad is like why did Kesar have to bring the panchyant in the middle of this... and i have to say i liked a father sticking up for his daughter knowing full well that she is somewhat being forced into something she cant managed at the moment, otherwise if you saw two days ago her dad was going to talk to Gulaal and slowly slowly make her see her future and so on, but now its gone overboard, and not only that did you see how Gulaal was looking at her dad, seeing her dad stick up for her, thats what kinda melts Gulaal and thats what she needs at the moment. (but i do get a hint that for her family and seeing them suffer without stuff they have been cut off with, she might go back in a way - but who knows and not only i have said it has to be HER choice and decision in going back in whichever reason she has)
I dont blame her dad at all, what father is gonna tolerate that, and like we saw he was all for Kes-Gul and one day she will be back home, but not the way Kesar went about it, no father is gonna throw their daughter in the deep end esp when his daughter isnt ready or even wants to... a father would rather suffer then let that happen
Kesar sorry to say made things worse and so on but looks like i think Raman got the result he hoped for
WOAH at the last scene, JK either said whats black and white and also made things even more worse, can a father really hear what JK was going on about and so on, and how JK was talking about her, no wonder what Gulaal's dad said at the end, she will never come to this house again...
I think in a way Gulaal's dad summed it up when he told Kesar - that whatever we want does that mean we also forget what Gulaal wants... this summed it up everything, Poonambha wants, JK wants, Gulaal's dad wants, Kesar wants - they all want, but do they all forget what Gulaal wants as well
I got to say this is what summed up Kesar the last few days, he is so into what he wants, that he has forget what Gulaal wants, even if she hasnt said what, it still means time and space something D said to him
You know i feel for Kesar coz he is pushing and pulling both ways, and you saw the result the panchayant had (which i think Raman was kinda hoping for as well), which made it even more worse then usual not the situation but even the family member esp her dad... i think Gulaal's dad was right esp if we see it from a father's pov and he was the one for Kes-Gul rishta but not by forcing.
Also we know Kesar and his love and what it is, but none of the others know the depth of it so no wonder her dad said you only seem to love yourself and your needs...
Kesar couldnt even hack what JK was lecturing on about, he couldnt even stop it, he tried to open his mouth but nothing came out and just had to leave
I knew Raman giving him the idea would probably make the whole situation 10x worse and it did
As for Gulaal, yep she has bult walls around her and so on - the more you force and pressure her, the more walls are gonna be built up, she isnt comfortable in what Kesar is asking even if its to come back, and now that it went to the sarpanch it makes her distant as well
I do believe that Kesar somewhat knows he was wrong to go to the panchyant, coz he himself wasnt 100% sure, and not only that, it wasnt his idea
Despite however much Kesar is suffering and we know he is and what he feels (to other ppl its looks different and sees him making things worse which in a way he is, if i see everything and take everything in account adn i dont think Gulaal is fully making anything worse, coz all she had wanted was space and time, even if she was said before she doesnt want to go home, and now its well i am not ever going home again coz the everything is getting worse by sorry to say Kesar) , i do think he needs an eye-opener, and i think and hope Gulaal's dad gave him one, with that sentense that summed it up, but i have my doubt on it coz of the precap lol
PRECAP - Sudha kinda challenging Kesar, that Gulaal will never come back and Kesar seems so sure that she will come back...
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