Originally posted by: nneeiill
Nice take Lennie and last quote you put up was indeed very meaningful. Where do u get such golden quotes from? Thanks for liking the quotes, i kinda collect quotes i like, also they come inm handy for making sigs šš
Well as all mentioned, I loved today's epsiode. The beginning was classy I must say.
I willsay kesar was more or less behaving like a teenager would do. He has really gone mad in love. I guess that is another word for her - teenager, and thats how it comes across, someone who is so desperate, and seeking attention from her
I just loved how he used every possible words to make her understand how much he needs her .
But Gulaal is still in denial mode ? Though I somewhere understand her POV but what i dint get is how come she can see her Kesar like that. Ruining his life, totally mad. How can she survive that sight? Gulaal is not gonna listen to Kesar esp like how he is, more he begs the more she shuts her off, and isnt that what is happening, the more she builds her wall up and thats an natural reaction, even though we do get emotions coming out of her eyes as tears, like nureat said, i think she has completely shut down any kind of contact with Kesar as such, that she wont reach out to him...
Is her stubborness matter more to her than Kesar's life ? I think somebody should tell her "vasant has gone from ur life ,now will you lose Kesar too ?" They both ziddi in a way, and in their pov - you can see why... but i do think she needs to settle Kesar down, these two need a talk badly. Also seeing as she said that if she stays away from Kesar, he will see its not love, maybe thats one of the reason why she isnt responding to him in any way š
Her guilt is eating her up. She thinks coz of deeyarvattu she has ruined Talli's life as well as Kesar's life. She does not know how to react and thus she opts to run away from the situation but Gulaal needs to understand that running away is not the solution. You need to face it.
She needs to understand her presence or absence is not what defines Kesar's love. It is eternal. Guilt and pain is eating her up and you saw it when she is around Talli, they both are try to console each other, that Talli had to tell her, she is fine and not to worry about her...
You got to hand it to Gulaal, her life she thought has not turned out how she hoped - Vasant going, and forcing to do the deeyarvatu (which i believe was forced by JK) and thinking once Kesar is back, he can get married and live a normal married life etc -, and right now all she cant deal with is Kesar confessing his love at each turn, for her not only did he insult her coz she did say sin, and then in front of Motabha, that she couldnt even meet his eyes and then if you think about it, in front of her parents, well the house. Kesar needs to get a grip of himself and see why Gulaal had to go, and understand that bit - he even knows why she went seeing as he told everyone, but he needs to talk to her about what he expects, and i dont think he is expecting a pati/patni actual relationship, just her home
The more we get forced to do something the more we hate it. Thats what happening with Gulaal. Kesar is not giving her space and time because of his own state of mind. No body is at fault here. Exactly, the more force the more hate you hate it and the more you distance yourself, and the more you built a barrier around it
Precap : very interesting . I am looking forward to it because again Kesar is going to force Gulaal which will make her unhappy and we will able to see lots of friction between K -G. It will really good for us viewers atleast. Itni jaaldi Gulaal maan jaayegi tho hum Kesar ka pagalpan kaise dekh paayenge š I really dont want to see more paagalpan of Kesar lol, interesting that he does take it to the sarpanch, but forcing isnt gonna help him and Gulaal at all, she just isnt ready
Anupamaa
