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ExactlyOriginally posted by: nureat01
LOL I think that is what should give us hope on a level...that she feels the need to lash out and hurt him so much...BECAUSE she is battling something bigger inside that she is not able to deal with...as someone mentioned earlier in this thread or maybe another one I think...when Kesar was in his confusion phase, he too lashed out at Gulaal a lot and hurt her...right now Gulaal is going through her confusion phase as well...so she is lashing out at him cuz she doesn't want to deal...this is a tough phase but eventually things will look up I think.
If Kesar can lash out and so on, then Gulaal can as well i say - why not both always do the same things lol
Also if Kesar back then made a decision of going and staying away, and then Gulaal today has done the same, made the decision of going despite how much Gulaal did beg him to stay back then and today Kesar begged her
Gulaal needs to feel that she can love again, despite what she thinks Kesar's love to be is - attachment and a paap... she is so closed up that she herself needs to let go, Gulaal doesnt need pressure, no one will do anything when a person is pressurizing them, she needs it herself and she needs to see that, and as for seeing Kesar as more - i guess she needs to see a Kesar in a different light then what he is showing her right now
Anupamaa
