Dtri - call me Gouri...deniac - it's very insteresting you said what u did - I was advocating the same thing u did when i was staying positive during the whole forgiveness track... that Dev hadn't emotionally traumatized geet during consummation. She thought he was her husband and thus enjoyed it. He was a fraud but not a rapist in her eyes. It makes a big difference when it comes to touching him casually... good points...