Originally posted by: mia03
That was the lowest of the low shakti, can go😡 one of the weakest excuse an abuser can come up with. I so wish for SS, to hit him....Two brothers (Shakti & Krishna), grew up in the same home how different they are. Shakti, hate kesar, if his father would have love his wife and not beat her, shakti still would have been an abuser.
Mia,
Children who witness abuse do actually grow up to become the abuser or the abused. It is a statistical fact that many will be pre-disposed and therefore need help, but , there are some lucky one's who do manage to break the cycle. In this case, it is Krishna and perhaps Komal as well.
Shakti, by his very nature is pre-disposed to being violent. I'm not making excuse for him at all. As far as he was concerned, he did no wrong because he saw his father doing it to his mother. That is so sad. People in real life,like him, rarely think they are being wrong and therefore shun all help.
My reason for the topic was to highlight an important dialogue that got buried amongst high drama. I really wish that the Cvs had dedicated an episode to this, where Shakti makes his speech and then we see everyone's reaction and what they do. It would have been very powerful. Abuse takes all forms and shapes, many people unaware that their behavior is abusive. Children do pick up on it, an episode such as this would have made people think twice about their actions in front of their children.
I so love this abuse track, Cvs are doing a tremendous job.
Should Adarsh, hit Komal, infront of Shakti, he will be ready to beat Adarsh, to a pulp. He would never say to Komal, well our father hit our mother, and she takes it quietly so you should do the same.
If Krishna, beat up pratz, day and night, calling her names, shakti , will be happy, praise his brother calling him a man. This guy is full of hatred towards his wife, he dosen't love her so he abused her.
I know, with Shakti he is protective of his sister, I think it has to do with his mother being abused as he could not protect her but he can look after his sister...but you know what if he is crossed he will beat up komal, the indication is there. Also if he was to remarry he will do the same. He hates kesar because of her skin colour, which is an excuse because look at his parents!, but mostly because she is a soft target. In fact, any women not related to him, he can beat them and no problem at all.
I really wish Kesar would turn around one day and just give him a big whack !!...just imagine Shakti's face!...his eyes would bulge, mouth will drop open....then if he lifts his hand again, I want Kesar to give him a karate kick on his family jewels..😃😃...SS will definitely cry then, for shakti having children will be one misty dream..😡😡🤢....Then she can start on her MIL...I will be👏