The way Taposh treats Anurag

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I know that what happened eight years ago has deeply scarred Taani's family, they're unable to forget how they were treated, especially with Bimal's death and Taani being maligned. But, I mean come on; Taposh treats Anurag so badly, when the whole thing is not even any fault of his 🤔. He fails to see that Anurag himself is a victim of what happened eight years ago, not just them. All these years Anurag had to live away from his loved ones, in alien terrains, and this is why his feelings are probably bottled up and kept to the back of his mind now 😔. It's not right to vent his anger out on Anurag, when Anurag has loved them with all his heart, never mistreating them. Shekhar and his little minions Ritesh and Ananya are the ones at fault 😡.

But seriously guys, I hate it when Taposh talks about Anurag that way. That poor guy was helpless; he was just a child unable to stop his untamed father from wreaking chaos 😆 (Oops, I meant>> 😡 Stupid Shekhar! 🤣).

Plus, Taposh is not even regarding his sister's emotions. Yes, Anurag and Taani were children when they were married, yet it doesn't change the fact that they are married, and marriage is not a small thing at all. You can't just forget marriage, thus I am sure neither has Anurag- but like I said, he has bottled up his feelings, and surely there is a really big reason for why his feelings are not rushing to the surface- I hope we find out soon 😳.

Taposh needs to pay more attention to how Taani's feeling- it's clear that she loves Anurag to the point that she just cannot keep a reign on her emotions. Like she said in yesterday's episode, her life is linked to the chain named 'Anurag', and breaking away is not only difficult, it's impossible (I loved Taani/ AK in yesterday's episode 🤗). Taposh needs to accept this fact rather than trying to disregard it.

I don't hate Taposh's character, I like his character 😳, he's strong-willed, is always fighting for his rights and the rights of people around him, yet sometimes this is a setback. I just wish he would melt a little and put things in perspective, look at things in Anurag's point of view, and also his sister's. I'm not saying Taposh is wrong either, because I know he does care for Taani and does not want her and his family to face the same humiliation they faced eight years ago.

But why can't Taposh just be like Laboni? Yes, she told Anurag to leave, but in a nice way, and because she knew it was for the best.

In fact, if I recall, even before the leap, when Taposh found out about Anurag and Taani's marriage, he was so rude to Anurag, telling him to lose weight really soon . I still remember that, and poor Anurag's face 😭.

And even the other day, Monday's episode, he said to Taani that Anurag's face did not seem alright to him 😲😲😲. I was like HUH?? 😡 How dare he??!! 😡 What's wrong with Anurag's face?!! 😡

I find his face absolutely perfect ☺️😍☺️😍☺️

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Love Zahra x
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey Zahra! Nice topic! 😃 I totally agree with u! 😳 Bechara Onu... 😲😲 We know that Taposh and his family is hurted, but Anurag ki koi fault nahi hai !! 😭😭 And Taposh has always been Rude to Onu! 😡 As u said, Taposh ne Onu ko weight kam karne ko kaha! 😡 and all that!! Poor Anurag !! And how can he say ke Onu ka face sahi nahi hai !?!?!??
Anurag ka face toh..... 😳😳 (I am Blushing) 😛 Awwwwiiii ..... He is Tooooooo CUTE! 😳
Right??? 😉😉😉
I hope Taposh will understand that Anurag is not wrong, and I really hope that Taposh ki misunderstandig door ho jaye! 😃
Love ~ Hina
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Anurag's shakal teek nshi hai...

i wanna ask hw does ritesh look
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree ... if we look at it Anurag is the one who has suffered the most as a result of whatever happened, a child was forced to live alone, not just from all the people he loved but away from his country, having to adjust in a new place.

Taposh is so blah and even when Taposh came to know about Anurag and Taani's marriage the way he behaved with Anurag back then was also so unfair ... the way he threatened him without even realizing that Onu himself was just a kid and at the receiving end. To be a protective brother is one thing and being unreasonable another.

When Onu went to jail he had sacrificed for Taani ... whatever his family did to the Banerjee's was none of his fault ... till he could he supported them, even as a kid, so why punish him?

And now that i look at it honestly no one treats Onu well, Neelu maa has never supported him infront of Shehkar or stood up for him, if she could for Anannya why not for Onu? Shehkar tou kuch na hi bolo tou behtar hey ... Anannya thinks only about herself and her hubby, never cared for Onu.

And don't get me wrong but to an extent even Lobini has been unfair with him, I mean she thought of him as a son then how could she break all relationship with him just because of what Shehkar did and even now when he is back and she was all emotional to see him, it did not take him much time to shun him again and ask him to leave.

Even Taani is some what unfair to him (although her behavior i can still justify as she too was at the receiving end) whenever something happened as teenagers first thing she used to say way "i can not continue my friendship with you" LOL and now too she gives him an impression (though she does not mean it) that him meeting her will cause trouble and he should not do what he is doing.

So in short no one has been fair to Onu ... I accept Taani's behavior though as she too has suffered but rest all have ill treated him so no wonder Onu forgot to smile ... and even now all he cares about is Taani's family

Edited by Soaps1 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sorry for double post my net 🥱
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Pyari_Zahra thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I totally agree with you Nadia 👏. Maybe this is why Anurag spirals out of control and ends up in the mental asylum? 😆
Despite having so many people around him, he's certainly a very lonely character, and that really makes you feel for him.
Taani as a child was immature, I understand, but Taani grown up should at least try to give Anurag the love, support and presence that he missed, and probably craved for, in the past eight years. Doesn't she realise how he must have felt all alone in a new place like America, away from her. He even admitted how much he missed her, the pain in his voice was evident.
So yep, you're right. He's never really been treated well by anyone! I just wish people could see it from his point of view. Underneath that hard shell is a very soft person yearning for love, I just know it! 😳 x
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Exactly Zahra and even if he feels something for Nupur it would be because he probably got that attention he longed for from Nupur after he went to America, although it may not be love, it will be the emotional bond he developed with Nupur over the years and will mistake it as love. Because he had no one there, no one to talk to, no one to share his pain with except i guess Nupur, who provided him some kinda emotional support at least, so he will be both obliged as well as emotionally attached to her and hence might think its love.

And Taani herself is confused ... who she wants family or Onu ... when it comes to choosing between her family and Onu, Onu goes in the background even though if its momentarily only.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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200% agree with nadia.... i'v nothin left to say cz u said it all girly....😊😉 u know i'v always loved reading ur comments dear, they really make sense and ur assumptions are truly awesome and it's like as if ur readin my mind as well...👏👏

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