can A & R really go back to being AR once again..? - Page 4

Exactly they can't go back to being the same AR. This was a questionable point that me doubt the whole "AR unification" even while I was an AR fan. Too much has happened that has clanged these two. More than anyone else, Riddhima aka Mrs. Modi has changed a lot. I really don't think she can go back to being Armaan's basket. Heck why just Riddhima, look at Armaan. I think ever since he came back, he's learned that life doesn't stop for everyone and he's seen many different shades of Riddhima that he never saw before he came back.

Also sometimes problems cause some couples to come much closer together since they rise from the issue. However there is a flip side to the coin. Some incidents also cause distance as they change the people involved. AR belong to the latter group because too much has changed: situations, external people, they themselves, and their love and relationship.

Final words: No they can't be the same AR. Period.

Originally posted by: romaila

if Sid can forget about his past then why not AR when that pust was full of pain and AR past was full of sweet memories and no one ever want to del sweet memories from their life....Sid will be no more that much imp for them when Ar will be together as i can sense from the current trcak that soon Sid will be shown negative

Edited by MagicalKash - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: nikita_88

Umm... ok so they were seperated by fate I agree there. But that doesn't mean fate will get them back together again, the Riddhima that took the bullet and the Riddhima that is standing now are two different people. Real life how is it different? I mean people change circumstances change so what is so different about the show? I mean I am not the same person I was 5 years ago because so much has changed in my life. People can change in small spans of time as well depends how they cope with the situations they face and right now Riddhima has stepped away from her past the person she was a year ago and she took that step a long time ago.

As for Sid's jealously and insecurity and lack of trust, isn't because of AR's past because he knows about it and has fully accepted it. SR's relationship may seemed rushed but that doesn't mean it is any less important over AR's relationship.

To forget your past you have to have a reason...Armaan never ditched Ridhima so Ridhima will always have that guilt in her marriage & won't be able to give 100%...thats' what is real life about but daily soaps twist a lot of things for TRps so they can't be compared with real life. Any person with past is able to forget it because they had bad experience with the person or that person died but none of that reason is there in DMG so Ridhima forgetting Armaan is not that simple. Yes, people change but do you stop loving a person without any reason. Sid the way he accpted Ridhima's past is also not so simple specially when he knew that Armaan was still alive. In real lile a guy would have taken the girl back to her love instead of getting married specially when he knew the intensity of love between AR. AR relationship wasnt just a fling, it was for real atleast in the serial. Now, Sid is feeling insecure which is so natural & this is going to exist throughout any marriage if the situation is same as in DMG.  Ridhima will be questioned time & again by her husband about her sincerity & she won't be able to do justice to marriage intentionallay or unintentionally.
Edited by sapna2107 - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: nandinidev

There's absolutely no denying the change in their circumstances as well as personalities. But the question of whether a relationship will work is not only restricted to this factor, the way I look at it. Yes, they may not be the same Armaan and Riddhima who fell in love with each other three years ago. Things are far more complicated now, and they've both weathered through their own respective dark phases, unfortunately without each other for support. But if they do get back together, which is highly unlikely but that's besides the point, whether their relationship works or not would depend on whether they can make it work with the changes. Love can't sustain a relationship alone, that's very, very true. But there's nothing that can't be built over time, be it trust or understanding or even reconciliation with one's past. The very same questions one is asking about letting go of the baggage of the past few months, were asked a few months ago about the baggage of the past few years. And the answer to both questions is the same too : that things will work if you make them work, and if they're destined to work. SR are doing what they can to make their marriage work, and it can still work despite the baggage of AR's past. Then why not the same for AR if they ever get back together?

 

If they get back together, they'll be the Armaan and Riddhima of the present, who make up the Armaan-Riddhima of the present. They will certainly not be the same as the Armaan-Riddhima of three years ago, but I don't see that as the reason why their relationship won't work. If it can't, it won't, and if it can, it will. But I still see both possibilities as equally likely.

 

Life's quite complicated, as are people and relationships. I think this is a question which for me doesn't have any one correct or accurate answer. It really depends on a lot of things, of which the past is a part, and a very crucial one, but there's more to it than that.

 

Very well written, though, Neetz. And well argued too. Awesome! 👏

 

Cheers! 😊

I give you another scenerio Edited by Lennie - 13 years ago

Originally posted by: nandinidev

The very same questions one is asking about letting go of the baggage of the past few months, were asked a few months ago about the baggage of the past few years. And the answer to both questions is the same too : that things will work if you make them work, and if they're destined to work. SR are doing what they can to make their marriage work, and it can still work despite the baggage of AR's past. Then why not the same for AR if they ever get back together?