can A & R really go back to being AR once again..? - Page 6

Originally posted by: sapna2107

i have read certain posts regarding trust which is lacking in AR relationship but what about SR....Sid doesnt trust Ridhima either...do you think that marriage can survice where your wife still cares for her ex...specially when that ex hasn't betrayed its only circumstances that separated them. It is easy to say move on but with AR history, it is not that easy to move on. Also, it won't be easy for a husband to accept his wife when he knows that his wife has taken bullet for her bf in the past. The SR relationship shown was unrealistic anyways...real life is so different. So if SR was possible to be shown then why not AR getting back together.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Things will never be the same but so what? People evolve as time goes by. Personally, I still see them as 'AR' even though they aren't together. Armaan will always be there for her and Riddhima will always be affected his actions. If and when they get together, the essence will be the same because the love had never gone and I don't believe it ever will go. Even now they aren't A & R, they are AR! So circumstances may change but that essence of their love is still there and as long as that stays, I don't see why Mrs.Modi can't go back to being Basket.

As I said, its not even A & R for a lot of us. It still is AR!

Originally posted by: Rolzz

AR is still possible provided Sid agrees and he go back to US or die...
With Sid infront of her eyes Ridhima will repeat the same cycle with Arman also...

At the end of the day anything is possible if CVs can give a gripping story line..
Ridhima is not the first girl to marry someone else also Ridhima wont be the first girl to go back to her lover if she feels she cant do justice to her marriage...

Originally posted by: CZ..

I wish the statistics could guaruntee the success of a plan, no?

it's not just sid, ridhima has changed as a person. with or without sid, those changes will remain. unless ofcourse, either she develops partial amnesia.

P.S - if she can't work her marriage out, fine - that happens, but how will she go back to armaan? it's okay if she breaks away from her marriage; but that doesn't necessarily mean that she'll go back to armaan.

Originally posted by: nandinidev

There's absolutely no denying the change in their circumstances as well as personalities. But the question of whether a relationship will work is not only restricted to this factor, what other factors are there? the way I look at it. Yes, they may not be the same Armaan and Riddhima who fell in love with each other three years ago. Things are far more complicated now, and they've both weathered through their own respective dark phases, unfortunately without each other for support. But if they do get back together, which is highly unlikely but that's besides the point, whether their relationship works or not would depend on whether they can make it work with the changes. Love can't sustain a relationship alone, that's very, very true. But there's nothing that can't be built over time, be it trust or understanding or even reconciliation with one's past. The very same questions one is asking about letting go of the baggage of the past few months, were asked a few months ago about the baggage of the past few years. And the answer to both questions is the same too : that things will work if you make them work, and if they're destined to work. SR are doing what they can to make their marriage work, and it can still work despite the baggage of AR's past. Then why not the same for AR if they ever get back together?

see that's what I'm trying to say. it's not just the baggage of the past. it's the distance that has developed between them as two indivisuals, it's the changes that have turned them into two completely different people than they used to be. even if they decide to work it out despite the baggage, the difference between them won't allow them to. this is SR's first try at a relationship, but for AR, it won't be the same. they didn't just go and have a walk in seperate parks and then come back together again. they've both been in different relationships and also come to terms with the break up in different ways. I don't think the change is so miniscule for them to be able to work through it. no one is that strong or courageous. won't the idea of getting back together be scary for them?

If they get back together, they'll be the Armaan and Riddhima of the present, who make up the Armaan-Riddhima of the present. They will certainly not be the same as the Armaan-Riddhima of three years ago, but I don't see that as the reason why their relationship won't work. If it can't, it won't, and if it can, it will. But I still see both possibilities as equally likely.

what if the A & R of the present don't fall in love? clearly, they're two different people now. Armaan is not in love with the present ridhima, he's still in love with the ridhima that used to be. A & R fell in love 3 years ago, and now, nothing's the same except their names. so the question is - will the two new people fall in love, with their new personalities, again?

Life's quite complicated, as are people and relationships. I think this is a question which for me doesn't have any one correct or accurate answer. It really depends on a lot of things, of which the past is a part, and a very crucial one, but there's more to it than that.

Very well written, though, Neetz. And well argued too. Awesome! 👏

thanks for commenting nandini! it's good to see you on the forum (: you hardly comment, but I guess that's justified (this forum is hell) 😉 😆

Cheers! 😊

Originally posted by: Rolzz

@ my point is it wont be the first time in history that a girl go back to her ex and there may be successful cases also. So statistically success of the plan even if its a mere 1% why cant AR be in that 1%??
Plus if she is not happy, she cant keep her husband happy and her ex still in love with her its better she go back to her ex and save 3 lifes. It may be immoral for some, but morality is again perspective.
@ i already edited my original post about her changed personality. Whatever I have seen in DMG, Ridhima always showed glimpses of her old self when with Arman. So is AR happens and she comes out of SR she can be the basket again.

Originally posted by: Epiphany

...And they'll never know until they try.😆

I mean it can go two ways. Either it'll fail or it'll succeed. And if Riddhima trusts Armaan to make everything alright, which he always does, then success seems imminent.