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Posted: 15 years ago
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Gur , she has no power . It is all in Manav;'s hands alone . She will never ever ever risk making him angry again .
She knows that he is back in love with her because of all the sacrifices she made ..
She would rather die than have him not trust her again .
If anyone has the power to stop the wedding , it is either Manav or Shravani ....Archana is nothing , she is a nobody now ...she is only living on the crumbs that manav throws at her from time to time .
If this wedding happens , I think she will have even more depression and will hit rock bottom ...once when that happens , she will perhaps then rise after sometime and then we would see a different Archana ... She will have to work hard to change herself .
Her mother would have to help her a lot ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I felt bad for her Gur , when she called manav today , she was hesitant and the talk was strictly about baba and his health only .
While manav had a smile on hsi face when he read her name on his cell and the other day he called her all so romantic ..and crying .
Still she got caught , even though she was not really doing anything wrong and got told off...
Chalo, in a way it was good ...these stupid phone conversations are no good for her .
Edited by Tanyaz - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Gur , she has no power . It is all in Manav;'s hands alone . She will never ever ever risk making him angry again .

She knows that he is back in love with her because of all the sacrifices she made ..
She would rather die than have him not trust her again .
If anyone has the power to stop the wedding , it is either Manav or Shravani ....Archana is nothing , she is a nobody now ...she is only living on the crumbs that manav throws at her from time to time .
If this wedding happens , I think she will have even more depression and will hit rock bottom ...once when that happens , she will perhaps then rise after sometime and then we would see a different Archana ... She will have to work hard to change herself .
Her mother would have to help her a lot ..

Tanya u r so right....Archu is in self punishing mode for the longest time as she did not believe-trust Manav and later found out the truth...She felt guilty and that guilt has driven her to do all the things she has done in last several months...Living under Manav's indirect-unspoken power basically...She does not want to lose Manav's approval of her being so sacrificing..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Manav is a very very stubborn man . It is killing him and his zindagi ( Archana ) but his decision to marry Shravani is firm and no one can change that .
Once Archu was about to tell him in the trian that savita doesn't wants them divorced , but she looked at him and stayed quiet ...then once she was leaving the room and he called her , she looked back at him , hoping he would stop her ....but he didn't .
Verbally he kept to himself ..whenever she felt she coudl not take it any longer , she would go and pour her heart out to him . never tellign him to stop the divorce but just telling him how much she is hurting .. still it didn't stop him ...
First time ever , now only after the divorce manav has told her that he needs her very very badly ... on the phone the other day .
Uptil now , he hardly ever uttered the word love in front of her..
She is terrified of loosing this love that she has earned with so much hard work , solid chamchagiri , loyalty and what not ...
She would never make him angry . She loves him just too much to ever be able to live with the thought that he doesn't like her any more ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Anyway .. the best thing for her to go back to Manav and start a new life with him , put away whatever happened , in the past .
Or if that is not to happen ...then just keep away from him , as if he never existed .. he is like a drug running in her veins .. she has to be treated off him with the same treatment that is given to addicts to cure them off their addiction ...
Keeping in touch with him , if he has to go forever , is the worst possible thing for Archana ... She will never ever come to terms with her loss and wil lalways blame herself for what happened, thus feeling even more low and even more depressed.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Look folks,
Archana has just gone through the worst phase of her life so far . She has lost almost everything she ever wanted and moreover, she is pointedly being told by Manjusha that she is not wanted in her maayka. Obviuosly she will be depressed and sound dead !!! She is not like Varsha to give back. She will have to deal with this the typical Archana way, internalizing everything . Even a normal person is likely to get affected badly by divorce. An emotional fool like Archana will face this her own way. She still has her mother, father and siblings at the moment. Give her time. She will pull through. She just cant give up on life. She wont.
Edited by vishwap - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Vishap, Archana thinks that it is her kismat..but she took the decision in her own hands to ruin her future. We make our own destiny and God helps those who help themselves.....Archana does not believe these lines.
At least the creatives don't believe these lines.
I have never seen, heard, read or even encountered a person in life, dream, movie, drama...never...
This type of person does not exist in this century. Ekta shows rubbish and unreasonable things that are far far from reality.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: PRnerd

this girl needs a REAL MAN!!! quickly.... 😉 so she can forget the soft man 😆 😆


There is a man in Manav's name but his name should really be WOMANAV🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I too think she was so depressed and her depression made her spoke like that and appear so much lifeless.

Because now everything is over, she has lost what she thinks she want the most.So obviously she thinks life has stopped and its over.


I think when she was going to D's house, though she was going to rectify her mistake, she had some hope that she could get back manav with her love. Though she respects manav's decision, I think like us, she too had hopes on manav that he will say no to divorce. But manav dumped her, so obviously she is in this state but I hope she will recover soon.


@Tanya Di. Well written Di.👏

Edited by umayal - 15 years ago

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