DOTW - Pyaar Bada Ya Rupaiya?

With due permission from our wonderful moderator Samyji, I am hosting a Discussion for the Week Topic for this Week........for those who are not aware of this, DOTW is a weekly topic (Every Friday) hosted by any member of the forum with prior permission from the Moderator of the particular forum wherein the member will post a theory / Comment on a particular issue which should be both general in content but also related to the Serial! The other members of the forum are requested to come forward with their comments and views on it.......

The Discussion of This Week is : What is greater in Life, Love or Money?

I know that the obvious and instant answer would be Love.....because we are all sentimental beings inside the Worldly-wise self of ours....but this question is not meant for an instant answer, but a well-thought out one, something which all of you truly believe in! Lets all be completely non-judgemental and frank in our opinion while expressing what matters most to us in life, Love or Money?

And now, some question's related to the Love or Money Angle in Kasamh Se:

• Is Pia marrying Jai only for the sake of his money? Does she truly value Jai's wealth more than Pushkar's love?
• If Pia is giving priority to Jai's wealth over Pushkar's love, does it make her a ''Bad Human Being''. If money is an individual's priority in life, does that person automatically become a selfish human being?
• If Pia is marrying Jai so that she can make her sister's life more comfortable, will you then sympathize with her? Will that fact ease out her guilt of betraying Pushkar's love and trust in her?
• Is Jai equally guilty, because he has brought or tried to buy Pia with money rather than with love? Has he used the Carrot and Stick approach with Pia, where rather than making Pia understand the depth of his feeling's, he has taken the easier route, that of playing on Pia's greatest weakness....her love for the good things in life?
• Jai and Pia have reached an ''understanding'' for their impending marriage. Jai wants companionship from a young & beautiful girl and Pia wants a man who will give her all the things she desires in her life. Both of them are building their future relationship on a compromise, which given time and patience might have a good chance of succeeding, even without love in it! Do you think that a marriage which is based on ''Understanding / Compromise'' rather than ''Love'' ever truly, succeeds?

I would be really, really enthused if you guys participate in this Discussion whole-heartedly, all types of answers are most welcome, serious, witty, funny, emotional.....everything.....but do share your views!

MT

i think marriage is based on mutal trust n honesty...n once u r married, u automatically learn to love ur spouse..money is there as a surviving factor n thats all...n ne1 who gives money their first piority...well then their marriage is already doomed...n wont last long.....as for jai-pia...it seems both of them r equally guilty...but since their "feelings" are not very clear yet,i wouldnt give a lot of comment on it as of now...i'd like to wait n see wat happens...

Originally posted by: mistletoe

The Discussion of This Week is : What is greater in Life, Love or Money?

I know that the obvious and instant answer would be Love.....because we are all sentimental beings inside the Worldly-wise self of ours....but this question is not meant for an instant answer, but a well-thought out one, something which all of you truly believe in! Lets all be completely non-judgemental and frank in our opinion while expressing? what matters most to us in life, Love or Money? great question!👏

if i am going tos ay money can't buy happiness and love then i am going to be steryotype speaker😕;to answer this question from teh center of my heart ,i prefer to say both r very important they r lke 2 faces of the same coin. reasons:u can't live on the basis of love ur whole life.t te same time money ..money and ne love will make life desperate and dipressive thus paving way to a person to go in search of menatl peace and solace!

its natural for a person to feel hugnry to get angry right frombirth at teh sametime thrist for money and love is inherent , need and importance of both in life in equal proportion is required!

And now, some question's related to the Love or Money Angle in Kasamh Se:

• Is Pia marrying Jai only for the sake of his money? Does she truly value Jai's wealth more than Pushkar's love?

come on MT! KYA QUESTION HAI😕Its money and nothing else that matters to her.

pia is not partial she doesn't llove only jai's money she loves money of all , infact MT if u r ready to give urs to her she will take it😆. for her love is something that happens to heer very where she loved puskar as she was under the impression that he gifted her the costly things ,once she realised it wasn't him automatically er feelings towards him started changing .thank god she didn't realise this after her wedding with puskar

• If Pia is giving priority to Jai's wealth over Pushkar's love, does it make her a ''Bad Human Being''. If money is an individual's priority in life, does that person automatically become a selfish human being?

No human being is bad inherently! u call him bad or good is not the person but his/her quality which u think is not suitable to u or the people in general. if u look into everyperson even a hardcore criminal in the jail who is undergoing life inprisonment or a militant in kashmir u will find some good qualites.Pia's love for wealth is her inborn charcter which is not a bad thing unless she does something to get weath at others cost, here pia can be called a self centered and feelingless person not becasue she is marrying jai for his wealth(y blame her it was jai who was asking her to marry his wealth) but becasue she has played with teh emotions of puskar and bani

• If Pia is marrying Jai so that she can make her sister's life more comfortable, will you then sympathize with her? Will that fact ease out her guilt of betraying Pushkar's love and trust in her?

comfortable!or shall i call it as comfort level doesnot depend on money , its a feeling .a person might not feel comforatble in a palace but the same might be the happiest person in hut , so what makes person feel comfortable with ? its how an individual gets along with his/her surroundings.

take my word pia's decison will drift the sisters away,they will never forgive her for this act😕

• Is Jai equally guilty, because he has brought or tried to buy Pia with money rather than with love? Has he used the Carrot and Stick approach with Pia, where rather than making Pia understand the depth of his feeling's, he has taken the easier route, that of playing on Pia's greatest weakness....her love for the good things in life?

jai has done a indepth study of pia's character so he has put forth his wealth to attract pia.equally guily?!come he is the real culprit!😡

Jai and Pia have reached an ''understanding'' for their impending marriage. Jai wants companionship from a young & beautiful girl and Pia wants a man who will give her all the things she desires in her life. Both of them are building their future relationship on a compromise, which given time and patience might have a good chance of succeeding, even without love in it! Do you think that a marriage which is based on ''Understanding / Compromise'' rather than ''Love'' ever truly, succeeds? it varies from case to case now keeping aside pia's case to the side for a while let me anser this question. understanding and compromise is the way by which one can lead a peacefull life. where there is understanding and compromise love automatically tkaes birth.
• but in pia's case who is compromisng?i don't see anyone compramising😆pia was always ready to do anything for money.i don't think she is compromisng but she is taking good advantage of the situation

I would be really, really enthused if you guys participate in this Discussion whole-heartedly, all types of answers are most welcome, serious, witty, funny, emotional.....everything.....but do share your views!

MT

hiiiiiiii MT
well i think marraige is very important decision n it should be based on love n understanding n not on any compromise.

i will never sympathise with pia she has betrayed pushkar love n trust.she is marrying jai just cause he has money n she can get all the comforts n her house back.instead to marrying sumone who is double her age she should have worked in an reputed firm or company n earned enough money to buy back her house from mohan khandelwal.this would have even helped bani to share the expenses.i know it is easy to say then done,no matter how long it would have taken she should have not taken a short take. 😡

she is creating more probs for herself n her sisters😡

hey, you guys.

ok well first of all I would like to say that very interesting discussion topic. So here are my thoughts on this topic....

Well I think that love is definitely more important than money because is there is no love or trust in your marriage or even relationship (whatever ur lifestyle) than all the money in the world can't save it. If u don't trust the person that u r going to spend the rest of ur life with then wats the point in being with them. You will be spending your whole life questioning everything that they say or do.

However, this is only my point of view……..there are many people out there who have grown up like pia, who have not had the best childhood, and money does mean everything to them.

The one thing that I totally agree with pia on is when she says "money means power" because it's all good to say that love can do anything, but the harsh truth is that the world goes around because of money, we are constantly trying to make more money so we can live a better life style. You can deny it all you want, but who doesn't want to buy everything that they have desired. This is just what the reality of the world today is. Everyone is after money.

Also if money is what pia wants and thinks will make her happy, then I think that it's ok because everyone in this world has the right to be happy, as long as they are not hurting someone else. who are we to judge her and everyone like her.

Is Pia marrying Jai only for the sake of his money?
I don't think so

Does she truly value Jai's wealth more than Pushkar's love?
No. Theres something that has gone on between Jai and Pia for her to make this decision

If Pia is giving priority to Jai's wealth over Pushkar's love, does it make her a ''Bad Human Being''. If money is an individual's priority in life, does that person automatically become a selfish human being?
I think Pia is mainly thinking along with herself, her sisters will get what they want in life.
Also i think it may have something to do with their mount abu house

If Pia is marrying Jai so that she can make her sister's life more comfortable, will you then sympathize with her? Will that fact ease out her guilt of betraying Pushkar's love and trust in her?
Maybe a little but there are still other ways for her to make her sisters life comfortable.
No i think she still will feel guilty that after accepting his proposal, shes rejecting him.

Is Jai equally guilty, because he has brought or tried to buy Pia with money rather than with love? Has he used the Carrot and Stick approach with Pia, where rather than making Pia understand the depth of his feeling's, he has taken the easier route, that of playing on Pia's greatest weakness....her love for the good things in life?
Yes he is, coz hes betrayed Sonali, Bani and Pushky. Can't say but is a possibility.

Jai and Pia have reached an ''understanding'' for their impending marriage. Jai wants companionship from a young & beautiful girl and Pia wants a man who will give her all the things she desires in her life. Both of them are building their future relationship on a compromise, which given time and patience might have a good chance of succeeding, even without love in it! Do you think that a marriage which is based on ''Understanding / Compromise'' rather than ''Love'' ever truly, succeeds?
Could work if both make it work. Plus who knows Pia may really fall for Jai later on.

I think money and love come hand in hand; if any of them are missing life may seem shattered. Although I value love more because money can't buy what love can buy for one person!! I think without love life is incomplete and one needs love to keep them going.

Is Pia marrying Jai only for the sake of his money?

There's something definitely wrong, Pia and jai are hiding some sort of truth from the rest!!! It seems rather strange to understand what they might be hiding from the rest.

Maybe jai kept a condition for his engagement which may have been * he will give pia back her family house in mt abu, or * he will take care + support her sisters n her for the rest of there life or something!!! I'm not quite sure as till yet!!
But yes, it is basically for the sake of money pia is marrying jai, which is quite clear…!!!
Does she truly value Jai's wealth more than Pushkar's love?

Well yes, she obviously does value money over pushy's love!! This is clear as, in a way money and future security for her sisters n her does seem like the main factor for pia's engagement!!!

If Pia is marrying Jai so that she can make her sister's life more comfortable, will you then sympathize with her? Will that fact ease out her guilt of betraying Pushkar's love and trust in her?

Well!!! I will sympathise with her, for a like a week if possible!! Coz she really pisses me off, with all the greedy mentality!!! It's like she's never seen money b4!!! The way she reacts when jai puts the diamond necklace on her!! It's so pathetic, I felt like giving her a kick!!

And poor pushy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hate her 4 breaking his heart!!!! Although that's a good thing for the future, as he can have a more deserving gal like bani!!!!!!!! Who will love him all his life!!!!!!!!!!

Jai and Pia have reached an ''understanding'' for their impending marriage. Jai wants companionship from a young & beautiful girl and Pia wants a man who will give her all the things she desires in her life. Both of them are building their future relationship on a compromise, which given time and patience might have a good chance of succeeding, even without love in it! Do you think that a marriage which is based on ''Understanding / Compromise'' rather than ''Love'' ever truly, succeeds?

Well the marriage working out!!! Depends on them!!! A marriage that has understanding tends to last long, and I fink it may last!! Coz love can fade out at some point, but the understanding level between two people tends to remain..

I duno man!!! I'm confused I think both understanding and love is important in a marriage!!! As that's the right ingredients for a successful marriage!!!

And I think love will come into there marriage to, as pia will start to fall in love with jai!!! Maybe she already has, due to the diamond necklace!! N pia tends to fall in love, with men who r rich really easily..