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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

I don;t understand why we women want abhi to hurt Simi?

Are we asking for domestic violence physical abuse by or loved one.

we get happy when a hero hurts heroine and say she deserved it.

No woman desrves to be shown that man are more powerful than them that they can hurt woman physiclally even that includes holding hand tight in the rage or pushing and shoving her.

I mean ppl like Anita asked for is since she always hurt others and do bad to others and never respects her inlaws or husband.

Simi has shown her utmost reapect to abhi and his family. She has gotten insulted repeatedly trying to mend fences between abhi and his family. Begged and bring back anita. Begged abhi to bring anita back to her sasural even though it was for his mother at the cost of their love.

So why does abhi forgets all these?

I don;t know rest of you. But I condemn such behavior from any man.

No woman deserves such treatment from her husband no matter how angry he is.

Put yourself in Simi's situation and ask yourself do u desrve such treatment or allow your huby or love or boyfriend to treat you this way. we are not perfect either and so for the mistake we made do we deserve this. From time to time in any marriage we hide things from our loved ones. and they do come out.

If your answer is "No "then why are we suporting a male domination or men to overpower woman physcially.

if we woman think this way they we deserve what we get and that is physical abuse . and even god can not save us.

guys this is very serious issue that is faced in all societies and cultures.

Being angry does not give one a right to hurt the weak person. in the realtionship physcically.

You all can disagree with me. But I feel storngly about using a physical force because something did not go our way. I was shocked yesterday when he held simi's hand and pushed her. and again today.

i am definaely not advocate of simi. But definately advocate all the women who are hurt by men physically and made felt demeaning. or lesser.

How would we have felt if simi had pushed abhi or held his hand that way that it hurts him when he hid something from her.

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Posted: 15 years ago

we dont want any type of violence...........
we just want abhi to show sum attitude so dat simi realizes his worth and stops believing dat abhi is bachaa and only she can solve all the problems alone..........
she should give due respect to abhi........after all abhi is her hubby..........

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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: pooja83
we dont want any type of violence...........
we just want abhi to show sum attitude so dat simi realizes his worth and stops believing dat abhi is bachaa and only she can solve all the problems alone..........
she should give due respect to abhi........after all abhi is her hubby..........

definately agree so it is a matter of power struggle. Finally abhi is showing your days are numbered simi finally I am in driver's seat / Just like rest of the men and from now on you do waht I want. because I am now a earning member of this family.

and man of the house. Abhi should first prove that giving her things she desrves and get her out fo shethi nivas.

Jokes apart I am not aginst abhi or saying that he should not get angry or punish Simi. But showing her he is pysically more powerful is very wrong and also us saying simi desrved to be punished. I might have put an option in my other post slap simi.

But i don;t think any man should slap his wife if she has done wrong with good intention and have utmost love and care for her huby and is family and hid the fact to protect him.

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Posted: 15 years ago

Ramas , none of us want a women to be humuliated , and being treated badly .......................

but at times simi needs to realise its not going to be about her and her family alll the time , anda in precap abhi clearly said somthing reagarding hurting his family , he was just angry and he would never ever hurt her intentionallly , he was pissed off last time tooo but simi handled it , rather explaning then itself , but this time dude lost his mind .....................

it wont last long and iam saying again:- abhi was not trying to prove he is stronger then her wiht just holding her hand

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Dhabu89

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Posted: 15 years ago

I am also against any kind of physical abuse on any human being...But what is annoying me here is why is Abhi put in this list of hoodlums? Abhi DID NOT hurt Simi in any physical way....He only grabed Simi and she was surprised to see Abhi's anger in this way!

Saying Abhi is a abuser or making it look like he is a abuser is an insult to his character and to his intelligence.....Up until now Abhi has been thru a lot of insults and abuse himself by Simi's family members and his own sister.....Any man who has been thru this himself is INCAPABLE of hurting another human being!

Abhi is angry......YES....but if he was going to abuse Simi wouldn't he be at home beating her up instead of walking the streets of Delhi looking for the real culprit? Abhi had lots of chances to take his anger out on Simi....but he didn't! I am a woman who is defending Abhi because HE DID NOT DO ANYTHING WRONG!!!!!!

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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: JayaV
Ramas , none of us want a women to be humuliated , and being treated badly .......................
but at times simi needs to realise its not going to be about her and her family alll the time , anda in precap abhi clearly said somthing reagarding hurting his family , he was just angry and he would never ever hurt her intentionallly , he was pissed off last time tooo but simi handled it , rather explaning then itself , but this time dude lost his mind .....................

it wont last long and iam saying again:- abhi was not trying to prove he is stronger then her wiht just holding her hand

well he did it unfortunately in sort of abusive way. We in our society take abuse word only when women are beaten up and scared or bruised.

Abhi surely has scared her emotionaly Simi and might have bruised her alreadyin her arm hlding her such a way,

Then waht is the difference between RB and abhi. RB wanted to forcefully get simi and Abhi want sto use force on simi and scare her and punish her for something she did she thought to protect him.

Abhi has truly cross limit and from loving caring husband he has become abusive possesive husband . I hope they stop this right here and nos show simi in shock and scare state any more.

No much now much man is hurt or angry he does not resort to violence.

He wanted to protect his simi and what he is doing he is hurting her instead.

He will have rude awakening if she gets hurt trying to protect him.

Simi stood between him and Nakul's sword to save him and told ht ewhole world abhi is her husband and took abuse from her mom.

Simi is a loving caring woman who does not deserve such treatment.

I am just too upset as every one thinks it is ok for abhi to act like a maniac and hurt Simi.

No sensible talk 2 ppl should have to clear such matter. he stops her from talking then he accuses you did not tell me.

simi even told me I am scared and afraid of you?

which wife wants to be afraid of her husband.

God I hope this stop right here,

I think part of simi will never recover from this shock. But we all know simi is kind of person who will never stand up for anything even though she is abused badly and bruised and scared. and still love the person.

That is why she was ready to marry person like RB.

I think what creatives are showing is not Abhi's love / but his possessivness that some thing he owned is looked at wrongfully.

and for that I hope he does not punish simi. as she is a victim here. I hope everything is ok by tom. as I can not watch some such sort of behavior from loving husband like Abhi.

I don't want abhi to punish simi any further physically.

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RoyalT

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Posted: 15 years ago

I am against violence of any kind. Even a slug like RB doesn't deserve to be beaten. Jailed yes. Beaten or stabbed no. Abhi or any person for that matter has no right to put his hands on woman/child/human being. Yes, Abhi is justified in his anger. But I think the CV's need to show him being more mature. Once again, I miss the Abhi of old who used his brain and not his fist. I don't even like all of the slapping that goes on on KB. No more violence please. Romance is what drew many to the show not rough housing, rape, or any of the other crap we've seen lately. Enough already!!!!!!

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ramas

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: RoyalT
I am against violence of any kind. Even a slug like RB doesn't deserve to be beaten. Jailed yes. Beaten or stabbed no. Abhi or any person for that matter has no right to put his hands on woman/child/human being. Yes, Abhi is justified in his anger. But I think the CV's need to show him being more mature. Once again, I miss the Abhi of old who used his brain and not his fist. I don't even like all of the slapping that goes on on KB. No more violence please. Romance is what drew many to the show not rough housing, rape, or any of the other crap we've seen lately. Enough already!!!!!!

So agree wit you Abhi simi romance swetness love and care that attracted us to this serial. And what break my heart is that simi is like a guy and abhi knows it she takes verbal emotial abuse from every one and he is her strength.

So why in the world he has started treating her like sh eis some low life person. Enough is enough CVS. Send simi in time there and let her get hurt trying to pertect abhi.

Abhi where are the days when you were ready to elecrocute yourself to prov eyour love and now you are giving shock after shock to ur love.😡

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Greg Komarniski

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Posted: 15 years ago

I totally agree 100% with 99% of what all the women here have said.

Simi did wrong by not telling Abhi what that sicko RB was doing with her. But at the same time, Abhi should of not twisted Simis arm. As for RB, that is a different story. He deserves everything he gets. Scumbag! 😡