~~~~DOTW~~ !!Mismatch marriage!! - Page 9

Originally posted by: ammoos

Everyone done with this discussion.. no one seems to be interested🤔

All though the discussion was one sided. Seemed very interesting reading personal posts of members.

Before comment on this I want to shares with u all something.

Just few months ago I was visited at my friend's elder bother's mrg & u know what the groom was almost 37 years old he was in hotel management & bride was just 22 years old she is studying in college & it was there arranged marriage. They both are also living in Mumbai & now they r very happy with each other & having madly love with each other.

Now u thinking why I share this news with u guy's b'coz the age difference btw bride & groom is almost 15 years & also they both r not knowing each other before marriage.

& in Bandini also Destiny makes Santu married to Dm for sake of her nanaji b'coz nanaji choose Dm for her & it became nanji's true decision. (which i felt)

I just want to tell u guy's I don't think age difference is really matters in mrg. B'coz when u getting mrg to some one either it's arranged or love u getting it b'coz u like/love some one. And if u love someone so age & cast differences r really doesn't meter. And also when ur parents choose some one for u they choose it for seeing ur goodness.

I agreed guy's sometime age difference r meters but in true love when u loves someone truly & deeply from heart then if any the one moment which u spends with him/her is satisfied for u for spending ur whole life whether u will be with him/her or not (I know I m talking like Santu but I m believing it deeply).

So for me I having no problem in mismatch marriages. If I get chance so I love to mrg with some one whom I love or like or my parents choose for me what ever his age i didn't mind it.

The age difference between spouses does not make much difference in marriage rather it is mismatched temperaments, values, willingness to make necessary adjustments that result in mismatched marriage. Age would only come into play in marriage and lead to mismatched marriage if there is no compatibility between partners. In Santu's case we can see that initially she was forced into marriage but later on she fell in love with DM cos of his principles, values ... and she stepped forward and declared her love for him. Marriage works with commitment, adjustment and understanding by both the partners not other factors like age, caste, religion...