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s000

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Dazzler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#61

no anu what you said was brilliant and makes sense

see i personally would want to marry (which is never) someone older than me - not younger does not feel right for me

but i got to say what everyone has said makes great sense and is true!!

@bade miyan - mismatch marrigae - just referring to age? or other things aswell

@chalia - sorry 😳- see i kind of got away with it but then sanj made it obviouse daffor haina

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hamsgh

@hamsgh

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#62

OK so we are all talking big words 😆.... but can i just twist the discussion topic a bit ;

suppose your 22 years old daughter ( suppose i said) came to you saying that she fell in love with a perfect 45 years old man😲!! you did your investigations and the man turned out to be PERFECT as your daughter said ...... what will you say\do ?????😕

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s000

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Dazzler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#63

hamda why do you always make people think - bade miyan is going to love you for that though

see i really dont know about that - i would prob say no but not sure

i think it all depends on the time - like in the olden days it was more of thing and suitable, where as now its diff

but your saying shes in love hmmmm - im going to let the ladies with kids answer this one

good one though👏

this is mine and fuzzys thoughts but you know the exception

Edited by s000 - 15 years ago

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chalia

@chalia

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Posted: 15 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: hamdasgh

OK so we are all talking big words 😆.... but can i just twist the discussion topic a bit ;

suppose your 22 years old daughter ( suppose i said) came to you saying that she fell in love with a perfect 45 years old man😲!! you did your investigations and the man turned out to be PERFECT as your daughter said ...... what will you say\do ?????😕

Do you seriously think Hamda that this generation is going to wait for your/my permission. We live in an age where they will inform us about their choice. I doubt whether an influence on their decision will be appreciated.

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anu_cooldude

@anu_cooldude

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: s000
hamda why do you always make people think - bade miyan is going to love you for that though
see i really dont know about that - i would prob say no but not sure

i think it all depends on the time - like in the olden days it was more of thing and suitable, where as now its diff

but your saying shes in love hmmmm - im going to let the ladies with kids answer this one

good one though👏

this is mine and fuzzys thoughts but you know the exception

Oye , Sapna -Me too with you........

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Shahara

@Shahara3

Dazzler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#66

Hi guys just jumping in.

All I can say is from experience my husband is 10yrs older than me, I'm 25 and he is 35, I got married at 20 and he was 30, I've been happily married for 5 yrs 😃
It was an arranged marriage but I said yes, my parents never forced me into it. I don't think I could marry anyone younger than me or the same ages as me as all the males I know who I could legally marry were always too imature and never proved or voiced that they could be a caring understanding husband and never saw that spark or clicked in the same way as them. My parents knew this so they searched for someone older than me who would match me. I think if I met him before being introduced us, I know I would have fallen for him and we would end up getting married. You need to find someone on the same wavelength as you and I do think girls are more maturer than boys than their age so they need someone older. My POV.

My grandparents had 20yrs difference between them
My parents have 10yrs difference
My older sister and her husband have 10yrs difference

All the above relations are still going strong apart from my grandparents as my Nana died a year ago but my Nani is still lives in his memories and I witnessed their marriage the years I was present. They were 2 souls as 1, they knew eachother inside out and because they worked at their marriage. My Nana was 41 and my Nani was 20 and they were married for 60yrs and had 10 children together who are now in the ages range from 59 being the eldest and the youngest is 30. My mum learnt from her parents love and I have learnt from my parents love, both need to understand eachother not keep secrets, always be therefore for eachother, protect eachother and most importantly not let their be a third part get into your marriage and you do need that physical attraction as well as the attraction to your partners mind, we do have disagreements and misunderstanding but then we sit down and discuss our issues and talk things through and we understand eachother and we always make decisions together. Marriage there needs to be honesty, trust, faith and love.

Theres my POV.

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Shahara

@Shahara3

Dazzler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#67

I forgot to say me and my husband although we have things in common we are still complete opposites and this compliments and works for us. 😊

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Shahara

@Shahara3

Dazzler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: anu_cooldude
Oye , Sapna -Me too with you........

Marriage is one of the most beautiful relationship in life and when you experience it you'll agree and theres always someone out there for you, I believe this, at birth you are created for eachother but you just need to find eachother and destiny will bring you together how, when, where how ever long it takes!

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s000

@s000

Dazzler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#69

shah you won my heart by saying that - that was beautiful!!

i know were not allwoed to say no one liners

but i had to say that was AMZAING!!

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anu_cooldude

@anu_cooldude

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#70

Shahi--Well that was awesome.......Ya I know one day we will definitely feel the need of a partner, all I know is its still not time for us......And ya we might even change our views........

Again about age as long as the couples are happy--There is no problem because even my parents have an age gap of 10 years( dad is elder).......Life is moving well......both of them respect each other's view-and that 's what I like about my parents.............But I still prefer men to be older than their wives.......

Edited by anu_cooldude - 15 years ago