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ammoos

@ammoos

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#51

Why cant you follow the simple rules.. I had said NO ONE LINERS or chatting... But no one seems to follow it😭 Plz stick to the DISCUSSION only

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kichwamaji

@kichwamaji

Voyager

Posted: 15 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: ammoos
Why cant you follow the simple rules.. I had said NO ONE LINERS or chatting... But no one seems to follow it😭 Plz stick to the DISCUSSION only

I am sorry....but i can not resist adding my comments ammoos😳....i am just trying to read this some what heavy and seroius discussion and along come Fuzzy and Sapz with their hilarious one- liners....followed by a stern reprimand in the form of a reminder from you....and what is the reply???

They press the LIKE button😆😆😆😆😆😆!!!

Only here....!!!!🤣

Edited by kichwamaji - 15 years ago

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s000

@s000

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#53

Marriage is a social union or legal contract between individuals that creates kinship. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged in a variety of ways, depending on the culture or subculture in which it is found. Such a union may also be called matrimony, while the ceremony that marks its beginning is usually called a wedding

People marry for many reasons, most often including one or more of the following: legal, social, emotional, economical, spiritual, and religious. These might include arranged marriages, family obligations, the legal establishment of a nuclear family unit, the legal protection of children and public declaration of love

Marriage practices are very diverse across cultures, may take many forms, and are often formalized by a wedding. The act of marriage usually creates normative or legal obligations between the individuals involved. In some societies these obligations also extend to certain family members of the married persons. Almost all cultures that recognize marriage also recognize adultery as a violation of the terms of marriage

Islam also commends marriage, with the AGE of marriage being whenever the individuals feel ready, financially and emotionally.

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(if you wnat to ask me where i got all the above from i will tell you later😉)

(that one was for bade miyan)

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-SilverFlames-

@-SilverFlames-

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#54

A big aspect in keeping a marriage successful is how much communication occurs between the two people involved. For a healthy relationship there is a need for quite a bit of communication. Communication is one of the key elements to a successful marriage. There has to be some open discussions and trust in the relationship to make it anywhere. If you can not talk to your partner you will not be able to solve problems in a healthy manner. You have to be able to tell your partner things to help you learn and mature with them. You have to learn how to compromise and help each other out. Communication has to be part of your relationship in some way. You cannot go through your life not talking to your partner about important issues that you should be able to talk to them about.

Other Important Factors..

Respect

Mutual respect is a very important for both. Partners might have a difference of opinion on a number of different subjects. It's important to remember that we are all individuals with free will, this is perfectly natural.

As long as you remember the common faiths and beliefs that you marriage rests upon will your marriage will survive any hardships.

Trust

Trust is another critical factor that must be handled with care to make your marriage successful. If you are suspicions of your partners behavior the very best thing you can do is to confront her/him directly in a calm and normal manner.

Having an open communication will minimize the risk for friction and keep your marriage strong.

Patience

Life can't always be sunny and bright. Even the sun has dark spots. Marriage will most likely face hardships in some point in time. Again communication is very important so that you can both work towards a better tomorrow.

Marriage is a long term commitment that must be nurtured, or else it will become stale and
weak.

The most successful marriages work because all of these factors are handled with care.

This is for you Uma..
(Ask me later if you want to know where i got this from😆😛)

Edited by SanRajDeewani - 15 years ago

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ammoos

@ammoos

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#55

I want YOUR opinions and views on the topic not a copy paste form random sites😳 Yes of course, the gae comes only at the ned after, love, respect, trust and patience😛

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-SilverFlames-

@-SilverFlames-

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: ammoos
I want YOUR opinions and views on the topic not a copy paste form random sites😳 Yes of course, the gae comes only at the ned after, love, respect, trust and patience😛

Those are my opinions.. I just agreed with what somebody else said and used their points to put across my POV..😛 It was easier than copying the whole thing again in my own words..😆 😆

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chalia

@chalia

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#57

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Originally posted by: SanRajDeewani
Those are my opinions.. I just agreed with what somebody else said and used their points to put across my POV..😛 It was easier than copying the whole thing again in my own words..😆 😆

Sanju girl, you are just such a riot! And Sapz, whats with the cut and paste? Arre yaar, DM key alawa bhi kuch to socha kar!

Come on now both of you say "sorry" to me for cutting and pasting when you should have written out the veritable college essay. I mean, knowing i am around and will be deeply hurt by all this, how could you both do this? 😆😆

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Aamras

@Aamras

Explorer

Posted: 15 years ago

#58

😆 😆 😆 This seems to be caught in the act of plagiarism. Caught red handed by ammoos! What a defense SanRajDeewani!! 😆 😆

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ammoos

@ammoos

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#59

Originally posted by: kavitasharma0
Hello ladies!
I think those in holy relationship must think in the same wavelength. After all its all in the mind 😉

But even the most understanding couple might have different wavelengh No single factor can be the basis for a successful marriage, its a collective effort

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anu_cooldude

@anu_cooldude

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#60

Hmm I don't have anything to say about marriages, Experts like Chalia, Umadi, radhi di have said........😆.all I remember is whenever I go for vacation to India(years back) , a broker used to visit my granny's place to find a match for my Mamaji and Buaji.😆.I guess majority of present generation prefer the age difference between their spouse to be somewhere 5-7 years or 2 -3 years...

.....But the question here is about age gap..Two lives becomes one -that's marriage..No you need love, trust etc .

Well my friend used to say that she will marry someone who is elder to her but destiny had somethingelse for her.She ended being with a guy younger to her.Well at first I did'nt like this idea but then this couple was really understanding and loving ....

But still I don't know why I feel it little awkward if the couple has an age difference more than 25 years(Exclude SanRaj)😆...But then if such people are comfortable , I guess society should give them space and peace instead of dragging then into controversies for the fodder hungry people.Now what I am actually saying, I am 🤪😳

Edited by anu_cooldude - 15 years ago